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re: Question to people with great singing voices, were you neglected as a child?
Posted on 1/20/21 at 11:52 am to ShoeBang
Posted on 1/20/21 at 11:52 am to ShoeBang
You've described me almost verbatim, except the suicide and temper part, and I can cook but don't necessarily enjoy it. Frickin weird to live life and always try to hold yourself down. Frickin a-hole 
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Posted on 1/20/21 at 1:12 pm to Kujo
I'm failing to see any real correlation. Having an improved and decent voice can come with training and practice, having a voice that is good enough to set you apart is basically just dumb luck that you are born with, imo atleast. A lot of these famous musician's are born with ability (or atleast an ability and inclination to learn quickly) to hear notes and label it in their mind and mimic it with their voice or on an instrument. That is not something that is easily learned. shite some of those people with perfect tone probably don't even realize what each note is for a long time, they just know which ones naturally go with one another and which ones contrast.
I will say that a lot of well known musicians have had it rough which is probably what pushed them to work so hard on music as an escape.
I will say that a lot of well known musicians have had it rough which is probably what pushed them to work so hard on music as an escape.
This post was edited on 1/20/21 at 1:19 pm
Posted on 1/20/21 at 1:21 pm to The Mick
I have a cousin that was beautiful- could sing,played piano and guitar by ear and was very good artist.She had it all but was always very insecure,depressed.She’s pushing 70 and her life has been a clusterfrick.Her older sister,while attractive,had none of those talents but was always happy go lucky,cheerful.She still is,and has a great life.
It is strange looking at the contrast between them.
It is strange looking at the contrast between them.
Posted on 1/20/21 at 2:12 pm to ShoeBang
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quick tempered, and prone to telling people where they can stick it. I work on all these issues every day.
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some sad excuse for a human downvoted this. Can't outwardly disagree and have a discussion, pussy?
This cat knows himself very well
Posted on 1/20/21 at 3:27 pm to Kujo
keep processing those thoughts. Half of what you are saying is absolutely right. Maybe not the vocal training part, but the artist part is.
Some people are more perceptive to emotions than others, and artist are a great example. Their perceptivity brings in great achievement, and great strife.
But yeah parental neglect is the invisible trauma that no one sees. Trauma is not what happens to you but also what doesn’t happen to you.
We live in a dysfunctional society, that promotes stress and ignoring our emotions. Instead we cope with things like food media Workaholism drugs and alcohol,(often these things are heavenly advertised and sold to us, but that’s another tangent). The use of these coping mechanisms are trying to replace human connections, and things accomplish by human connection. The things we cope with almost work, but leave us wanting more, that’s why they’re addictive. The dysfunction is intergenerational, and cyclical, dysfunctional parenting creates dysfunctional kids.
Most adults today our result of neglected parenting, and the increase of mental dysfunction is apparent. Today’s young parents are even more so neglecting their children by using media smart phones etc.
Some people are more perceptive to emotions than others, and artist are a great example. Their perceptivity brings in great achievement, and great strife.
But yeah parental neglect is the invisible trauma that no one sees. Trauma is not what happens to you but also what doesn’t happen to you.
We live in a dysfunctional society, that promotes stress and ignoring our emotions. Instead we cope with things like food media Workaholism drugs and alcohol,(often these things are heavenly advertised and sold to us, but that’s another tangent). The use of these coping mechanisms are trying to replace human connections, and things accomplish by human connection. The things we cope with almost work, but leave us wanting more, that’s why they’re addictive. The dysfunction is intergenerational, and cyclical, dysfunctional parenting creates dysfunctional kids.
Most adults today our result of neglected parenting, and the increase of mental dysfunction is apparent. Today’s young parents are even more so neglecting their children by using media smart phones etc.
Posted on 1/20/21 at 4:45 pm to Kujo
Was this your master plan. You're going to be a deadbeat dad in hopes that your child becomes a world-famous singer?
Posted on 1/20/21 at 4:53 pm to X123F45
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Rando
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I have an astonishing range... And I'm tone deaf.
Being Able to scream DEEZ NUTS! in Falsetto is astonishing range these days!
Posted on 1/20/21 at 6:15 pm to QJenk
Y'all just keep missing the point.
You donate sperm one day, take the $25 they gave you, go to a bar buy a trick a couple drinks, then squeeze one out.
10 years later, you get two email, both say you're the biological father.
Do you feel more connected to the kid from the sperm clinic or the kid from the bar fling?
At the same time you're saying, "um, I just donated sperm, wtf does this kid want?" Are you saying "Omg! My child I can't Wait to bring him to my home and play ball in the backyard with him!"
Saying you have an emotional attachment to one versus the other is just lying to oneself.
And if you say I would feel the same about them equally....are you telling me there's millions of sperm donors running around going "I just wonder where my child is I miss him so much...that kid I never knew about or met."
You donate sperm one day, take the $25 they gave you, go to a bar buy a trick a couple drinks, then squeeze one out.
10 years later, you get two email, both say you're the biological father.
Do you feel more connected to the kid from the sperm clinic or the kid from the bar fling?
At the same time you're saying, "um, I just donated sperm, wtf does this kid want?" Are you saying "Omg! My child I can't Wait to bring him to my home and play ball in the backyard with him!"
Saying you have an emotional attachment to one versus the other is just lying to oneself.
And if you say I would feel the same about them equally....are you telling me there's millions of sperm donors running around going "I just wonder where my child is I miss him so much...that kid I never knew about or met."
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