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Posted on 9/24/17 at 11:23 pm to Zlatan
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Do I have a right to beat this queers arse even tho her and I are no longer together?
Not necessary. It doesn't seem like it now, but this dude did you a HUGE favor.
Posted on 9/24/17 at 11:33 pm to Skooter
quote:you think so man? Right now my pride is hurt but I also feel relieved that she's out of my life.
Not necessary. It doesn't seem like it now, but this dude did you a HUGE favor.
Posted on 9/24/17 at 11:34 pm to Zlatan
Take Marcellus Wallace's advice:
frick pride
frick pride
Posted on 9/24/17 at 11:35 pm to jefforize
I will! Thank you
Posted on 9/24/17 at 11:35 pm to Zlatan
He must not be too queer if he's taking your ex to #town 
Posted on 9/24/17 at 11:35 pm to Zlatan
Prays sent dude. I really don't know what to say that others haven't said. I used to be very hard on ppl who take or attempt to take their own life. But as I have gotten older my view has softened. While I still think it is the most selfish act a person can commit because of the hurt they will put on the ones who love them. I also have realized that and consider the incredible pain or utter dispair they must be experiencing that they have arrived at the point of that.
Posted on 9/24/17 at 11:46 pm to Zlatan
quote:vengeance will serve no purpose in the grander scheme of things. take the high road.
They did frick. While we were dating. Do I have a right to beat this queers arse even tho her and I are no longer together?
Posted on 9/24/17 at 11:47 pm to Zlatan
I have been through this type of situation. The person in my situation was not cured when they exited their treatment facility so be prepared. Like many others have stated, it's not your fault and there is nothing you can do to stop it. I hope she will be able to pull through and everything will work out for the best.
Posted on 9/24/17 at 11:59 pm to Zlatan
quote:
I want to thank you all for the prayers. I had a little too much to drink last night and shouldn't have.. I'm doing better, I haven't spoken to her today.
Don't worry. You didn't say anything retarded given what you've gone through. Call her one more time and end it with your intentions being clear that it is no longer cool for her to contact you, call her mother explaining it and leaving the door open for her just in case things really go to hell, and then block her out of your life.
She is poison to you. I feel worse for her parents than you, because you can recover from this. Surround yourself with your friends, have them delete all the photos on your computer/phone of her, and never talk to her again if you can help it.
Posted on 9/25/17 at 12:00 am to Zlatan
quote:
Do I have a right to beat this queers arse even tho her and I are no longer together?
Break up with her, call the Mom and tell her this directly, have your friends delete all your mutual pictures, and never talk to her again. That is the solution.
Posted on 9/25/17 at 12:04 am to Zlatan
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you think so man? Right now my pride is hurt but I also feel relieved that she's out of my life.
Purge her from your life and block her number. Also while this may be too painful for you to personally do, have your friends delete all of your pictures together. She is cancer to your soul and needs to be purged entirely. Don't block the parents number and just make it clear to them, but break off all ties with her.
Posted on 9/25/17 at 12:05 am to Zlatan
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Do I have a right to beat this queers arse even tho her and I are no longer together?
That would be the actions of a man who still cared about her. She has more problems than can be solved in a lifetime. You also have the right to live a decent life. It cannot be done with her.
Captain Save-a-ho needs to retire tonight. No more phone calls, texts, emails, letters, smoke signals, or Bat light.
Radio silence from here on out. She took advantage of your kind nature, then continued to find new ways to frick you over. You don't even want to know what she had planned next.
Posted on 9/25/17 at 12:20 am to OMLandshark
quote:Thank you man. It's been pretty damn hard after everything that we went through.. but I'll pull through. Hell, she threatened to khs tonight when I told her I didn't want anymore contact with her
Don't worry. You didn't say anything retarded given what you've gone through. Call her one more time and end it with your intentions being clear that it is no longer cool for her to contact you, call her mother explaining it and leaving the door open for her just in case things really go to hell, and then block her out of your life.
quote:Yeah, she is a poison. She was a drug, tbh... an addiction I couldn't kick. But hopefully I have now.
She is poison to you. I feel worse for her parents than you, because you can recover from this. Surround yourself with your friends, have them delete all the photos on your computer/phone of her, and never talk to her again if you can help it.
