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Old cat, is it time?...

Posted on 6/16/19 at 2:44 am
Posted by StormTiger
Norwich, England, but from TX
Member since Dec 2003
4892 posts
Posted on 6/16/19 at 2:44 am
I have an 18 year old cat that has been on 3 pills a day for a couple of years for her thyroid.

In the last couple of weeks she’s stopped using the litter box regularly and is pissing and shitting randomly in the house. She can still make it up and down our stairs, but it’s a slow process. She still eats and drinks and goes outside, but she doesn’t move a lot and her tail is mostly down between her legs.

Is it time to put her down? I feel bad because she’s still eating regularly, but the pissing and shitting in the house and even next to the bed while we are asleep is getting to be too much.

I appreciate the 5% of reasonable answers in advance, but I’m sure I’ll still laugh at the other ones too.
Posted by Rebel
Graceland
Member since Jan 2005
131181 posts
Posted on 6/16/19 at 2:50 am to
18 years is a long time.

Consult your vet. I do not envy your decision.
Posted by FightingTigers138
In your thoughts
Member since Dec 2016
5745 posts
Posted on 6/16/19 at 2:51 am to
Cats usually just go away when they are ready to die. Let her outside.

ETA: I will say that i have never had an indoor only cat, and think that an indoor only cat is an awful idea to begin with.
This post was edited on 6/16/19 at 2:56 am
Posted by StormTiger
Norwich, England, but from TX
Member since Dec 2003
4892 posts
Posted on 6/16/19 at 3:00 am to
She’s not an indoor only cat, goes in and out as she pleases, but we’ve always had a litter box inside and she has used it consistently her whole life if she needed when inside.
Posted by FightingTigers138
In your thoughts
Member since Dec 2016
5745 posts
Posted on 6/16/19 at 3:04 am to
quote:

She’s not an indoor only cat, goes in and out as she pleases, but we’ve always had a litter box inside and she has used it consistently her whole life if she needed when inside.


Im being serious when I say that, cats that have outdoor access, usually prefer to just disappear and die in a secluded place. If she is used to using the bathroom indoors that may be complicating things.
This post was edited on 6/16/19 at 3:10 am
Posted by dbeck
Member since Nov 2014
29448 posts
Posted on 6/16/19 at 3:08 am to
quote:

is pissing and shitting randomly in the house

Exact same thing happened with my mom's dog. Went on like that for a few months. She died in my mom's lap on the way to the vet to be put down.

It's a hard decision to make and you can never be 100% sure if it's too early. I would discuss with the vet and take a hard look at her quality of life.
Posted by Obtuse1
Westside Bodymore Yo
Member since Sep 2016
25541 posts
Posted on 6/16/19 at 3:10 am to
I assume you are keeping her litter box immaculate when they get near the end they become pickier about their box. We had ours die at 19 two years ago, she saved us the trouble of taking her to the vet, she was still eating and drinking but losing weight and slowing down. We knew it would be soon and we were having the vet discussions daily. She came into the great room and laid down with our Basset Hound in her bed, maybe 15 minutes later I heard the dog moving and looked and she was nudging the cat with her nose. She had died. I thanked her profusely for saving us that trip.

Do what you feel is right, at this point there is no shame in making the hard choice.

I think someone is cutting an onion somewhere in the house.
Posted by Dalosaqy
I can't quite re
Member since Dec 2007
12299 posts
Posted on 6/16/19 at 3:30 am to
Yes. She's suffering more than you are.
Posted by mailman
Houston
Member since Jul 2009
6143 posts
Posted on 6/16/19 at 3:35 am to
Depends on how you feel. With all my experience, I would do it. Your cats seen better days and its health is going to rapidly declinr anyway. So you watch it suffer or you just say, its time.
Posted by thelawnwranglers
Member since Sep 2007
38737 posts
Posted on 6/16/19 at 4:05 am to
No cat expert but is she enjoying her life?

Animals don't have to suffer
Posted by StormTiger
Norwich, England, but from TX
Member since Dec 2003
4892 posts
Posted on 6/16/19 at 4:19 am to
thanks all, actually surprised by the thoughtful responses! It's helped, and I think the it's time.
Posted by sumbodyorsum1
Member since May 2019
1606 posts
Posted on 6/16/19 at 4:36 am to
I don't think so.

Not a fan of putting animals down though.

If it were up to most people around here, my dog would have been put down 6 months ago. She can't get up on her own and poohs next to her bed regularly now.. but we take her out when she barks as much as we can.. she still eats and drinks regularly and doesn't appear to be in pain.. so she is still going.
Posted by VolsOut4Harambe
Atlanta, GA
Member since Sep 2017
12856 posts
Posted on 6/16/19 at 4:49 am to
Auction her off to Chinese restaurants.
Posted by Jones
Member since Oct 2005
90437 posts
Posted on 6/16/19 at 5:00 am to
If you're asking, it's time. I was in your same situation a little over a year ago. It's a tough decision but you have to ask yourself if that's anyway to live. 18 years is a long time.

I had a lady come to the house and do the procedure. It cost a little more than the vet but there was no stress going to the vet and I was able to put her down while she lay on the couch in comfort.

If you are in BR.

Dr. Carly
BatonRouge@LapofLove.com
LapofLove.com

She was fantastic, but man I do not envy her job.
Posted by Yeahright
On a big sphere out there.
Member since Sep 2018
1922 posts
Posted on 6/16/19 at 6:27 am to
quote:

Depends on how you feel. With all my experience, I would do it. Your cats seen better days and its health is going to rapidly declinr anyway. So you watch it suffer or you just say, its time.
Yep. It's time
Posted by Athos
Member since Sep 2016
11878 posts
Posted on 6/16/19 at 8:21 am to
Your cat sounds miserable. Does it hide all day?

When cats aren’t shitting/peeing in the box, it’s because they associate that box with pain when relieving themselves. So they try other places. To no success.

You’re torturing your pet. Let it go.
Posted by JPinLondon
not in London (currently NW Ohio)
Member since Nov 2006
7855 posts
Posted on 6/16/19 at 8:22 am to
All I can offer is a suggestion.. if you aren't sure, and you want to play it out longer, answer this...

You mentioned upstairs, so are there two litter boxes or just one? Going downstairs to pee seems quite a haul at age 18.

Also, keep them clean as can be. And maybe even make a third or fourth box. I think you can get trays for $1 or $2 at discount store.
Posted by soccerfüt
Location: A Series of Tubes
Member since May 2013
65497 posts
Posted on 6/16/19 at 8:22 am to
Came here expecting a divorce thread...

OP Disappoints
Posted by HueyLongJr
Mamou
Member since Oct 2007
527 posts
Posted on 6/16/19 at 8:28 am to
Google “Feline Quality of Life list” for some insight and guidance.
Posted by biglego
Ask your mom where I been
Member since Nov 2007
76162 posts
Posted on 6/16/19 at 8:29 am to
quote:

In the last couple of weeks she’s stopped using the litter box regularly and is pissing and shitting randomly in the house


That would’ve done it for me.
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