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re: (most) Women are programmed to think the worst of everything

Posted on 5/18/18 at 7:13 am to
Posted by LSUBFA83
Member since May 2012
4351 posts
Posted on 5/18/18 at 7:13 am to
Just get the woman some damn boudin.
Posted by LSU-MNCBABY
Knightsgate
Member since Jan 2004
25351 posts
Posted on 5/18/18 at 7:14 am to
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way. I'm a dude so I do say some stupid shite at times.


Must be young, never admit that.
Posted by celltech1981
Member since Jul 2014
8139 posts
Posted on 5/18/18 at 7:16 am to
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You can do 10,000 good things and 1 bad thing over your lifetime together. They'll only remember that one bad thing




build a castle and she's gonna complain that the curtains are the wrong color
Posted by ctiger69
Member since May 2005
31030 posts
Posted on 5/18/18 at 7:30 am to
Not safe for work.

Posted by drexyl
Mingovia
Member since Sep 2005
23421 posts
Posted on 5/18/18 at 7:30 am to
you people are just sad.
Posted by RogerTheShrubber
Juneau, AK
Member since Jan 2009
299716 posts
Posted on 5/18/18 at 7:36 am to
Have you been to the Rant per chance? It's not just the women...
Posted by fr33manator
Baton Rouge
Member since Oct 2010
135035 posts
Posted on 5/18/18 at 7:38 am to
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I can’t argue there. I tend to be pretty emotionally flat/even keeled, but I know I can’t always rein it in. I put off some serious conversations til the week after my period to be sure I won’t have a hormonal reaction & cry.



Y’all can’t help it. It’s chemistry
Posted by Teufelhunden
Galvez, LA
Member since Feb 2005
6044 posts
Posted on 5/18/18 at 7:39 am to
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She's a teacher and doesn't bitch about it.


Posted by stelly1025
Lafayette
Member since May 2012
10385 posts
Posted on 5/18/18 at 7:41 am to
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Celltech "I like your haircut"

Sloot: "you didn't like my hair before"


The answer is yes and call her a moose donkey whore...
Posted by Wtodd
Tampa, FL
Member since Oct 2013
68609 posts
Posted on 5/18/18 at 7:42 am to
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Women

I don't understand them at all; I'm 58 and gave up trying to figure them out 35 yrs ago...which I would have done so sooner.
Posted by RogerTheShrubber
Juneau, AK
Member since Jan 2009
299716 posts
Posted on 5/18/18 at 7:47 am to
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Y’all can’t help it. It’s chemistry


It's conditioning. Generally happens to people who feel very little control over their own outcomes.
Posted by TH03
Mogadishu
Member since Dec 2008
172004 posts
Posted on 5/18/18 at 7:52 am to
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feel very little control over their own outcomes.


But they gladly give up control for the most part.

My wife will sometimes complain we always do what I want to do, but when it comes down to a time where we're making a decision on eating, going out of town for a weekend, etc etc the decision is always defaulted to me.

That's been my experience in most adults relationships. The joke "'I don't care' and 'you pick' aren't real restaurants" is very real.
Posted by Pecker
Rocky Top
Member since May 2015
16674 posts
Posted on 5/18/18 at 7:55 am to
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Never get a woman used to something that you don't want to keep on doing.


You got to be unpredictable. otherwise you create a debt/debtor relationship. if someone expects something, they aren't going to appreciate it when they get it. And if they don't get it, then you now owe them a debt.

Never mind that you didn't owe them anything to begin with.

This is why Valentine's Day and other corny holidays actually hurt the concept of romance in a relationship. There's no love involved. It's simply a debt/debtor exchange.

An easy way to find out if your woman has been poisoned by this "you owe me" mindset is to simply skip Valentine's Day. You don't have to be rude. Just text her Happy VDay and leave it at that. See what happens.
This post was edited on 5/18/18 at 8:26 am
Posted by TH03
Mogadishu
Member since Dec 2008
172004 posts
Posted on 5/18/18 at 8:07 am to
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This is why Valentine's Day and other corny holidays actually hurt the concept of romance in a relationship. There's no love involved. It's simply a debt/debtor exchange.



Depends on how you do it. If I got my wife flowers on VDay, she'd puke. She hates that shite. But I do always make steak and lobster. We enjoy it because we don't eat steak and lobster every day so it's a nice treat for both of us. Sure, the expectation is there, but I put it on myself too and I cook almost every other night anyways so nothing really changes but the menu.

The love is still there because the only real expectation she has is that we're going to share a nice meal and a nice bottle of wine together. That's all she really cares about. And that meal could be pasta and butter for all she cares.
Posted by celltech1981
Member since Jul 2014
8139 posts
Posted on 5/18/18 at 8:09 am to
well, she has complained that she isn't gonna know what to do with herself all summer.
Posted by celltech1981
Member since Jul 2014
8139 posts
Posted on 5/18/18 at 8:11 am to
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An easy way to find out if your woman has been poised by this "you owe me" mindset is to simply skip Valentine's Day. You don't have to be rude. Just text her Happy VDay and leave it at that. See what happens.


We haven't celebrated the two valentines days that we have been together. She think's it's dumb. She does get really excited over what I'm getting her for her birthday but she also gets excited when she gets me something for mine.
Posted by GreatLakesTiger24
Member since May 2012
61584 posts
Posted on 5/18/18 at 8:11 am to
Pretty much every time a girl compliments a new haircut, shirt, watch, etc. I'll do this in response
This post was edited on 5/18/18 at 8:12 am
Posted by RogerTheShrubber
Juneau, AK
Member since Jan 2009
299716 posts
Posted on 5/18/18 at 8:18 am to
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But they gladly give up control for the most part.


Conditioning.

I prefer independent women myself.
Posted by TH03
Mogadishu
Member since Dec 2008
172004 posts
Posted on 5/18/18 at 8:19 am to
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but she also gets excited when she gets me something for mine.


My wife's is in April, my in October. I threw something together for her the day before, she had my birthday trip planned last year and had the actual day of my birthday planned since April.

She definitely likes planning mine better than enjoying hers. Although last year I surprised her with a flight out to her favorite winery and got the whole place reserved for us. She started crying when I told her a week before.
Posted by Hogwarts
Arkansas, USA
Member since Sep 2015
18402 posts
Posted on 5/18/18 at 8:19 am to
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Just text her Happy VDay and leave it at that. See what happens.


I won't be around to find out.
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