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re: My stepson is desperate for your advice

Posted on 4/24/20 at 2:55 pm to
Posted by Samson
Wildcat Spur, TN
Member since Feb 2020
348 posts
Posted on 4/24/20 at 2:55 pm to
he's already requested a paternity test.
Posted by tigergirl10
Member since Jul 2019
10399 posts
Posted on 4/24/20 at 2:56 pm to
Tell him: 1. DNA test 2. “She got you for eighteen years” 3. Paying child support isn’t going to be his choice
Posted by magildachunks
Member since Oct 2006
34142 posts
Posted on 4/24/20 at 2:56 pm to
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Good God it must suck having stepchildren. I cant imagine having to pretend I give a frick about some dingbat just so I can keep fricking his mom.





Trust me, the child doesn't have to be a step child for this situation.

It can be your flesh and blood.
Posted by Samson
Wildcat Spur, TN
Member since Feb 2020
348 posts
Posted on 4/24/20 at 2:57 pm to
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Yet he chose to go live with him?



his dad's parents are the ones with all the $. They pay for his school, apartment, etc.
Posted by DemonKA3268
Parts Unknown
Member since Oct 2015
20427 posts
Posted on 4/24/20 at 2:57 pm to
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Let me tell your step son this: by not marrying her, he ensures that both he and his illicit sexual partner remain whores and their children forever bastards.




Yeah, that will make them see the light.
Posted by Cracker
in a box
Member since Nov 2009
18898 posts
Posted on 4/24/20 at 2:57 pm to
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Damn talk about wrecking your life he should just marry her it will be cheaper.
Posted by TigerCoon
Member since Nov 2005
21940 posts
Posted on 4/24/20 at 2:59 pm to
what advice did "real" Dad have for this upstanding young man on the 6 year college plan?
Posted by Captain Crown
Member since Jun 2011
53570 posts
Posted on 4/24/20 at 2:59 pm to
Posted by Rebel
Graceland
Member since Jan 2005
138069 posts
Posted on 4/24/20 at 3:00 pm to
He can always try the Christopher Watts plan.
Posted by Samson
Wildcat Spur, TN
Member since Feb 2020
348 posts
Posted on 4/24/20 at 3:00 pm to
no clue. Considering his dad did the same thing to him, I'm sure he is the one who has been planting the seeds of "how can we get you out of this" and "how can we avoid paying child support"
Posted by Horsemeat
Truckin' somewhere in the US
Member since Dec 2014
14412 posts
Posted on 4/24/20 at 3:01 pm to
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whether he wants to be a part of these kids' lives or not. I really don't think he does.


What a wonderfully shitty society we have now.
Posted by sand mountainDvalues
Member since Oct 2018
8718 posts
Posted on 4/24/20 at 3:02 pm to
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Kick his arse for being 21 in college and dating a girl who had a kid.


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I mean good god you’ve failed as a stepdad
Posted by tgrbaitn08
Member since Dec 2007
148031 posts
Posted on 4/24/20 at 3:03 pm to
Has anyone mentioned yet that that OP has the perfect opportunity to become a Baw Paw?
Posted by TigerCoon
Member since Nov 2005
21940 posts
Posted on 4/24/20 at 3:03 pm to
that's a shame.
Posted by schwartzy
New Orleans
Member since May 2014
9589 posts
Posted on 4/24/20 at 3:04 pm to
Best way is to try and convince her that the kids will have a better life if given up for adoption if he is not in a position to provide for the children. As others said, actions have consequences.
Posted by BigPerm30
Member since Aug 2011
29395 posts
Posted on 4/24/20 at 3:07 pm to
Does she have a really high set of stairs at her house?
Posted by lsuwontonwrap
Member since Aug 2012
34147 posts
Posted on 4/24/20 at 3:08 pm to
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He just found out that his girlfriend (who he's not in love with, and who has no intention of marrying) is pregnant with twins.


Sorry I'm late
Posted by Horsemeat
Truckin' somewhere in the US
Member since Dec 2014
14412 posts
Posted on 4/24/20 at 3:08 pm to
Those kids are screwed no matter what - they'll either wind up on the streets from foster homes or they'll wind up in the trailer park with a mom that breeds for income. Either way, those poor kids. Immaturity and immorality are the reason why abortion will never be abolished in this country - because just like op said, these idiot arse "adults" are always going to look for a way out instead of facing the consequences for their actions.

Murrica.
Posted by NoHoTiger
So many to kill, so little time
Member since Nov 2006
45993 posts
Posted on 4/24/20 at 3:08 pm to
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I think he just wants to run away and hide and hope it goes away.

If he does this he's a complete piece of shite. He needs to man the frick up and take care of his kids. Get a paternity before he puts his name on the birth certificates. If the kids are his, do not run out on them.
Posted by Champagne
Sabine Free State.
Member since Oct 2007
51413 posts
Posted on 4/24/20 at 3:09 pm to
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He is considering maybe joining the Navy once he graduates


Are the Armed Forces accepting applications from people with three out-of-wedlock kids to whom he needs to pay child support? I don't think that the Navy or anybody else will take him, unless there is a Court Order signed by a Judge that gives Custody of each child to the respective mother.

Without that court order, I don't think the military will take him.
This post was edited on 4/24/20 at 3:13 pm
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