re: My fiancee cheated on me.

Detach from the obvious emotional component for a moment. Marriage is a legal contract which carries all the weight thereof.

You and the until recently future Mrs Geauxmedic were about to start a new business together. Think of it that way and realize that you just found out your new business partner was a crook and the deal fell through in the nick of time.

You were saved the future losses that inevitably come from being in business with a crook and you avoided all the legal entanglements.

Don't forgive her a goddamn thing. She's out.

Medic everyone pretty much knows my past on here. This place maybe a shitshow 95% of the time but it has some really good IRL lessons and alot of life experiences to back those lessons up.

I didn't have a fiancé cheat on me(to my knowledge) but I did have one end the relationship out of the blue in a particularly hard time in my life.

Here is what you can expect:

This will probably change who you are for a considerable amount of time. As someone in their young 20s at the time, this was single handedly my biggest life lesson and has sculpted me into who I am today. It has been almost two years for me and I trust no one. I have not come close at all to being in a relationship and I'm perfectly content with that. I don't have any kids so keep that in mind, but I became very selfish in a sense.

Here is some advice I have: take this opportunity to make yourself better. I lost 35 lbs after our split, I've traveled to many places, I've learned to play the guitar, and lastly I've slept with a number of women.

Use those emotions you're feeling as fuel to make you better, and you'll realize she wasn't for you and you're better without her.

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I think it's stupid to post personal shite on here... But I honestly have no one else to talk to. She admitted tonight there's someone else. Every time she said she was going to her "friends" house while I'm home with our daughter, she was with him.

How can someone tear apart a family? How selfish do you have to be to do that? To lie about it... To say you want to be a family and just cheat. How can someone do this? I'll never understand the level of selfishness... And I told her I forgave her, but I'm not sure why. Part of me just wanted her to feel better. Why do I still love her and care about her? Why am I the one who is left here alone?

In what world is this fair? I know life isn't fair... But how can a person be so cruel? This isn't just about me, it's about our daughter too... Our family... I'll never get it.

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Seems the two years you spent calling everyone on the poliboard a cuck could have been better spent minding your own fences, you cucking cuck.

This is either a lie or the best karmic justice in history.

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Seems the two years you spent calling everyone on the poliboard a cuck could have been better spent minding your own fences, you cucking cuck.

This is either a lie or the best karmic justice in history.

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Come on man. No need to kick a brother when he’s down.

My condolences about your situation. It’s easy to say leave her behind in your dust, but you love the girl and have a child together. The fact that this was a repeat thing and she was being sneaky as opposed to a one night thing doesn’t look good for you, though.

If it was me, I’d congratulate my wife for fricking up our kids’ childhood and would look to ending things.

Best part about being the decent person is you get to sit back and watch the ex's train wreck after the divorce.

My ex wife: 3 boyfriends and another divorce after our divorce all in about a 6 year span. She just keeps on moving to the bigger better deal I guess.

My life: 3 years single and I have had the same gf for 6 years and no marriage in my future. Drama free and happy

I guess the first thing you need to do is think of your daughter.

Will you try to get custody?