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re: My stepson is desperate for your advice

Posted on 4/24/20 at 2:32 pm to
Posted by SEClint
New Orleans, LA/Portland, OR
Member since Nov 2006
49085 posts
Posted on 4/24/20 at 2:32 pm to
Anything I'd suggest would have him on the ID network.
Posted by Oilfieldbiology
Member since Nov 2016
39775 posts
Posted on 4/24/20 at 2:33 pm to
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unless he gives up parental rights

from what I understand, he can't do that unless another man is willing to step up and adopt or claim responsibility


She trapped your stepson into being with her despite having another man’s frick trophy. She can do it again
This post was edited on 4/24/20 at 2:34 pm
Posted by crispyUGA
Upstate SC
Member since Feb 2011
16089 posts
Posted on 4/24/20 at 2:34 pm to
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OK, so my stepson (21) is a student at Texas State, has about 1.5 years left until he graduates. He just found out that his girlfriend (who he's not in love with, and who has no intention of marrying) is pregnant with twins. He has tried to convince her into giving the twins up for adoption but she is intent on keeping them (not to mention she already has another kid!) So, what are some options? He is considering maybe joining the Navy once he graduates. I think he's really looking for a way to not have to pay child support but from what I told him, I don't think there's really any way around that. He made a dumb mistake not wearing protection with a girl who is basically a frick buddy and now he's on the hook for the next 18 years. Advice/suggestions?




So, I read all of this but if I've learned ANYTHING from Pornhub, it's that the answer for any stepson's problem is to bang his Stepmom.
Posted by moneyg
Member since Jun 2006
59309 posts
Posted on 4/24/20 at 2:34 pm to
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He made a dumb mistake not wearing protection with a girl who is basically a frick buddy and now he's on the hook for the next 18 years


For good people, the love a person has for his own kids is unmatched.

Feeling like he's "on the hook" is an indicator that he's missing something fundamental. I'm guessing he doesn't have a loving relationship with a father figure.

It's sad.
Posted by DByrd2
Fredericksburg, VA
Member since Jun 2008
9455 posts
Posted on 4/24/20 at 2:34 pm to
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He is considering maybe joining the Navy once he graduates. I think he's really looking for a way to not have to pay child support but from what I told him, I don't think there's really any way around that.


Military is NOT the way around that. He can kiss more than half his pay goodbye if he goes military and has to pay CS/alimony.
Posted by OWLFAN86
Erotic Novelist
Member since Jun 2004
188619 posts
Posted on 4/24/20 at 2:35 pm to
Southwest Texas States is where the hot dumb whores go






Posted by moneyg
Member since Jun 2006
59309 posts
Posted on 4/24/20 at 2:36 pm to
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yeah, I told him the main thing he needs to figure out is whether he wants to be a part of these kids' lives or not


It's no wonder he is the way he is. I realize he's not your biological son, but FFS "being a part of his own kids' lives" really shouldn't be viewed as a decision.
Posted by lsu xman
Member since Oct 2006
16387 posts
Posted on 4/24/20 at 2:36 pm to
They might find a special bond after the kids come out and he might fall in love with her then. It happens.

My guess is she was opening her legs up to more guys than just him. DNA asap.
Posted by Bluefin
The Banana Stand
Member since Apr 2011
13388 posts
Posted on 4/24/20 at 2:36 pm to
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pregnant with twins

Posted by SulphursFinest
Lafayette
Member since Jan 2015
10020 posts
Posted on 4/24/20 at 2:37 pm to
This is so incredibly trashy and I love it.
Posted by doya2
Charenton
Member since Jan 2005
8246 posts
Posted on 4/24/20 at 2:37 pm to
You want us (taxpayers) to pay for it?
Posted by Samson
Wildcat Spur, TN
Member since Feb 2020
348 posts
Posted on 4/24/20 at 2:38 pm to
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99% chance your stepson wasn't the only guy she was frick buddies with.



well like I said, she views their relationship as much more serious than he does. He tells her he loves her though so he really has nobody to blame but himself for the hole he's dug for himself.
Posted by drdoct
Atlanta, GA
Member since Oct 2015
1609 posts
Posted on 4/24/20 at 2:38 pm to
Paternity test, paternity test, paternity test.

The military is the WORST place to run to avoid any responsibilities. They'll not only take every cent out, but they can bust your arse down taking even more money from you for running.

If they are his kids 100% for sure his kids then I suggest he figure out a way to make as much money as he can and get involved in those kids lives. You don't just screw up 2 lives and create little monsters because you don't feel like being a man. Sorry but there are already enough Pieces of Shitte out there downloading kids onto the state. Don't be that guy.

But if he's a runner, he's probably too scared to even ask for a paternity test. Time to grow up boyo unless you want to be on the hook for someone elses mistake.
Posted by HogWalloper
LaLaLand
Member since Jan 2020
470 posts
Posted on 4/24/20 at 2:38 pm to
Get a paternity test.
Posted by Samson
Wildcat Spur, TN
Member since Feb 2020
348 posts
Posted on 4/24/20 at 2:39 pm to
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They deserve to have a father figure present and monetary support. He should do the right thing and do both.



which is precisely what I told him. That said, I don't feel that him marrying the girl is a necessity.
Posted by Lago Gato
Member since Dec 2018
2034 posts
Posted on 4/24/20 at 2:39 pm to
Do the Maury Show and profit.
Posted by Oilfieldbiology
Member since Nov 2016
39775 posts
Posted on 4/24/20 at 2:39 pm to
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That said, I don't feel that him marrying the girl is a necessity.


If you don’t want screwed up kids it kinda is.
Posted by drdoct
Atlanta, GA
Member since Oct 2015
1609 posts
Posted on 4/24/20 at 2:40 pm to
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For good people, the love a person has for his own kids is unmatched.


That usually comes after they see the kid. It's perfectly normal to not be excited or happy when it's just a problem.
Posted by DemonKA3268
Parts Unknown
Member since Oct 2015
20409 posts
Posted on 4/24/20 at 2:40 pm to
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If you don’t want screwed up kids it kinda is.


I disagree. A dysfunctional relationship between the parents isn't the best thing for the child.
Posted by Samson
Wildcat Spur, TN
Member since Feb 2020
348 posts
Posted on 4/24/20 at 2:42 pm to
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Sounds like whoever raised him did a pretty shitty job if he's trying to get out of taking responsibility for nutting in some chick.


Ironically, his dad did the same thing to him. Left my wife (never married her) and just paid child support. Saw him maybe once or twice a year when he came to Louisiana to visit his own parents. His real dad sucks.
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