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re: Ross Harris found guilty on all 8 counts in the death of his kid.

Posted on 11/14/16 at 3:33 pm to
Posted by slackster
Houston
Member since Mar 2009
91871 posts
Posted on 11/14/16 at 3:33 pm to
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But I never EVER become complacent, and then I'm the one saying I thought it would never happen to me.


Exactly. The theme you'll often find in these tragedies is that it happens to the family you'd least expect. The people who understand that it can happen are often the ones that actively guard against it. The ones who think all you have to do is keep your kid as the #1 priority at all times and nothing bad will ever happen are the ones in the news each summer.
Posted by MorbidTheClown
Baton Rouge
Member since Jan 2015
76769 posts
Posted on 11/14/16 at 3:37 pm to
i forgot to strap the car seat in once when my oldest kid was just a few months old. Turned a corner and it tipped over. No injuries, just scared her.

I spent the next few days thinking about what could have happened.Never forgot again. just pure luck it didn't end worse.
Posted by Pavoloco83
Acworth Ga. too many damn dawgs
Member since Nov 2013
15347 posts
Posted on 11/14/16 at 3:38 pm to
Hope this a-hole gets the jesus juice. We got no problem doing that over here in Georgia.
Posted by slackster
Houston
Member since Mar 2009
91871 posts
Posted on 11/14/16 at 3:40 pm to
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I'm with you man. Making excuses for this shite blows me away.


There are no excuses. The thing people should take away - this case notwithstanding - is that it can happen to anyone. The only negligent act is failing to realize it can happen to anyone and developing some sort of system that helps address the real possibility that it can happen to you.
Posted by TheCaterpillar
Member since Jan 2004
76774 posts
Posted on 11/14/16 at 3:40 pm to
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Investigators found Harris made online searches in the days before Cooper's death related directly to babies in hot cars, and one search for "how to survive prison."



Apparently this is actually not true. He was on a couple Reddit threads about it.

Just like we're on TD thread about it now.



And then it happened to him and his browser history looked like he was searching about it.
Posted by hiltacular
NYC
Member since Jan 2011
20239 posts
Posted on 11/14/16 at 3:42 pm to
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Other than him googling hot car deaths days before it happened?


This didn't happen, fwiw.

LINK
Posted by slackster
Houston
Member since Mar 2009
91871 posts
Posted on 11/14/16 at 3:44 pm to
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i forgot to strap the car seat in once when my oldest kid was just a few months old. Turned a corner and it tipped over. No injuries, just scared her. I spent the next few days thinking about what could have happened.Never forgot again. just pure luck it didn't end worse.


People love to get all high and mighty on other parents when the fact of the matter is that the "bad" parents are the ones who got unlucky. These situations are slightly different, but sometimes making your child the priority is the stressor itself.

I agree with those that suggest there is no excuse though. There shouldn't be an excuse once you understand that simply loving your child at all times does not actively prevent this kind of thing.
Posted by sandwolf
Member since Jun 2015
61 posts
Posted on 11/14/16 at 3:45 pm to
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The people who understand that it can happen are often the ones that actively guard against it.


Agreed.
Posted by Byrdybyrd05
Member since Nov 2014
26559 posts
Posted on 11/14/16 at 3:47 pm to
Good I wish they would leave him in a hot car just like he did with his son but in the middle of August with thermal long johns on.
Posted by slackster
Houston
Member since Mar 2009
91871 posts
Posted on 11/14/16 at 3:50 pm to
FWIW, GMC is shipping all 2017 Acadia's with a rear seat warning to help prevent some of these tragedies.

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General Motors (GM) is introducing a new feature on the 2017 GMC Acadia to help prevent such tragedies. Much like a seat belt reminder, a warning tone will sound and a reminder to "Look In Rear Seat" will appear in the center of the Acadia's speedometer.

The feature uses the same back door sensors that tell you a door is open when you're driving. If those sensors detect a back door being opened and closed before the driver gets in and starts the car -- or any time while the engine is running -- then the back seat warning is triggered.

Posted by LNCHBOX
70448
Member since Jun 2009
89339 posts
Posted on 11/14/16 at 3:50 pm to
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I can't, and I'm tired of fricking saying it.


Then STFU already.
Posted by LNCHBOX
70448
Member since Jun 2009
89339 posts
Posted on 11/14/16 at 3:51 pm to
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coming from you...wow.


Well, you sound like an a-hole here.

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Not mistake free...just not nearly cooking my kids type of mistakes. That's the type of mistake that's EASY not to commit.


Until you do it. Get over yourself.
Posted by Mad_Mardigan
Baton Rouge
Member since Aug 2012
1967 posts
Posted on 11/14/16 at 3:54 pm to
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There are no excuses. The thing people should take away - this case notwithstanding - is that it can happen to anyone. The only negligent act is failing to realize it can happen to anyone and developing some sort of system that helps address the real possibility that it can happen to you.


I get what you are saying, however, I have a hard time believing that it can happen to anyone. It happens to selfish people who put their needs/wants before their children. I'm sorry but I would never say that it could possibly happen to me. Not even a remote percentage of a chance. That may seem like it comes across as being holier than thou but it is a fact. I will never understand how someone can be that irresponsible.
Posted by LNCHBOX
70448
Member since Jun 2009
89339 posts
Posted on 11/14/16 at 3:55 pm to
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I'm sorry but I would never say that it could possibly happen to me. Not even a remote percentage of a chance. That may seem like it comes across as being holier than thou but it is a fact. I will never understand how someone can be that irresponsible.



How many things have you said that about yourself for, and then ended up doing them?
Posted by dmjones
Acworth, GA
Member since Mar 2016
2303 posts
Posted on 11/14/16 at 3:59 pm to
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I always talk to my toddler in the car so it's very unlikely I would ever forget he's there. Plus, he's super chatty. But I hope I never EVER become complacent, and then I'm the one saying I thought it would never happen to me.


My 22 month old never shuts up. Plus, he likes to try to get out of his car seat, so if we're driving more than a mile we have to constantly look back to make sure that he isn't putting himself in a dangerous situation.
Posted by Mad_Mardigan
Baton Rouge
Member since Aug 2012
1967 posts
Posted on 11/14/16 at 4:00 pm to
None that relate to the safety of my child.
Posted by PearlJam
NotBeardEaves
Member since Aug 2014
13908 posts
Posted on 11/14/16 at 4:00 pm to
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It happens to selfish people who put their needs/wants before their children.
You would have to be an absolute moron to think this is the cause of most of these accidents.
Posted by LNCHBOX
70448
Member since Jun 2009
89339 posts
Posted on 11/14/16 at 4:01 pm to
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None that relate to the safety of my child.



You never once did anything wrong with your kid? Not one time?

Never almost dropped them, gave them the wrong food or medicine, nothing?

Even you don't believe that.
Posted by dmjones
Acworth, GA
Member since Mar 2016
2303 posts
Posted on 11/14/16 at 4:02 pm to
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Hope this a-hole gets the jesus juice. We got no problem doing that over here in Georgia.



Prosecution wasn't seeking the death penalty. He'll never be free again though. Three of those counts carry a mandatory life sentence.
Posted by MorbidTheClown
Baton Rouge
Member since Jan 2015
76769 posts
Posted on 11/14/16 at 4:02 pm to
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Even you don't believe that.


i guess some people really ARE perfect?
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