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re: Meeting your ex's new significant other
Posted on 1/29/20 at 9:29 pm to djangochained
Posted on 1/29/20 at 9:29 pm to djangochained
How would you stop it?
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Posted on 1/29/20 at 9:31 pm to GAAtty70
Just introduce yourself as "I'm the guy tired of her shite." Should go well.
Posted on 1/29/20 at 9:34 pm to GAAtty70
Ask him if she's talked about her fecal fantasies yet.
"No? Really?! Oh god, her fantasies make '2 girls, 1 cup' look like Barney."
"No? Really?! Oh god, her fantasies make '2 girls, 1 cup' look like Barney."
This post was edited on 1/29/20 at 9:35 pm
Posted on 1/29/20 at 9:39 pm to Pedro
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I pray I never go through a divorce. That sounds like so much shite too worry about and deal with if there’s kids involved
I pray you don't either. We've got 2 (7yo girl and 9yo boy who's autistic). It's an effing nightmare!
Daughter goes to a private in the diocese (BR) and the ex moved to Ascension specifically to put my son in a public. She thought she could do that without my agreement and tried to put my daughter there too without my consent. I had to go to court to pump the brakes on that move.
Met with my attorney Monday to figure out the logistics of how this is going to work since I live in BR.
You don't see this much on here when asked for pics, but I'll go ahead and give y'all one.....
Posted on 1/29/20 at 9:41 pm to Pedro
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I pray I never go through a divorce. That sounds like so much shite too worry about and deal with if there’s kids involved.
it sure is brother
Posted on 1/29/20 at 9:44 pm to CMBears1259
I'm sorry you and your kids have to deal with that. It sounds like you're a great Dad,and they're lucky to have you.
Posted on 1/29/20 at 9:45 pm to jamiegla1
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I pray I never go through a divorce. That sounds like so much shite too worry about and deal with if there’s kids involved.
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it sure is brother
I'll second this! I'm completely fine with our divorce, but hate it for my kids. My daughter constantly tells me how much she misses us living together.
Posted on 1/29/20 at 9:46 pm to Teddy Ruxpin
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Preferably before he met my kids.
what if the kids are all grown and out of the house?
Posted on 1/29/20 at 9:51 pm to tigergirl10
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I'm sorry you and your kids have to deal with that. It sounds like you're a great Dad,and they're lucky to have you.
Thank you. I have my moments when I wonder if I am or not, but then others who know how hard I try and see how well the kids are doing reinforce me with their positivity.
Posted on 1/29/20 at 9:56 pm to GAAtty70
If you didn't have something about you meeting them before they met the kids in the decree you're an idiot or had a shitty lawyer.
Posted on 1/29/20 at 10:00 pm to GAAtty70
You’ll probably get some real a-hole replies, but I certainly feel for you. My parents got divorced when I was a teenager, and even for me it was awkward when they started bringing their new SO around us.
Their split was pretty nasty, so I imagine they found it entertaining and revenge worthy.
Their split was pretty nasty, so I imagine they found it entertaining and revenge worthy.
Posted on 1/29/20 at 10:01 pm to GAAtty70
thank GOD I had no kids from my first marriage and to deal with such matters. so now 30 years later it's like it never even happened
Posted on 1/29/20 at 10:02 pm to BoogaBear
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If you didn't have something about you meeting them before they met the kids in the decree you're an idiot or had a shitty lawyer
I didn't want to be control freak and dictate my ex's life after me.
Or have her dictate mine.
This post was edited on 1/29/20 at 10:03 pm
Posted on 1/29/20 at 10:16 pm to GAAtty70
Look him up on Megan’s Law
This post was edited on 1/29/20 at 10:16 pm
Posted on 1/29/20 at 10:30 pm to GAAtty70
Divorced two years ago. Caught her cheating. She’s now married to the guy she cheated with and our daughter is getting married in December. Have only been around him once and we never spoke.
Not gonna lie, shite is gonna be awkward as hell.
Not gonna lie, shite is gonna be awkward as hell.
Posted on 1/29/20 at 10:35 pm to GAAtty70
I had a hard time the first time I had to do this. The second one was no big deal. They're married now.
Posted on 1/29/20 at 10:36 pm to geauxbrown
Be sure to get him a thank you for taking this crazy woman off my hands gift.
Posted on 1/29/20 at 10:37 pm to GAAtty70
Walk up shake his hand, lean in and quietly whisper “there’s nothing you can do to her, no hole you can explore that I haven’t already worn out”.
That established dominance right away.
I would think an ex would communicate with you before exposing your kids to a new dude though.
That established dominance right away.
I would think an ex would communicate with you before exposing your kids to a new dude though.
Posted on 1/29/20 at 10:43 pm to beebefootballfan
Depends on how you want to treat it.
If you think she's a giant piece of shite that you never should've married, take the baws advice to thank him for taking on that nightmare.
If you didn't want to divorce her but had your hand forced, just play it cool...."she's a hard one to please, good luck".
Regardless, I think it's important to have a lil' sidebar to discuss how important your children are to you and that you hope that he understands how important it is that he be a good man and a good example.
If you think she's a giant piece of shite that you never should've married, take the baws advice to thank him for taking on that nightmare.
If you didn't want to divorce her but had your hand forced, just play it cool...."she's a hard one to please, good luck".
Regardless, I think it's important to have a lil' sidebar to discuss how important your children are to you and that you hope that he understands how important it is that he be a good man and a good example.
Posted on 1/29/20 at 10:56 pm to GAAtty70
My ex waited until they had dated for a while before introducing me. I was aware of them dating but the actual meet and greet happened later in the relationship. He was/is a stand up dude. He was divorced also so that helped.
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