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re: My fiancee cheated on me.
Posted on 11/17/17 at 9:25 am to Chad504boy
Posted on 11/17/17 at 9:25 am to Chad504boy
Quick recap for those just joining. He started dating this girl who was already pregnant with someone elses child he refers to as his daughter. He has been raising his own son and his gf, now fiancée, daughter since she was born. He found out that while he's been staying home watching the kiddos she been out banging a guy in the Wally World parking lot instead of being at her friends house... think that about sums it up.
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Posted on 11/17/17 at 9:25 am to GEAUXmedic
Sorry to hear this brother. Time heals all wounds. Hurts like shite now but in time you will look back and see it was for the better.
To look at it glass is half full...you found out before yall got married. I see that as a huge plus. I know it may not seem like it now.
To look at it glass is half full...you found out before yall got married. I see that as a huge plus. I know it may not seem like it now.
Posted on 11/17/17 at 9:25 am to Chad504boy
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IF OP can find himself a nice side piece to go cuddle with here and there, they can probably make this marriage work.
Getting even for the sake of getting even is not the answer. OP needs to bolt from her or keep her, and live knowing that he can never truly trust her.
Posted on 11/17/17 at 9:26 am to jpainter6174
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Quick recap for those just joining. He started dating this girl who was already pregnant with someone elses child he refers to as his daughter. He has been raising his own son and his gf, now fiancée, daughter since she was born. He found out that while he's been staying home watching the kiddos she been out banging a guy in the Wally World parking lot instead of being at her friends house... think that about sums it up.
oh shite....yeah this calls for anon posting of nudes of said cheater.
Geaux HMU @gmail
Posted on 11/17/17 at 9:27 am to GEAUXmedic
Dont marry her. You can still be in your childs life but a cheater is always a cheater.
Very similar scenario happened to a very good friend of mine. He forgave her and they got married then about 2 years later he discovered she had never stopped seeing the other guy. They had a child before marriage and one after. The one before was his but the other one was the other guys. He ended up paying child support for some other guys kid.
Really screwed up. Dont do it, plenty of good women out there who wont treat you think that.
Very similar scenario happened to a very good friend of mine. He forgave her and they got married then about 2 years later he discovered she had never stopped seeing the other guy. They had a child before marriage and one after. The one before was his but the other one was the other guys. He ended up paying child support for some other guys kid.
Really screwed up. Dont do it, plenty of good women out there who wont treat you think that.
Posted on 11/17/17 at 9:27 am to tke857
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oh shite....yeah this calls for anon posting of nudes of said cheater.
I support this
Posted on 11/17/17 at 9:28 am to GEAUXmedic
Life just sucks man. I give you my sympathies.
Posted on 11/17/17 at 9:29 am to tke857
frick her sister, mom and best friend. It’ll make you feel better.
Posted on 11/17/17 at 9:30 am to Chad504boy
Holy shite - if OP is knowingly raising someone else's kid AND now he's debating whether or not to stay with this trash after this bombshell, then there is only one word to describe him.
OP needs a buddy to bring his arse to the gym for two months and then help him set up his Tinder account.
He has freedom staring him in the face (red pill) or he can be a complete cuck and raise some one else's kid with a cheating slut (blue pill).
OP needs a buddy to bring his arse to the gym for two months and then help him set up his Tinder account.
He has freedom staring him in the face (red pill) or he can be a complete cuck and raise some one else's kid with a cheating slut (blue pill).
This post was edited on 11/17/17 at 9:31 am
Posted on 11/17/17 at 9:30 am to GEAUXmedic
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Like do I move on, do I keep hope. Keeping hope is stupid, but for some reason it's instinct.
If anything else, you keep hope for your kids.
Posted on 11/17/17 at 9:30 am to Skillet
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Getting even for the sake of getting even is not the answer. OP needs to bolt from her or keep her, and live knowing that he can never truly trust her.
I wasn't talking about getting even, i was referring to a mutual lifestyle they can decide to live.
Posted on 11/17/17 at 9:31 am to LSUZombie
They're not his kids
This post was edited on 11/17/17 at 9:32 am
Posted on 11/17/17 at 9:31 am to SirWinston
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Holy shite - if OP is knowingly raising someone else's kid AND now he's debating whether or not to stay with this trash after this bombshell, then there is only one word to describe him.
OP needs a buddy to bring his arse to the gym for two months and then help him set up his Tinder account.
He has freedom staring him in the face (red pill) or he can be a complete cuck and raise some one else's kid with a cheating slut (blue pill).
Posted on 11/17/17 at 9:32 am to GEAUXmedic
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I know my daughter isn't biologically mine. She was just pregnant when I met her. But my daughter is my daughter. She's my world and nothing will ever change that.
Oh boy...I just caught up to this part. That's a rough situation to be in.
Posted on 11/17/17 at 9:33 am to GEAUXmedic
Dude and please don't stay with this person. Worst decision you could make. I hope deep down inside you know this. Even though your fefe's say to try and make it work.
DONT DO IT. You were gifted by the man above by finding out about all this before yall got hitched.
DONT DO IT. You were gifted by the man above by finding out about all this before yall got hitched.
Posted on 11/17/17 at 9:33 am to LSUZombie
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Oh boy...I just caught up to this part. That's a rough situation to be in.
Except it's really not
Posted on 11/17/17 at 9:34 am to Chad504boy
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I wasn't talking about getting even, i was referring to a mutual lifestyle they can decide to live.
I guess, but that's not a lifestyle that I would ever choose. I like having someone who loves me and not other guys, and someone I can trust.
Posted on 11/17/17 at 9:35 am to LSUZombie
Did OP adopt said bastard daughter? I can’t go through 22 pages.
Posted on 11/17/17 at 9:35 am to Skillet
phleeze aubrey has slept with lots of dudes here and some of the chicks
Posted on 11/17/17 at 9:35 am to Skillet
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I guess, but that's not a lifestyle that I would ever choose. I like having someone who loves me and not other guys, and someone I can trust.
yeah, he should totally go for a 3rd relationship, bat 50% on the odds of that one being successful and have a 3rd baby mama in his life.
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