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| Favorite team: | Villanova  |
| Location: | Old Trafford |
| Biography: | This is my fake account |
| Interests: | My girlfriend |
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| Number of Posts: | 42 |
| Registered on: | 3/8/2017 |
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quote:yessir. went through it about two years ago, actually came here to get it all off of my chest. the girl i dated was really similar to the one you’re describing with several different phobias and mental issues i was unaware of at the start. difference is, my ex actually did “attempt” to kill herself (although if you know anything about cutting, you know which is “real” and which is for attention). it wore me out. mentally, emotionally and even physically, i was completely drained.
Anybody ever experienced this? Advice?
it took a few months before i was able to feel comfortable enough to “talk,” if that makes sense. i flirted and fooled around but never got to a point where i was serious about a relationship until about 8 months later— even then (and now) i’m not 100% comfortable with opening myself completely up like that again, because of the hell she put me through.
quote:i’m glad you were able to build up the courage to finally let go. i figure you’ve been wanting it for a while but it takes a leap to finally cut ties. i thought i was strong enough to handle whatever shite a female could throw at me, but damn if i didn’t find out soon enough i’m not as tough as i thought i was. don’t let her mind games and the “you’ll miss me when i’m six feet under” fool you.
Threatening suicide all the time. I like to think I’m a mentally strong dude but I underestimated the mind frick that would follow.
I left her the other day, and now she’s telling me “I hope you feel good when I kill myself”
stay strong and remember that you’re doing what is best for YOU. if you ever need to talk to someone who’s been through similar or just need to get things off your chest, my line is always open.
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quote:I feel like this is aimed at me :lol: :lol:
did his girlfriend try to kill herself?
re: My girlfriend tried to kill herself
Posted by Zlatan on 9/25/17 at 12:20 am to OMLandshark
quote:Thank you man. It's been pretty damn hard after everything that we went through.. but I'll pull through. Hell, she threatened to khs tonight when I told her I didn't want anymore contact with her
Don't worry. You didn't say anything retarded given what you've gone through. Call her one more time and end it with your intentions being clear that it is no longer cool for her to contact you, call her mother explaining it and leaving the door open for her just in case things really go to hell, and then block her out of your life.
quote:Yeah, she is a poison. She was a drug, tbh... an addiction I couldn't kick. But hopefully I have now.
She is poison to you. I feel worse for her parents than you, because you can recover from this. Surround yourself with your friends, have them delete all the photos on your computer/phone of her, and never talk to her again if you can help it.
About her parents, she comes from a very broken home. Worse than I had ever imagined it was honestly. I'd say that in my opinion she has all of these problems and mental breakdowns due to her home life. It's awful and I feel so bad for her, which is why leaving makes it so much worse. I feel like she will have no one..
Also Shark, I emailed you the other night but idk if you ever got it :lol: just wanted to personally thank you :cheers:
I will! Thank you
quote:you think so man? Right now my pride is hurt but I also feel relieved that she's out of my life.
Not necessary. It doesn't seem like it now, but this dude did you a HUGE favor.
quote:I did a couple days ago :lol:
Tell her she aint right and dip.
re: My girlfriend tried to kill herself
Posted by Zlatan on 9/24/17 at 11:01 pm to 3deadtrolls
I did. I'd post the screenshots of messages but idk how that'd work out? I feel like she'd actually kill herself if she ever found out
re: My girlfriend tried to kill herself
Posted by Zlatan on 9/24/17 at 10:08 pm to GeauxLSUGRL
Update:
They did frick. While we were dating.
Do I have a right to beat this queers arse even tho her and I are no longer together?
They did frick. While we were dating.
Do I have a right to beat this queers arse even tho her and I are no longer together?
re: My girlfriend tried to kill herself
Posted by Zlatan on 9/23/17 at 8:34 pm to GeauxLSUGRL
quote:yeah.. it was a fricked up situation. I'm glad I cut ties.
I reread your update I can almost guarantee that her ex is being her crutch since you left her and he will most likely try to get in her pants. If she's not willing to let go of an EX BF for a current BF (you at the time) then she's really not worth it. How messed up is that?? She sounds very selfish. I don't miss one friendship I had with an ex. If she can't let him go then I don't see her ever getting married bc no man will put up with that.
I want to thank you all for the prayers. I had a little too much to drink last night and shouldn't have.. I'm doing better, I haven't spoken to her today.
To the ones that have posted on here since the update...
Thank you for the advice, positive and negative. I am in love with someone that really just doesn't help me and someone who I realized it's best I let go of. So that's what I did.
I'd like to say thank you again to everyone that prayed and thought of us in our hard times, even though you have no idea who we are. It means a lot.
To the ones that have posted on here since the update...
Thank you for the advice, positive and negative. I am in love with someone that really just doesn't help me and someone who I realized it's best I let go of. So that's what I did.
