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re: Number of unmarried young men is surging

Posted on 8/19/26 at 6:54 pm to
Posted by PrattvilleTiger
Montgomery, AL
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Posted on 8/19/26 at 6:54 pm to
And gay guys are easily having tons of sex too now that there is a cure for HIV.
I know 2 gay couples (men) that have biological kids thru a surrogate. I used to think that was gross and f'ed up, but I've been around them and their kids. They seem happy as can be. The older I get, the less judgemental I have found myself to be.
Posted by tiggerthetooth
Big Momma's House
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Posted on 8/19/26 at 6:58 pm to
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And gay guys are easily having tons of sex too now that there is a cure for HIV.
I know 2 gay couples (men) that have biological kids thru a surrogate. I used to think that was gross and f'ed up, but I've been around them and their kids. They seem happy as can be. The older I get, the less judgemental I have found myself to be.


I just reckon you havent thought about the implications of surrogacy at all.

The children are still young and havent even begun to ask questions either.

Posted by PrattvilleTiger
Montgomery, AL
Member since May 2020
2950 posts
Posted on 8/19/26 at 7:00 pm to
What implications? I know straight couples that have had a surrogate because the wife couldn't have a pregnancy.
Posted by el Gaucho
He/They
Member since Dec 2010
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Posted on 8/19/26 at 7:03 pm to
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I know 2 gay couples (men) that have biological kids thru a surrogate. I used to think that was gross and f'ed up,

Why do they always adopt boys
Posted by SuperSaint
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Posted on 8/19/26 at 7:05 pm to
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I used to think that was gross and f'ed up
because it is


Find better friends Loser
Posted by NawlinsTiger9
Where the mongooses roam
Member since Jan 2009
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Posted on 8/19/26 at 7:08 pm to
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Have you seen how ridiculous young women are these days?


This is the most exhausting, played-out, bullshite excuse for this and it never fails to come up in these threads
Posted by tiggerthetooth
Big Momma's House
Member since Oct 2010
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Posted on 8/19/26 at 7:10 pm to
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What implications? I know straight couples that have had a surrogate because the wife couldn't have a pregnancy.


How about the commidification of children? The buying and selling of children? They bought a baby and a woman sold the baby.

Thats the only way a gay man can have a baby, is to buy a womb.

Do you want to know what other evils might emerge from that?

Do you want children to be available on the open market? And what if the gay couple refused to take that baby? The baby is UNDER a contract like a used car.

You haven't thought about this in the slightest. Crazy. Our society is about to unravel and no one is going to have a clue why.
Posted by Crimson1st
Birmingham, AL
Member since Nov 2010
21152 posts
Posted on 8/19/26 at 7:11 pm to
Well honestly, ladies bring a good bit of this on themselves with shitty attitudes, lack of effort and enthusiasm, almost eager to call a guy creepy just for trying to ask them out, there’s a whole list in particular for guys who are expected to be the pursuers…it’s exhausting as shite!

Makes a lot of guys want to throw their hands up. Now some of it may be a chicken and egg effect because I know guys can be assholes and cultivate the shitty attitude in some ladies but have mercy like I said for a single guy it’s exhausting unless you get lucky as shite early in the process.
This post was edited on 8/19/26 at 7:47 pm
Posted by thegreatboudini
Member since Oct 2008
7283 posts
Posted on 8/19/26 at 7:20 pm to
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Women got what they wanted. Feminism is infused throughout American and Western societies. Young women are on psychiatric meds at high rates. Women are more miserable than they’ve ever been. It turns out having the responsibilities like men have for thousands of years isn’t all fun and games.


Funny story that fits here.

My wife decided to leave the workforce 4 years ago when our first was about to be born. She's an FNP, worked hard to get there too. Had a little bit of sunk cost fallacy, so she found a prn job just to keep her head in the game. Kept that job for an about 2 years working 2 saturdays a month for 5 hours a day.

Well things changes and she was now required to work 1 week day a month. Picked up a random Thursday, I took a day off and took the kids to the zoo. She worked 7 to 5:30, got home after a 40 minute drive fighting traffic and was crying like a baby.

Resigned at 9pm that night.

