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re: Question for those who went through an uncontested divorce (in LA)
Posted on 7/21/15 at 11:06 am to Artie Rome
Posted on 7/21/15 at 11:06 am to Artie Rome
No hard feelings Artie. If I bring it to the OT I can hack it. Maybe save some young (or old) idealist some hurt through the harsh reality.
I'm finally finally bouncing back to where I was.
I need to go on that Divorce diet again though.
I'm finally finally bouncing back to where I was.
I need to go on that Divorce diet again though.
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Posted on 7/21/15 at 11:06 am to Redbone
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If a second lawyer gets involved it will most certainly no longer be amicable. That's what they get paid for.
And I agree, if another attorney would get involved then it would certainly take a turn. But that's not happening in this situation thankfully, and all parties are on the same page (guess I'm including my situation in this as well)
Posted on 7/21/15 at 11:06 am to LSUZombie
I did it without even being in he US. Emailed in my disclosure filings and waited for the lawyers to negotiate it and the judge to sign off on the final agreement.
This post was edited on 7/21/15 at 11:08 am
Posted on 7/21/15 at 11:07 am to LSUZombie
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4 years ago. Amazing how times can go so fast and things can change in such a short amount of time
Ain't that the truth. It's "I like you! I love you! I'll live with you! I'm leaving you!"
Posted on 7/21/15 at 11:08 am to LSUZombie
quote:If the other spouse filed and has a lawyer, that lawyer will ask his/her client the important questions like date of marriage, date of living separate and apart and whether not they couple has reconciled. That makes the case for the judge. The judge then may ask the unrepresented spouse if the responses were correct or simply ask those same questions: date of living separate and apart and reconcile or not. That's all I ever see.
she is wondering what questions they will ask her during this hearing. I will be going through the exact same process soon, and I guess I'm curious.
Posted on 7/21/15 at 11:10 am to LSUZombie
They want testimony that the parties got married on x date, separated on y date, filed on z date, etc. They will want testimony that the parties have lived separate and apart and want a divorce.
Call ahead to make sure you don't need witness testimony. Some smaller /rural parishes require
Call ahead to make sure you don't need witness testimony. Some smaller /rural parishes require
Posted on 7/21/15 at 11:13 am to AlxTgr
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If the other spouse filed and has a lawyer, that lawyer will ask his/her client the important questions like date of marriage, date of living separate and apart and whether not they couple has reconciled. That makes the case for the judge. The judge then may ask the unrepresented spouse if the responses were correct or simply ask those same questions: date of living separate and apart and reconcile or not. That's all I ever see
Thank you. That's about what I thought.
Posted on 7/21/15 at 11:14 am to SlowFlowPro
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They want testimony that the parties got married on x date, separated on y date, filed on z date, etc. They will want testimony that the parties have lived separate and apart and want a divorce.
Really appreciate the info
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Call ahead to make sure you don't need witness testimony. Some smaller /rural parishes require
It will be in Baton Rouge, but I'll definitely pass this on and ask for myself as well.
Thank you
Posted on 7/21/15 at 11:16 am to fr33manator
Man that's got to be tough enough by itself.
Posted on 7/21/15 at 11:25 am to CaptainsWafer
I thought it was bad. I got into some real deep dark places at times. But I had resolved to pull myself out. Lost a ton of weight. Started getting confidence back. Trying to raise an infant isn't easy on a dude but I did okay. Divorce is hard, especially when it involves infidelity. It leaves you with so many questions, saps your ego, messes with your head something fierce. I thought that was hard.
Then in the space of a week I lost my job and my brother died and all of a sudden all those divorce feelings and the rest didn't matter. It brought things into perspective.
Divorce ain't so bad. At least they're still around. It ain't even a real goodbye 'til you lay someone in the ground.
Then in the space of a week I lost my job and my brother died and all of a sudden all those divorce feelings and the rest didn't matter. It brought things into perspective.
Divorce ain't so bad. At least they're still around. It ain't even a real goodbye 'til you lay someone in the ground.
Posted on 7/21/15 at 11:27 am to LSUZombie
So you're banging this ho and you both are divorcing so you can chase your dick.....nice job
Posted on 7/21/15 at 11:29 am to GeeOH
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So you're banging this ho and you both are divorcing so you can chase your dick.....nice job
So I can chase my dick?
Posted on 7/21/15 at 11:30 am to LSUZombie
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4 years ago. Amazing how times can go so fast and things can change in such a short amount of time
Well when you're banging another married chick and causing a divorce, yep, I guess things change quickly, lol
Posted on 7/21/15 at 11:40 am to GeeOH
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Well when you're banging another married chick and causing a divorce, yep, I guess things change quickly, lol
Took 2 pages for an idiot response from the OT. I'm actually impressed.
Posted on 7/21/15 at 11:42 am to LSUZombie
just have her pretty much read the petition out loud when asked to speak.
Posted on 7/21/15 at 11:50 am to LSUZombie
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Mine went through so smoothly we never even had to see the inside of a courthouse. We met with my lawyer, came to an agreement, signed the papers. Then later on signed some more papers. I came out smelling like a rose. Cost me a grand total of $350.00. 50/50 custody. The house. The car. No alimony. No Child support.
Attorney was a family member, so we only paid filing fees and court cost. Aside from that, this is exactly the details of my divorce. I feel bad for the poor SOB's that get dragged through the coals......
Posted on 7/21/15 at 11:53 am to go_tigres
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I feel bad for the poor SOB's that get dragged through the coals......
For sure. A clean (well, clean as it can be with kids) break goes a Long way to assuage the bitterness.
Posted on 7/21/15 at 11:53 am to LSUZombie
The judge will ask if either party was into kinky stuff in the bedroom. ANSWER NO! If you say yes it will just lead to a million more questions. I don't even think it has anything to do with the divorce, he seems to be genuinely curious.
Posted on 7/21/15 at 11:58 am to LSUZombie
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Took 2 pages for an idiot response from the OT. I'm actually impressed.
So you're not banging this chick?
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