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re: My kids fight all the time. Am I overreacting?
Posted on 2/8/23 at 6:22 pm to WoWyHi
Posted on 2/8/23 at 6:22 pm to WoWyHi
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WoWyHi
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Grow some balls and beat your son's arse. If they're fighting for hours and he instigates it like you said, deal with him.
Yeah and after you beat the shite out of a little kid, don't feed him for a couple of days. That will teach the little brat who is the boss.
Posted on 2/8/23 at 6:23 pm to Eli Goldfinger
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My son gets bored and starts purposely trying to aggravate anyone who will take the bait. It’s almost always his sister who breaks first and they explode in a fit of arguing where neither of them is willing to back off
Instead of arguing she needs to tear one off in his arse and he’ll stop.
Posted on 2/8/23 at 6:23 pm to Eli Goldfinger
My wife had a similar situation with her younger brother many years ago. My father-in-law gave them boxing gloves and let them settle it out. It worked.
Posted on 2/8/23 at 6:24 pm to Eli Goldfinger
Relax
Mine are now 26 and 19. They will still fuss when they get together. They went at it when they were younger.
Mine are now 26 and 19. They will still fuss when they get together. They went at it when they were younger.
Posted on 2/8/23 at 6:26 pm to Eli Goldfinger
If it’s anything like my sister and I. It will get better when the oldest gets to college. Only a few more years!
Posted on 2/8/23 at 6:28 pm to Eli Goldfinger
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They fight about EVERYTHING and CONSTANTLY.
Is this what they see at home? Perhaps this is a learned behaviour.
Posted on 2/8/23 at 6:29 pm to Eli Goldfinger
That’s their way of venting and letting out frustration.
They just target each other
They just target each other
Posted on 2/8/23 at 6:37 pm to Eli Goldfinger
Brother and I are 4 years apart. We did this for years. We’re fine now and are doing not too bad in life.
Posted on 2/8/23 at 6:40 pm to Eli Goldfinger
Punish them both when they fight. Like, put them both in time out for 15 min when they get home if they fight in the car. They will quit.
Posted on 2/8/23 at 6:42 pm to Eli Goldfinger
Damn
My daughter is 3 years older than my son
My daughter is 3 years older than my son
Posted on 2/8/23 at 6:44 pm to Eli Goldfinger
Mine are 9 & 11. It's normal and it isn't stopping anytime soon. Your best bet is to work with the one that gets the most upset/angry and teach them how to ignore.
Posted on 2/8/23 at 6:52 pm to Eli Goldfinger
Kids are stupid. I used to bite myself, fake cry & blame my brother! He’d get smacked every time… Such a little bitch.
Posted on 2/8/23 at 6:55 pm to Eli Goldfinger
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pretty normal kid behavior?
100% normal.
Limit their electronic time and make them burn energy somehow. Teach them how to handle stress and conflict resolution and how to disengage assholes.
But yeah it’s going to get worse as you daughter becomes a teenager. And then your son becomes one.
Kids feed off negative energy and love getting a reaction from their parents. You have to be better for them.
A good parent will correct them and be patient and show them how to behave until they’re mature enough to grasp and understand your lessons
A shite parents will abuse them or put them on drugs or ignore them
This post was edited on 2/8/23 at 6:57 pm
Posted on 2/8/23 at 6:58 pm to Rick9Plus
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Punish them both when they fight. Like, put them both in time out for 15 min when they get home if they fight in the car. They will quit.
Sounds good
Didn’t work
Posted on 2/8/23 at 6:58 pm to Eli Goldfinger
I have 2 brothers. 1 is 1 year older and 1 is 4 years younger. We fought all the time. Mostly wrestling and goofing off. I guess it got heated sometimes, but I think it's normal.
I have a son 18 and daughter 16, they used to really pick at each other, but now that he's out of the house in college, they text, snapchat, instagram (and whatever else kids these days do) all the time. They're really close. I'd just let it run it's course.
I have a son 18 and daughter 16, they used to really pick at each other, but now that he's out of the house in college, they text, snapchat, instagram (and whatever else kids these days do) all the time. They're really close. I'd just let it run it's course.
Posted on 2/8/23 at 7:02 pm to Eli Goldfinger
You’ve never seen a mom and daughter fight it out have you??? Sibling rivalries and fights are one thing, but when you experience the syncing up of the mother daughter periods.......
OOF!!! it gets brutal!!
OOF!!! it gets brutal!!
Posted on 2/8/23 at 7:02 pm to Eli Goldfinger
wear that tail out with a belt. You're too soft.
Posted on 2/8/23 at 7:03 pm to Eli Goldfinger
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My son gets bored and starts purposely trying to aggravate anyone who will take the bait.
Why don’t you put a stop to that shite?
Posted on 2/8/23 at 7:09 pm to Eli Goldfinger
My 2 oldest 25 (girl) 21 (boy) still fight about crap all the time. They have very different views of things
Although we joke that son would argue with Jesus just because
Although we joke that son would argue with Jesus just because
Posted on 2/8/23 at 7:14 pm to Eli Goldfinger
try some discipline...
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