7-5's dealing with the general public, no thanks, I'll take care of my kids.
Posted by PrattvilleTiger
Montgomery, AL
Member since May 2020
2950 posts
Posted on 8/19/26 at 7:22 pm to
As I said, heterosexual couples have been doing that for a very long time. Who's gonna spend that kind of money on something if they wouldn't really love and appreciate the child?
Posted by bdavids09
Member since Jun 2017
1577 posts
Posted on 8/19/26 at 7:25 pm to
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Women got what they wanted. Feminism is infused throughout American and Western societies. Young women are on psychiatric meds at high rates. Women are more miserable than they’ve ever been. It turns out having the responsibilities like men have for thousands of years isn’t all fun and games.

Yeah it seems like every young woman today says they have bad anxiety and depression. Wonder what caused that?
Posted by gaetti15
AK
Member since Apr 2013
15687 posts
Posted on 8/19/26 at 7:30 pm to
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They seem happy as can be. The older I get, the less judgemental I have found myself to be.


Hate the sin, love the sinner.

Its not right, nor natural for two men to go through together raising a child as a "couple"

....

Unless its the Odd Couple



Posted by PrattvilleTiger
Montgomery, AL
Member since May 2020
2950 posts
Posted on 8/19/26 at 7:35 pm to
F u. You F'ing piece of sh*t.
Posted by CR4090
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Posted on 8/19/26 at 7:36 pm to
Posted by tiggerthetooth
Big Momma's House
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Posted on 8/19/26 at 7:39 pm to
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As I said, heterosexual couples have been doing that for a very long time. Who's gonna spend that kind of money on something if they wouldn't really love and appreciate the child?


They bought children? How? Going to a hospital to have a child thats birthed without the hospital is NOT buying a child.

People can have children in a forest without a single day in a hospital, did it for thousands of years.

A gay or lesbian couple cannot do that.


Additionally, youre saying sex and gender are not real but a "social construct".

What you're saying is a child does not need a mother and father but it can be two men or two women and it doesnt matter at all. Its all equal and there are zero distinctions between men and women.
This post was edited on 8/19/26 at 7:56 pm
Posted by DesScorp
Alabama
Member since Sep 2017
10696 posts
Posted on 8/19/26 at 7:43 pm to
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Just my 5 cents, but guys are getting the sex without marriage, so why get married at a young age?


Which guys? Not the majority of them. A third of men under thirty have never had a date. Sexlessness is at an all time high. The men that are killing it on Tinder are a relatively small number. Its a situation where a large number of women are chasing the same few men. We’ve returned to a mating model where a small number of dominant men are sleeping with a large, rotating cast of women. There’s a book called Sexual Utopia In Power that’s worth a look. Basically its about how the sixties promise of free love combined with feminist ideology made sex more difficult for most men, while making it more available to women, but making them miserable in the process. We’ve ended up in an Arab tribe situation where important men hoover up concubines for themselves, leaving a population of angry, hopeless young men. And large groups of angry hopeless young men is dangerous for any society. The easy availability of porn in the West has tempered this, but North Africa doesn’t have that same availability, which is why you have Arabs chasing down and harassing women in the streets of Paris, Berlin, and Rome. Eventually that anger and hopelessness will manifest on these shores some way.
Posted by Lsutigerturner
Member since Dec 2016
7317 posts
Posted on 8/19/26 at 7:47 pm to
I’d assume it is partially due to these laws that allow snakes to steal someone else income and earnings as a result of a divorce.

Makes men very weary of marriage, and rightfully so.
Posted by PrattvilleTiger
Montgomery, AL
Member since May 2020
2950 posts
Posted on 8/19/26 at 8:10 pm to
I didn't say any of that. You're putting words in my mouth.
But, it's not that black and white. Some men are better nurturers than women. I've known women who had zero nurturing skills.
Posted by gaetti15
AK
Member since Apr 2013
15687 posts
Posted on 8/19/26 at 8:24 pm to
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Who's gonna spend that kind of money on something if they wouldn't really love and appreciate the child?


See couple up in the northwest that wants the surrogate mother to abort their "child" because it has a treatable physical issue gramps

ETA: you probably also think that aborting a child with downs syndrome is a good thing
This post was edited on 8/19/26 at 8:27 pm
Posted by jmarto1
Houma, LA/ Las Vegas, NV
Member since Mar 2008
39236 posts
Posted on 8/19/26 at 8:27 pm to
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she found a prn job just to keep her head in the game



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