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OT Etiquette on holding the door for a lady

Posted on 8/23/18 at 8:47 pm
Posted by theantiquetiger
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Posted on 8/23/18 at 8:47 pm
Let's say one of you baws approach a door that swings away from you. Approaching the door from the other direction is an OT-6.

Do you open the door, awkwardly holding the door open from across the jamb, or do you go through the door first and hold the door open for the OT-6?
Posted by slackster
Houston
Member since Mar 2009
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Posted on 8/23/18 at 8:48 pm to
Go through and hold it on the other side. Don't be that guy in the way in the door opening.

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Posted by Commandeaux
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Posted on 8/23/18 at 8:49 pm to
OT6 - she better open that door her damn self.
Posted by Gorilla Ball
Member since Feb 2006
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Posted on 8/23/18 at 8:49 pm to
I open or hold the door for females - age, sex or race doesn’t matter
Posted by alajones
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Posted on 8/23/18 at 8:50 pm to
I speed up and open the door from the inside.

Posted by Kafka
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Posted on 8/23/18 at 8:50 pm to
How do you know this person identifies as a lady?
Posted by Bushmaster
19th Hole
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Posted on 8/23/18 at 8:50 pm to
I always hold the door for women even if ugly or minority
Posted by Lynyrd
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Posted on 8/23/18 at 8:51 pm to
IMO it doesn't matter rating. If they are close by and coming in too, it's cordial to do so. Just the way I was raised.
Posted by Cheese Grits
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Member since Apr 2012
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Posted on 8/23/18 at 8:51 pm to
quote:

OT Etiquette on holding the door for a lady


I am old school

She may be no lady
She may be an OT 1

Still holding the door

Growing up in the south I was always taught the sign of a real gentleman was to put the other person at ease more than just Emily Post type manners.
Posted by tiggerthetooth
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Posted on 8/23/18 at 8:52 pm to
I hold doors open for anyone just as a general courtesy.
Posted by Teddy Ruxpin
Member since Oct 2006
39581 posts
Posted on 8/23/18 at 8:52 pm to
Both ways depending on logistics.

There's a lot of math involved taking into account door weight, arm angle, tensile strength of arm, wind load, etc.
Posted by BowDownToLSU
Livingston louisiana
Member since Feb 2010
19255 posts
Posted on 8/23/18 at 8:53 pm to
I always hold the door open the door for women no matter what she looks like. It’s part of being a man
Posted by Upperdecker
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Posted on 8/23/18 at 8:53 pm to
OT 7 and above I hold the door from across the jamb so she has to brush by me
Posted by theantiquetiger
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Posted on 8/23/18 at 8:53 pm to
The real question is do you go through first and hold the door behind them, or do you hold the door open even though you will kind of be in the way, and let the lady come through first?
Posted by Jyrdis
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Posted on 8/23/18 at 8:53 pm to
I hold the door regardless. Though, when women just “expect it” it does irk me.
Posted by Cosmo
glassman's guest house
Member since Oct 2003
120265 posts
Posted on 8/23/18 at 8:54 pm to
You are a chauvinist pig if you hold the door

You think women arent capable of doing that themselves?

You sexist POS
Posted by fallguy_1978
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Member since Feb 2018
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Posted on 8/23/18 at 8:54 pm to
quote:

I always hold the door for women even if ugly or minority

Me too
Posted by Reservoir dawg
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Posted on 8/23/18 at 8:57 pm to
In some west coast cities this can be an offensive gesture. Be careful about that...no trouble!
Posted by Bestbank Tiger
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Posted on 8/23/18 at 8:57 pm to
quote:

hold doors open for anyone just as a general courtesy.



This.
Posted by Lynyrd
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Posted on 8/23/18 at 8:59 pm to
quote:

go through first and hold the door behind them,

In the scenario, this. But if the door is coming outward, I wait and hold for anybody.
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