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re: People who operate "favor banks"

Posted on 3/21/17 at 3:41 pm to
Posted by MorbidTheClown
Baton Rouge
Member since Jan 2015
76774 posts
Posted on 3/21/17 at 3:41 pm to
quote:

you're a dick because you can't tote a motherfricker to the airport.


Posted by TheIndulger
Member since Sep 2011
19448 posts
Posted on 3/21/17 at 3:42 pm to
Unless someone needs his car while he's gone, why would he ask you to bring him to NOLA? To save $8/day on parking?

Posted by ManBearTiger
BRLA
Member since Jun 2007
22670 posts
Posted on 3/21/17 at 3:42 pm to
I've done many favors for this guy in the past- predominately driving-related favors- the dude has dwi's and thinks I'm his personal taxi service and usually I don't mind. If anything him making this request and blowing up over me asking for gas money is the straw that broke the camel's back.
Posted by Titus Pullo
MTDGA
Member since Feb 2011
28567 posts
Posted on 3/21/17 at 3:43 pm to
I never expect anything back when I do a favor. That way I'm never disappointed.

Would need to know more about y'all to be able to decide who's the a-hole.

On the surface it sounds like he is.
Posted by Langland
Trumplandia
Member since Apr 2014
15382 posts
Posted on 3/21/17 at 3:43 pm to
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Friends owe.


Posted by MorbidTheClown
Baton Rouge
Member since Jan 2015
76774 posts
Posted on 3/21/17 at 3:44 pm to
just doesn't seem like they are really all that good of friends.


Posted by ManBearTiger
BRLA
Member since Jun 2007
22670 posts
Posted on 3/21/17 at 3:47 pm to
Well initially he wanted a ride to BTR airport, which was absolutely no problem, but then today he changes it to NOLA, that's why o said it's a lot to ask- in comparison to the initial plan to drop him off at BTR
Posted by mikrit54
Robeline
Member since Oct 2013
8664 posts
Posted on 3/21/17 at 3:53 pm to
Tell him the time you'll pick him up. Send Uber to get him. Let him foot the bill.
Posted by ManBearTiger
BRLA
Member since Jun 2007
22670 posts
Posted on 3/21/17 at 3:59 pm to
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f it's a good friend of mine, I'd take them to nola no questions asked.

So basically, how good of friends are yall


Good point- we're only friends through a mutual friend. In fact the boil I mentioned was at the mutual friend's house, the other guy just picked up the crawfish. Having provided the pot and burner as well as getting a tank of propane, I felt I had contributed appropriately.
Posted by X123F45
Member since Apr 2015
30011 posts
Posted on 3/21/17 at 4:01 pm to
If you're 19, that's acceptable behavior. If either one of you has a real job, he can go suck a cock.
Posted by rondo
Worst. Poster. Evar.
Member since Jan 2004
77520 posts
Posted on 3/21/17 at 4:01 pm to
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I told him that's a lot to ask and I'd do it as long as he gave me some gas money on the trip.




the time drving should be the dealbreaker...asking for the gas money makes you a cheap a-hole.
Posted by Green Chili Tiger
Lurking the Tin Foil Hat Board
Member since Jul 2009
50928 posts
Posted on 3/21/17 at 4:02 pm to
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I told him that's a lot to ask and I'd do it as long as he gave me some gas money on the trip.


What are you 15 and driving your first car?

I didn't realize that adults asked for gas money.
Posted by ManBearTiger
BRLA
Member since Jun 2007
22670 posts
Posted on 3/21/17 at 4:04 pm to
I made it clear that the 3+ hour trip was my real issue but it would assuaged with some gas money
Posted by ManBearTiger
BRLA
Member since Jun 2007
22670 posts
Posted on 3/21/17 at 4:07 pm to
I'm between jobs, money's tight right now. Like dead broke tight. It's not even a question of swallowing the cost, I literally wouldn't be able to make the trip without gas money and he knows that.
Posted by Cdawg
TigerFred's Living Room
Member since Sep 2003
62212 posts
Posted on 3/21/17 at 4:07 pm to
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he gave me some gas money on the trip.

I think I'd be offended if a buddy asked me this because I would know better to offer to fill up a friend's tank if he was taking me somewhere like that.

Posted by TheEnglishman
On the road to Wellville
Member since Mar 2010
3310 posts
Posted on 3/21/17 at 4:11 pm to
I handle this by telling people upfront that I do not work off the favor system.

When I do something to help you... its because we are friends and I want to help. vice versa.

What ive found is that if you state this upfront when they are helping you, it comes off as a joke... but they remember later.

I typically help people more than I need help though...
Posted by rondo
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Member since Jan 2004
77520 posts
Posted on 3/21/17 at 4:12 pm to
what you should have done is told him you had shite to do.
Posted by Hangit
The Green Swamp
Member since Aug 2014
47701 posts
Posted on 3/21/17 at 4:15 pm to
quote:

offer to fill up a friend's tank if he was taking me somewhere like that.


Adults drive their own cars. If it is an emergency and you need a ride from B.R. to N.O. you fill their tank up.

If you have DWI's and are no longer allowed to drive you should stay home until you get your shite together and become an adult.
Posted by Green Chili Tiger
Lurking the Tin Foil Hat Board
Member since Jul 2009
50928 posts
Posted on 3/21/17 at 4:15 pm to
quote:

I made it clear that the 3+ hour trip was my real issue but it would assuaged with some gas money


quote:

I literally wouldn't be able to make the trip without gas money



Well......which is it?
Posted by ManBearTiger
BRLA
Member since Jun 2007
22670 posts
Posted on 3/21/17 at 4:20 pm to
It's both, it's an imposition on my time that i would be willing to bite but I'd need the gas money to do it at all. He hasn't had his license revoked from the dwis and has a car which he can and does drive fwiw
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