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re: Question for the middle age folks on this board..
Posted on 1/11/23 at 12:36 am to ManWithNoNsme
Posted on 1/11/23 at 12:36 am to ManWithNoNsme
I'm a pretty competitive person and it has become very easy to beat the hell out of this next generation. I've hired one that will work out and he will probably kill it! The rest are lazy as hell! If you are in your 40's or early 50's you should be killing it too and ride off into the sunset knowing you won't have to witness what's coming. Scary times!
Posted on 1/11/23 at 5:48 am to tiger81
quote:Not really, at least not for me. But I am lazy, so
Having to amuse yourself 8 hours a day is tougher than you think.
Posted on 1/11/23 at 6:02 am to Hammond Tiger Fan
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Where do find the motivation to keep giving it your all at your job?
Never have and never will.
I've never had the desire to climb the corporate ladder and although I've been successful it's been more of a byproduct of yearning for efficiency and innovation not just outworking the people next to me.
Home life, family, social life, physical health, etc have all been more important to me than giving any job my all.
Posted on 1/11/23 at 7:47 am to Hammond Tiger Fan
quote:Padding the retirement account, also sitting at home all day is f'ing boring. I just did that for two years fighting cancer. No thanks.
Where do find the motivation to keep giving it your all at your job?
Posted on 1/11/23 at 7:54 am to Hammond Tiger Fan
Did I wake up during the night. Create another account and post this, because it describes me. I've got about 5 years to go in the working world and don't know how I'm going to do it here.
It's more the job than bored with working, but I won't get a job in another industry making what I make now at this point in my career and I'm just putting as much as I can away to get out of this place as soon as I can.
It's more the job than bored with working, but I won't get a job in another industry making what I make now at this point in my career and I'm just putting as much as I can away to get out of this place as soon as I can.
Posted on 1/11/23 at 7:56 am to Hammond Tiger Fan
Look Peter just shut the frick up and get those TPS reports in on time.
This post was edited on 1/11/23 at 7:57 am
Posted on 1/11/23 at 8:41 am to Hammond Tiger Fan
I’m in Accounting/Management. I am in a job that once I had everything set up the way I wanted and it flowed smoothly (processes, staff, etc.), my work life became easy. I’m here 33-37 hours a week. No weekends. Able to drop off and pick up son from school on my carpool days. I can run errands whenever want to, leave early whenever I want to. As long as I’m here a few hours then leave, not even charged vacation time for the day.
I’m happy with my salary. Between my wife and I salary, we have a good family life. We’re stretched at times like most, but easily upper middle class lifestyle.
Could I leave here tomorrow and make a lot more, yes. But can’t put a price on the free time out of here and little stress.
Find a job that isn’t stressful but still pays the bills. You don’t have to make as much as you can to be happy. It’s what you do outside of work that’s important. Find a job that gives you as much of “that” time as possible.
I’m happy with my salary. Between my wife and I salary, we have a good family life. We’re stretched at times like most, but easily upper middle class lifestyle.
Could I leave here tomorrow and make a lot more, yes. But can’t put a price on the free time out of here and little stress.
Find a job that isn’t stressful but still pays the bills. You don’t have to make as much as you can to be happy. It’s what you do outside of work that’s important. Find a job that gives you as much of “that” time as possible.
Posted on 1/11/23 at 8:49 am to tiger81
quote:You can play golf, workout every day, go fishing, hunting, work on the honey-do list around the house, etc. You don't have to just sit on the couch in your drawers all day. Of course, there's nothing wrong with that either.
Having to amuse yourself 8 hours a day is tougher than you think. If most of your friends are still working, I'd say keep working. I think I'll have trouble with retirement.
Posted on 1/11/23 at 8:54 am to RealityTiger
I will retire in the next 4-5 years, so I’ll be late 50’s. My plan is to get a part time job somewhere. I’m leaning either marshal/starter at a golf course or at the tennis club I’m a member of. I’ve also considered the library, but would prefer to be outside more.
My biggest concern with retirement is becoming an alcoholic. I drink pretty much all day on my off days. Never to the point of sloppy inebriation, but enough to concern me if I have more free time.
My biggest concern with retirement is becoming an alcoholic. I drink pretty much all day on my off days. Never to the point of sloppy inebriation, but enough to concern me if I have more free time.
Posted on 1/11/23 at 8:58 am to Hammond Tiger Fan
I had to start over six years ago when I got sober. I had nothing.
It’s scary. I’m a freelance writer with no benefits and no job security. Can’t get an additional job at the moment because I’m waiting to have surgery for two herniated discs.
I’m just hoping that God will see me through. Ultimately, it was my own fault that I’m in this position.