I'd like to say thank you again to everyone that prayed and thought of us in our hard times, even though you have no idea who we are. It means a lot.
re: My girlfriend tried to kill herself
Posted by Zlatan on 6/20/17 at 9:52 pm to OMLandshark
I cannot thank you enough for everything you just said shark. Everything you said makes sense to me
quote:man that is terrible. I imagine that will be how we all are with her from now on. I'm glad your dad is doing better.
It's crazy, my dad attempted it about 10years ago (still alive now), but 10years later and every time he doesn't answer his phone or no one knows where he is we get that feeling all over again.
quote:thank you
Definitely saying a prayer for both of you.
Praying for you man
re: My girlfriend tried to kill herself
Posted by Zlatan on 6/20/17 at 9:05 pm to Whoopdedo_LSU
quote:thank you, from the bottom of my heart
Y'all are in my prayers.
quote:thank you, and part of me knows that. there is just a part nagging at my brain and my heart saying that I could have prevented it
First of all you cant STOP someone from feeling the desperation and pain that leads to an attempt on their life.
That pain comes from inside, DEEP INSIDE. Perhaps caused by past trauma, perhaps its chemical. Regardless its not something you can control.
quote:I am going to. I want her to know that she has me to lean on when she gets back, and I need to be as strong as possible and prepared for it
Right now you probably need to find a therapist yourself, get some tools you can use to recover so that when shes ready you can be there for her.
My girlfriend tried to kill herself
Posted by Zlatan on 6/20/17 at 8:57 pm
Umm I don't really know how to talk about this, but I feel like I need to get it out so here goes. Please ignore any misspellings or jumbled and non-sensible phrases. My mind is wandering and I'm not thinking straight.
My girlfriend, the love of my life, attempted to kill herself yesterday. I had talked her out of it before, and she had previously been to see a professional for help, but something snapped 2 days ago. I don't know why she chose to do this, no one knows yet, but she is in a very bad shape.
What I do know is this: she was rushed to the ER yesterday, and she had lost approximately 3 pints of blood by the time she arrived. For a tiny girl like she is, that's a lot. She spent last night in the ER; getting stitches, blood transfusions and being force fed.
Sometime today she was transported to a mental institution and she is being kept on round the clock watch for a minimum of the next 3 weeks. No one, not even her family, are allowed to see and have contact with her.
The worst part is I feel like I should've stopped it from happening. I've talked to her parents and they both say it wasn't my fault but I feel that if I had been there it wouldn't have happened. I can't help but blame myself for this.
Fellow OT baws, I'm asking for prayers. I'm very worried for her and I pray that she's getting the very best care possible. I'm worried that the next time I see the woman I had planned on spending my life with will be when she's laying in a casket.
Does anyone know how to deal with this? Have any of you ever been through something similar to this? The pain I feel in my heart I would not wish upon my worst enemy. I feel like absolute shite..
Thank you all for taking the time to read this. God bless you
My girlfriend, the love of my life, attempted to kill herself yesterday. I had talked her out of it before, and she had previously been to see a professional for help, but something snapped 2 days ago. I don't know why she chose to do this, no one knows yet, but she is in a very bad shape.
What I do know is this: she was rushed to the ER yesterday, and she had lost approximately 3 pints of blood by the time she arrived. For a tiny girl like she is, that's a lot. She spent last night in the ER; getting stitches, blood transfusions and being force fed.
Sometime today she was transported to a mental institution and she is being kept on round the clock watch for a minimum of the next 3 weeks. No one, not even her family, are allowed to see and have contact with her.
The worst part is I feel like I should've stopped it from happening. I've talked to her parents and they both say it wasn't my fault but I feel that if I had been there it wouldn't have happened. I can't help but blame myself for this.
Fellow OT baws, I'm asking for prayers. I'm very worried for her and I pray that she's getting the very best care possible. I'm worried that the next time I see the woman I had planned on spending my life with will be when she's laying in a casket.
Does anyone know how to deal with this? Have any of you ever been through something similar to this? The pain I feel in my heart I would not wish upon my worst enemy. I feel like absolute shite..
Thank you all for taking the time to read this. God bless you
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Posted by Zlatan on 6/3/17 at 12:16 pm to SlowEasyConfident
Grazie, SEC
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re: To the United haters
Posted by Zlatan on 5/24/17 at 4:13 pm to McCaigBro69
He would not show me his wife. Do you have pics?
To the United haters
Posted by Zlatan on 5/24/17 at 4:07 pm
SUCK THIS DICK!!!!
How does it feel knowing we have 3 trophies and everyone else apart from Chelsea has ZERO!!
I, alongside Antoine, will be back to win my first champions league trophy next season. Watch out Europe :doublebird: :doublebird:
How does it feel knowing we have 3 trophies and everyone else apart from Chelsea has ZERO!!
I, alongside Antoine, will be back to win my first champions league trophy next season. Watch out Europe :doublebird: :doublebird:
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