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Record a conversation with every person you love.

Posted on 6/3/20 at 11:14 am
Posted by _Hurricane_
Somewhere
Member since Feb 2016
7685 posts
Posted on 6/3/20 at 11:14 am
Doesn’t have to be a long one or an important one. Just record anything with their voice when they’re talking to you. I wish I had done this with my Grandfather. You never know when someone could be taken from you. You never want to forget the voices of the people you love. It hurts every time I have to struggle and remember what he sounded like.
Posted by Paul Allen
Montauk, NY
Member since Nov 2007
78721 posts
Posted on 6/3/20 at 11:15 am to
I’ve done the same with keeping voicemails
Posted by Kay
Member since Mar 2011
1944 posts
Posted on 6/3/20 at 11:19 am to
I lost my voicemail from my grandma when ATT went out during the flood. Meh.
Posted by yatesdog38
in your head rent free
Member since Sep 2013
12737 posts
Posted on 6/3/20 at 11:26 am to
Some states this is illegal without prior consent.
Posted by LegendInMyMind
Member since Apr 2019
76209 posts
Posted on 6/3/20 at 11:30 am to
I'd lose the thumb drive I saved it on or forget the password to the cloud it is on. Or most of the conversations would turn into arguments. Or half the folks in my family would be highly skeptical of any recording device and would just clam up and not say a word out of fear of incriminating themselves.
Worst case, my phone gets broken.
Posted by When in Rome
Telegraph Road
Member since Jan 2011
36242 posts
Posted on 6/3/20 at 11:31 am to
I have one voicemail of my grandmother singing me happy birthday from many years ago that I cherish so much. I have it saved in like 5 different places.
Posted by Hogwarts
Arkansas, USA
Member since Sep 2015
18403 posts
Posted on 6/3/20 at 11:31 am to
Yeah I would give anything to spend an afternoon with any of my grandparents.

You never know what you have until it's gone.
Posted by Paluka
One State Over
Member since Dec 2010
10763 posts
Posted on 6/3/20 at 11:33 am to
I have several voicemails from my wife. She passed away almost 3 years ago. She always told me how much she loved me. These are good to have when I need them.
Posted by FLObserver
Jacksonville
Member since Nov 2005
16282 posts
Posted on 6/3/20 at 11:56 am to
Yeap i wish i would have done the same for my grandma . i used to speak with her every week on the phone and regret not recording her voice She passed nearly 4 years ago and that is definetly one of my regrets not doing so.
Posted by klrstix
Shreveport, LA
Member since Oct 2006
3649 posts
Posted on 6/3/20 at 12:03 pm to
My mother died of cancer in January of 2006. When we were informed that her time was coming to an end, I immediately thought about sitting down with her and video a conversation with her kinda like an interview. My thinking was that I would ask her about things like her favorite childhood memories, (She grew on a logging road in the depression) how she met my dad, valuable life lessons she has learned, things like that. The intent would be to have the video available for her great grandkids she would never meet.

Unfortunately due to how quickly she deteriorated that never happened. It both makes me sad and angry everytime I think about it.

Posted by Breesus
Unplug
Member since Jan 2010
69549 posts
Posted on 6/3/20 at 12:05 pm to
I have a voicemail from my grandfather before he died calling to thank me for bringing my son to see him and telling me he loves me.

I still listen to it every once in a while. One of the Greatest men I’ve ever known.
Posted by AUCE05
Member since Dec 2009
45429 posts
Posted on 6/3/20 at 12:13 pm to
Wouldn't this delay the natural grieving process?
Posted by Slevin7
Member since Sep 2015
2837 posts
Posted on 6/3/20 at 12:20 pm to
Also helps in the divorce.
Posted by tduecen
Member since Nov 2006
161246 posts
Posted on 6/3/20 at 12:21 pm to
I had a recording my grandmother had sent me before she died. Sadly when I had to get a new phone it was lost forever, wish I had saved it in my email or something
Posted by littleavery1948
Member since Oct 2014
6481 posts
Posted on 6/3/20 at 12:24 pm to
quote:

Doesn’t have to be a long one or an important one. Just record anything with their voice when they’re talking to you. I wish I had done this with my Grandfather. You never know when someone could be taken from you. You never want to forget the voices of the people you love. It hurts every time I have to struggle and remember what he sounded like.


My grandfather died in 2010, but he had a stroke in 1999. He never called my cell phone so I don't have any from him. I have a voicemail saved from each of my siblings in case something happened. When my brother went to Iraq, I kept a voicemail from him. One of my friends who was in his 60's left me a VM, then died suddenly. I had it, then T-mobile automatically deleted it.
Posted by shutterspeed
MS Gulf Coast
Member since May 2007
73867 posts
Posted on 6/3/20 at 12:27 pm to
That’s what Ouija boards are for.
Posted by lsufan_26
Member since Feb 2004
12559 posts
Posted on 6/3/20 at 12:42 pm to
quote:

Wouldn't this delay the natural grieving process?

Not sure what this has to do with wanting to hear a loved one's voice after they've passed.
This post was edited on 6/3/20 at 12:43 pm
Posted by _Hurricane_
Somewhere
Member since Feb 2016
7685 posts
Posted on 6/3/20 at 12:43 pm to
quote:

Wouldn't this delay the natural grieving process?


Maybe a little. But once the pain subsides, listening to the voice of a late loved one makes you smile, not cry.
Posted by Jim Rockford
Member since May 2011
106137 posts
Posted on 6/3/20 at 12:44 pm to
I'll just leave this here LINK
Posted by Lsupimp
Ersatz Amerika-97.6% phony & fake
Member since Nov 2003
86556 posts
Posted on 6/3/20 at 12:45 pm to
Thanks for this idea . I can close my eyes and hear all my grandparents clearly . I would love to hear my brother’s voice. Or his laugh.
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