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re: Monthly income vs expenditures

Posted on 8/19/24 at 11:39 am to
Posted by clamdip
Rocky Mountain High
Member since Sep 2004
20624 posts
Posted on 8/19/24 at 11:39 am to
quote:

We have a flex account at my house. If I have extra left over my wife flexes her spending habits to make sure we break even.

Word.

Here's a better question: What's your monthly burn rate? (All outflows considered except what you route to savings)

I had to lay out the details of our burn rate to the wifey last year. No way I can retire if our burn rate stays at $20-22K/mo. And this is without a car payment.
Posted by clamdip
Rocky Mountain High
Member since Sep 2004
20624 posts
Posted on 8/19/24 at 11:40 am to
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toddlers are fricking expensive.

Wait until they're teenagers. Phone, clothes, car insurance, orthodontist, etc.
Posted by LemmyLives
Texas
Member since Mar 2019
13536 posts
Posted on 8/19/24 at 11:58 am to
Because they don’t give a shite, and don’t change behaviors. Most of them can’t think beyond the next vacation. Did premarital discussions, went to a Ramsey counselor for a year, it never ends up mattering.

“We can borrow the money for the trip from our property tax savings account.”

“The Disney cruise is only $8k and the kids deserve it.”

There are 1,000 variations on this.

Posted by fareplay
Member since Nov 2012
6306 posts
Posted on 8/19/24 at 12:16 pm to
Is this really your wife or just an example?
Posted by fareplay
Member since Nov 2012
6306 posts
Posted on 8/19/24 at 12:18 pm to
Jesus how are you burning 20k? Multiple mortgage?
Posted by ultratiger89
Houston, Tx
Member since Aug 2007
3661 posts
Posted on 8/19/24 at 12:20 pm to
My father taught me to never ask someone how much money they make nor tell anyone how much money you make.
Posted by LemmyLives
Texas
Member since Mar 2019
13536 posts
Posted on 8/19/24 at 12:24 pm to
My ex wife and those are nearly verbatim statements.
Posted by notsince98
KC, MO
Member since Oct 2012
21396 posts
Posted on 8/19/24 at 12:25 pm to
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This is called treading water, unless you also have no savings at all as a cushion.


It is also called living paycheck to paycheck.
Posted by fareplay
Member since Nov 2012
6306 posts
Posted on 8/19/24 at 12:26 pm to
And this dumb logic is why women are underpaid and most people are financially illiterate.

Your father also probably did some dumb stuff and you learned from that
Posted by notsince98
KC, MO
Member since Oct 2012
21396 posts
Posted on 8/19/24 at 12:27 pm to
quote:


I consider paycheck to paycheck if you can’t afford your mortgage/ rent twice in a month.


If you cant pay a bill, you are not living paycheck to paycheck. You are not making it. if you cant pay a bill until the next paycheck and it is like that every month/paycheck, you are living paycheck to paycheck.
Posted by fareplay
Member since Nov 2012
6306 posts
Posted on 8/19/24 at 12:27 pm to
Glad she is an ex but the guilt trip on the kids
Posted by Forever
Member since Dec 2019
6787 posts
Posted on 8/19/24 at 12:28 pm to
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this dumb logic is why women are underpaid

Women aren’t underpaid. The wage gap doesn’t exist and at you for calling someone else stupid while you perpetuate that ridiculous bullshite
Posted by fareplay
Member since Nov 2012
6306 posts
Posted on 8/19/24 at 12:30 pm to
Proof? There’s a lot of studies that validate
Posted by LNCHBOX
70448
Member since Jun 2009
88718 posts
Posted on 8/19/24 at 12:37 pm to
quote:

Proof? There’s a lot of studies that validate


fricking hell

Troll status confirmed
Posted by LouisianaLady
Member since Mar 2009
82757 posts
Posted on 8/19/24 at 12:39 pm to
Per month, I personally have about $2,000 left over after all credit card balances and personal bills are paid and 401k takes its share.

That gets moved to an online bank hosted HYSA each month, which I seldom need to touch for anything.

I only keep $1k in my actual Chase checking account, as I use cash for nothing.
This post was edited on 8/19/24 at 12:46 pm
Posted by Redstickbaw
Member since Jul 2023
154 posts
Posted on 8/19/24 at 12:42 pm to
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This post was edited on 8/19/24 at 7:01 pm
Posted by thejuiceisloose
Member since Nov 2018
6097 posts
Posted on 8/19/24 at 12:42 pm to
quote:

A lot less than I had 4 years ago.


During COVID when everyone was sitting at home? No way
Posted by LNCHBOX
70448
Member since Jun 2009
88718 posts
Posted on 8/19/24 at 12:43 pm to
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everyone was sitting at home


Absolutely no surprise you were non essential.
Posted by LemmyLives
Texas
Member since Mar 2019
13536 posts
Posted on 8/19/24 at 12:49 pm to
The kids are going to be who they’re going to be. Daughter soaked up the diva enablement from mom like a sponge and loves it. Just like how at 10 she’s decided Vanderbilt is her dream school somehow. Son will be fine, but he is a bit too money hungry (12.) I caught him trying to sign up to be a drop shipping middleman for quick cash, and we had a long conversation about internet fraud (again.) that’s not his normal personality, it is his peer group at school.

The rude awakening will come when it comes time to pay for college, and I will have to tell them to ask their mom about where the near $400k in child support I will pay by then went.
Posted by fareplay
Member since Nov 2012
6306 posts
Posted on 8/19/24 at 1:12 pm to
Kinda set up for failure without intervention baw. Ex married again?
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