About her parents, she comes from a very broken home. Worse than I had ever imagined it was honestly. I'd say that in my opinion she has all of these problems and mental breakdowns due to her home life. It's awful and I feel so bad for her, which is why leaving makes it so much worse. I feel like she will have no one..
Also Shark, I emailed you the other night but idk if you ever got it
just wanted to personally thank you 
This post was edited on 9/25/17 at 12:22 am
Posted on 9/25/17 at 12:37 am to Zlatan
9/10
Posted on 9/25/17 at 12:50 am to Skooter
quote:
time to post pics of her on the OT
Yeah because public shaming is how you deal with someone who has already attempted suicide...
Posted on 9/25/17 at 2:16 am to Bazzatcha
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Tell her to grow up and deal with her emotions like an adult because what she is really struggling with is the thing called life and its not getting any easier.
Best not give advise unless educated to do so. We know now that children who suffered various types of abuse will grow up with improperly developed brains. MRI's have proven that one common scenario is the amygdala and hippocampal region are stunted during development when young children suffer emotional trauma. These are regions that emit and regulate flows of powerful, mind altering adrenalines. This is only one type of "struggle" for the suicidal, but it's hardly a struggle with "life".
A normal, emotionally well balanced individual can be forced into sheer emotional terror if placed in the situation of being violently murdered... or some situation as horrifying as seeing your family, children, wife, etc. getting slaughtered. In these situations the brain emits what is sometimes known as a "fight or flight" adrenaline... and while under its influence, a typically well balanced, normal individual is capable of doing some pretty "psychotic" things, acting in uncontrollable hysteria while attempting to survive. But for someone with a developmental imbalance caused by childhood trauma, regions of the brain did not develop properly and cannot correctly regulate the flow of such adrenalines. For them, just about any run-of-the-mill confrontation or problem can trigger the same adrenaline sending them into irrational, emotional horror.. a "psychotic" episode of sheer emotional terror and overload of intense hysteria that can be hard to escape from.
So, before you advise anyone to "stop taking those anti-depressants", or write them off as having a "poor me" attitude, "outcry for attention"...and tell them to "grow up"... you'd better know what the fu#k you are talking about and pray to God you never experience what some of these "poor me attitudes" live with on a daily basis. You might find you couldn't even last 5 minutes in their skin ...without ending it yourself.
Posted on 9/25/17 at 2:54 am to Kafka
All I can say is that her mental state is NOT a reason for you to be clamped down for the rest of your life simply for her sake.
This girl sounds selfish as hell when it comes to you specifically. She totally just wants you there because the other guy failed her and seems to not consider how her actions effect you at all.
Its sad her mental state has led her down this road where she is completely blind to her own ways. Hopefully she looks in the mirror and realizes there's a path out before she ends things.
Make no mistake, if she makes the decision to end her own life, IT WILL NOT BE YOUR FAULT.
She has clearly wound her mind into this state.
Just run from it and hope for the best. There's no way you can stay in the middle of that and expect to find a solution.
Lastly, word of warning: DO NOT GO BACK if she comes crawling back. DO NOT BITE. This might be twice as hard as your decision to let her go the first time.
This girl sounds selfish as hell when it comes to you specifically. She totally just wants you there because the other guy failed her and seems to not consider how her actions effect you at all.
Its sad her mental state has led her down this road where she is completely blind to her own ways. Hopefully she looks in the mirror and realizes there's a path out before she ends things.
Make no mistake, if she makes the decision to end her own life, IT WILL NOT BE YOUR FAULT.
She has clearly wound her mind into this state.
Just run from it and hope for the best. There's no way you can stay in the middle of that and expect to find a solution.
Lastly, word of warning: DO NOT GO BACK if she comes crawling back. DO NOT BITE. This might be twice as hard as your decision to let her go the first time.
This post was edited on 9/25/17 at 2:58 am
Posted on 9/25/17 at 3:23 am to Zlatan
You need to break up with her and move on. Otherwise you'll be dealing with this your entire life.
Posted on 9/25/17 at 8:28 am to Kafka
When I read the initial post back in June I wanted to tell you to leave her but I knew that would never happen and you weren't in a place to do that. Now you have a free pass and buddy, you better run with it!
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