re: My fiancee cheated on me.

Just leave her and her kid
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Well that will only punish the kid, who thinks it's her dad and he just disappears out of the blue
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so he should be the one miserable for the rest of his life? Geaux just happened to get himself into the situation by being the good guy, had he known this outcome he wouldn't have in the first place. Once the POS mother tells the kid he's not your real father, yada yada, there's a chance the kid wont' even respect him a bit.
same thing happened to my friend, and in the end she scooped "her" child away from him. he eventually got over it.

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Yeah but what was his thank you? He took a chance and tried to man up for a woman he trusted and a kid who needed a father and got the shaft.

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Doesn’t putting his name on the birth certificate legally bind him to this child?

If someone here adopted a kid & the relationship went south, would y’all be telling him to cut ties with the adopted child? It is still his child.

Damn it, sorry man. You've got my prayers and support.

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Is it not his biological daughter?

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No, it is just Geaux’s name on the birth certificate.

Which means that if the biological father wants the daughter then he can sue to have Geaux removed from the daughter’s life. Or if the woman finds someone else to hookup with and wants her new man to be the father, then she can sue to have Geaux removed from the daughter’s life. Or if the biological father starts making bank and this woman wants a piece of that support payment, then she can sue to have Geaux removed from the daughter’s life. Or if this woman just wants to hurt Geaux, then she can sue to have him removed from the daughter’s life.

There’s a plethora of ways Geaux can get fricked over here just with the daughter alone (not even going into everything else this woman can do to him). And if he in any way wants to stay in the daughter’s life, then I’d say that he needs a lawyer.

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The woman you married is NOT the woman you're divorcing.

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Excellent post. Medic you seem like real good people. Don't fall into the trap of memories. Y'all Had some good genuine ones I'm sure and a child (the best gift of all).

Close that chapter. I watched a friend not do that. After 5 very tumultuous years of marriage and another child they split. It never was repaired.

Good luck man. I mean that.

Are you suggesting that people never cheat and break up amicably and get along after?

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Doesn’t putting his name on the birth certificate legally bind him to this child? It’s the same as adopting a child. He didn’t sign the birth certificate under the belief that it was biologically his child.

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Curious about this as well.

I once went to the WalMart in Breaux Bridge to buy my wife a watch. The gal at the watch counter was kind of cute with a similar look to my wife (Cajun women), so I asked her to give me some help picking it out. After we pick out something nice the cashier tells me she wished her boyfriend would get her a watch, and then says she’s never been faithful in any relationship. “I’m just here for a watch.”

There apparently are some people out there who view that kind of thing as the normal way to be. Some are attractive, charming, and you can’t fault yourself for getting involved. But you can’t change them. It isn’t about you. If you can also live like that is normal, fine. Otherwise you have to be around people for whom that isn’t normal.

Oh, one last thing, please don’t do things that could mess up the child. You can say “I’m out.” without traumatizing the child.

Good luck figuring it out.

Record all this shite bro....when you have the dirt to get your kid...GTFO.

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GEAUXmedic

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So you're divorced with a son

You decide to date and then later get engaged to woman who was pregnant with a mother mans baby

She leaves her daughter,a toddler, home with you--the babysitter--to go get dicked down

And you're considering staying with her?

My only question for you is JUST HOW BAD ARE YOU TRYING TO frick UP YOUR SONS LIFE

Make better decisions for your son, man.