It’s scary. I’m a freelance writer with no benefits and no job security. Can’t get an additional job at the moment because I’m waiting to have surgery for two herniated discs.
I’m just hoping that God will see me through. Ultimately, it was my own fault that I’m in this position.
Posted on 1/11/23 at 8:58 am to TomJoadGhost
quote:Paw Paw gotta be able to drink too, now!
My biggest concern with retirement is becoming an alcoholic. I drink pretty much all day on my off days. Never to the point of sloppy inebriation, but enough to concern me if I have more free time.
Posted on 1/11/23 at 9:07 am to Hammond Tiger Fan
Well...I used to like my job. I really like being a musician at night on the weekends but my day job...well, not anymore. To be honest, this is kind of weird that this post came up on the board today as I was kind of thinking the same thing. I'm tired, not motivated, DGAF too much anymore. Sometimes I pull into my driveway and maybe hope a little that this might be the night that I go gently into that good night.
But then I remember how much I love my wife and my kids and how much life they have left to live. So I'll just keep on being miserable in my day job as long as I can and continue to play guitar on the weekends. I probably need to just switch companies.
Retire? Not in the cards for me. I'm going to die on stage.
But then I remember how much I love my wife and my kids and how much life they have left to live. So I'll just keep on being miserable in my day job as long as I can and continue to play guitar on the weekends. I probably need to just switch companies.
Retire? Not in the cards for me. I'm going to die on stage.
Posted on 1/11/23 at 9:14 am to Hammond Tiger Fan
A nice paycheck is enough to motivate me. The more I make the happier I am. It’s a symbiotic relationship. There is a direct correlation between the more I work the larger my paycheck is. I have a salaried position but the carrot held on a stick is a bonus in July and December. When the company has had a more profitable year the bigger those bonuses run.
Posted on 1/11/23 at 9:22 am to Hammond Tiger Fan
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The older I get, I find myself just wanting to do the bare minimum to keep my job and focus more on doing the things I enjoy doing in life.
Lean into it. No one is laying on their death bed saying "I wish I could have given the company 10% more."
I do what needs to be done and spend the rest of my energy on what I enjoy.
Posted on 1/11/23 at 10:22 am to Hammond Tiger Fan
Middle age is in my rearview mirror, but I love what I do, so a bit different than most responses to the question. The day I don’t enjoy it, will be my last day on the job.
Posted on 1/11/23 at 10:22 am to EarlyCuyler3
not directed at you early.
what a depressing thread....for the most part. I am 49. I have hit "stale" points at my job of 23 years. This all boils down to your own priorities. Support your family? Travel? save? you figure out how much you need to make to take on your own priorities. and do a good enough job at work that you HAVE to make more than that, and become un-fireable.
outside of that....too many seem to have a very negative outlook at life. say "Thank You" for something every single day. before you go to bed, when you wake up, to your wife/kids, etc.
someone has it worse than everyone here. help those people. make someone smile.
what a depressing thread....for the most part. I am 49. I have hit "stale" points at my job of 23 years. This all boils down to your own priorities. Support your family? Travel? save? you figure out how much you need to make to take on your own priorities. and do a good enough job at work that you HAVE to make more than that, and become un-fireable.
outside of that....too many seem to have a very negative outlook at life. say "Thank You" for something every single day. before you go to bed, when you wake up, to your wife/kids, etc.
someone has it worse than everyone here. help those people. make someone smile.
Posted on 1/11/23 at 10:30 am to Screaming Viking
It's a hard world in a lot of ways. The American business environment and career market is not conducive to happiness.
You have to go out of your way to do things like you said. Everything in our culture is geared and focused for more, more, MORE. Nothing is ever good enough.
You have to go out of your way to do things like you said. Everything in our culture is geared and focused for more, more, MORE. Nothing is ever good enough.
Posted on 1/11/23 at 10:57 am to EarlyCuyler3
Not to step into the political angle, but it’s one area where I think advocates for more socialist policies have a point, and one where capitalism isn’t all it’s cracked up to be. Maybe I was born a cynic, but I thankfully realized early in my career that slaving away at a corporate job to make other people that barely worked wealthy just wasn’t what I wanted to do long term. I rejected the “pay your dues” crap that upper management espoused, because that meant sacrificing my personal time to get ahead. No thank you. I don’t make as much as some of my old peers, but I’ll retire long before they do at an age where I can enjoy retirement. Money never motivated me much anyway.
Posted on 1/11/23 at 11:10 am to TomJoadGhost
Not to mention you can do all of that and still get screwed over because of nepotism or favors or just because someone doesn't like you.
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