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re: Old people you know without children. Who takes care of them?

Posted on 1/1/22 at 12:07 am to
Posted by lsu xman
Member since Oct 2006
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Posted on 1/1/22 at 12:07 am to
My nephew's and nieces if they want my inheritance.
Posted by Kafka
I am the moral conscience of TD
Member since Jul 2007
141796 posts
Posted on 1/1/22 at 12:08 am to
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My nephew's and nieces if they want my inheritance
nobody wants your old copies of playgirl
Posted by Cycledude
Member since Jul 2018
1709 posts
Posted on 1/1/22 at 12:11 am to
I had a great aunt who went to a nursing home after her husband died. She was a sweet old lady but lived a sad existence in that nursing home for 8 years. Her husband and her couldn’t have children, so her nephew had to take care of her.
Posted by Tall Tiger
Dixie
Member since Sep 2007
3214 posts
Posted on 1/1/22 at 12:16 am to
You do assuming you outlive them and remain lucid. My parents are taking care of my childless uncle who didn't take care of himself in life.
Posted by Wolfhound45
Hanging with Chicken in Lurkistan
Member since Nov 2009
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Posted on 1/1/22 at 12:17 am to
This is what is going to happen to my older sister (married and divorced with no children) and younger brother (never married with no children). My older brother and I have adult children and are set.

Them? Not so much.
Posted by Spankum
Miss-sippi
Member since Jan 2007
55994 posts
Posted on 1/1/22 at 12:20 am to
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Old people you know without children. Who takes care of them?


I’ve seen this a number of times. Relatives start quickly showing up with the expectation of getting some inheritance. It is shitty, but it happens without fail.
Posted by Kafka
I am the moral conscience of TD
Member since Jul 2007
141796 posts
Posted on 1/1/22 at 12:21 am to
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My older brother and I have adult children and are set.
so you can guarantee this?

How many people can be absolutely sure that, say, their kids won't desert them for the paradise of Houston and leave them all alone in BR?

Posted by Obtuse1
Westside Bodymore Yo
Member since Sep 2016
25595 posts
Posted on 1/1/22 at 12:23 am to
All the money they save not having kids lets them live like kings in their old age. Private nurses and sitters instead of Tickle Me Elmo, Playstations, and private school/college.
Posted by Zappas Stache
Utility Muffin Research Kitchen
Member since Apr 2009
38671 posts
Posted on 1/1/22 at 12:25 am to
Most kids don't take care of their parents, they put them in retirement homes.
Posted by Wolfhound45
Hanging with Chicken in Lurkistan
Member since Nov 2009
120000 posts
Posted on 1/1/22 at 12:28 am to
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so you can guarantee this?
Nothing is guaranteed. I have taught my children well. But only time will tell. At least there is the possibility.
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How many people can be absolutely sure that, say, their kids won't desert them for the paradise of Houston and leave them all alone in BR?
Retired Army. Do not live in Baton Rouge (though it is my home) and never will. My children are military brats so they just know where we have been stationed over the past thirty years. Right now they live and work in other states.
Posted by AUCE05
Member since Dec 2009
42559 posts
Posted on 1/1/22 at 12:41 am to
My aunt and uncle couldn't have kids. My sister will take care of them.
Posted by fightin tigers
Downtown Prairieville
Member since Mar 2008
73680 posts
Posted on 1/1/22 at 12:43 am to
Their money
Posted by EA6B
TX
Member since Dec 2012
14754 posts
Posted on 1/1/22 at 1:49 am to
Assisted living facility, or at home care. I would never expect my kids that live all over the country to disrupt their lives to take care of me. My grandparents taught my parents to never be a burden to your children, and they taught me the same thing. Just as you should prepare financially for retirement, you should do the same thing for when the time comes you can’t take care of yourself.
Posted by ultratiger89
Houston, Tx
Member since Aug 2007
3038 posts
Posted on 1/1/22 at 2:31 am to
The people they pay them too.
Posted by davyjones
NELA
Member since Feb 2019
29998 posts
Posted on 1/1/22 at 2:36 am to
If you don't watch out these random shysters will scout you out, get their shady doctor to issue a medical report saying you're crazy, then interdict you in court. Get authority over all your money and assets with the usually unsupervised legal obligation to "take care of you". It's wild. I saw it on Dateline.
This post was edited on 1/1/22 at 2:41 am
Posted by Cracker
in a box
Member since Nov 2009
17678 posts
Posted on 1/1/22 at 2:57 am to
Piss off
Medicare will dumb dumb
Posted by dgnx6
Baton Rouge
Member since Feb 2006
68526 posts
Posted on 1/1/22 at 3:52 am to
Idk. I see the Betty white stuff and I don’t want to be 99.

I guess when I get to a certain point my shotgun will do the trick.

Posted by dgnx6
Baton Rouge
Member since Feb 2006
68526 posts
Posted on 1/1/22 at 3:56 am to
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Assisted living facility, or at home care. I would never expect my kids that live all over the country to disrupt their lives to take care of me. My grandparents taught my parents to never be a burden to your children, and they taught me the same thing. Just as you should prepare financially for retirement, you should do the same thing for when the time comes you can’t take care of yourself.


This might be the sadest thing I’ve read.

My mom recently had a stroke after getting vaccinated. I was dead set on leaving this state. Now, not so much. I will never put my parents in a home. If they want it that bad, okay. But frick it, they can live with me as long as they have. They did it for me.

Hopefully your kids aren’t pieces of shite and give you a good end of life. Not shove you in a covid infected place operated by fricking morons.

I have to add, I remember a car trip we took. I felt car sick. Sat up front and still barfed all along the side of my dads car, came back in the back window. My dad had to clean that shite up.

frick anyone that wouldn’t do the same for their parents.
This post was edited on 1/1/22 at 4:01 am
Posted by SmelvinRat
Slumwoody
Member since Oct 2015
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Posted on 1/1/22 at 4:17 am to
Posted by emoney
Westerville, OH
Member since May 2010
8642 posts
Posted on 1/1/22 at 4:57 am to
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Assisted living facility, or at home care. I would never expect my kids that live all over the country to disrupt their lives to take care of me.
I agree with this. It is incredibly taxing on family members to take care of other family members. My best advice is start saving for a long-term care policy now so that you don’t have to exhaust your family members’ time and energy. People don’t realize the cost, emotionally and financially, long-term care takes up in an average life.
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