re: Married guys: how critical was it to marry a girl who looks good without makeup?

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My secretary has 3 kids and her belly looks like she never had kids

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I'm guessing you found this out at a company pool party? Casual Friday=exposed stomach?

Make-up is overrated . Most chicks put in way too much as it is. Mrs. PJ is just as beautiful without out it. It's what's inside that's counts anyway. There are way to many people that think they need a chick to put a mask on to find them attractive. And old saying ....... She was a 10 at two, but a 2 at 10. I will take a good heart and personality over a pretty fake face.

I'd say it's more critical to be the kind of man who A. doesn't waste time thinking about such goofy trivial shite as make-up vs. no make-up and B. is perceptive enough to not be swayed by a layer of pigment on a woman's face as to whether she will make a good wife.

its 1st on my list to be honest
my wife never wears makeup, doesn't paint her nails, hardly wears any jewelry, doesnt get her hair done, etc. just a very pretty natural woman

i HATE makeup/lipstick/hairspray/etc

Not married but I prefer women that don't really wear a lot of makeup in the first place.

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Couldn't imagine waking up to a husk in the morning

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do not get married.

your wife would get older, less attractive. eventually, she will be a husk.

Mine started out high on the OT scale. A model.
now, I notice with some degree of horror, how the skin of her neck has all these folds in it. She's not overweight. her whole neck is turning old before my very eyes the past three months.
she stopped dyeing her hair last year.
Now what was all blonde is mostly grey with some blonde.
She aged. Still has an OT 8 body, but the neck skin is now -5.
And she has age spots on her face that were not there a year ago.

If you become wealthy, you can dump your wife, afford the big divorce hit/alimony and keep on moving, and pick up a 25 yr old.
Most people plan on staying with the same one. She bore your kids.
Mother to your boy and girl. Then grandma. Mine is now a grandma.
It just happened to me. if you marry young enough, you will be a great grand pa. Imagine that.

Very important. It's amazing what they can do with hair and makeup.

I've told my son many times that you should take a girl into the yard and hose her off to see what she really looks like.

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Not as critical as marrying someone who lets you enjoy guys night out, golfing and other activities other than serving a jail sentence and being subjugated by her.

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Paul Allen, you are looking at the big picture.

There is also love. Whatever is truly loved is beautiful.
He is missing that part of the equation.
without love, its an unbearable ordeal.

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Mine started out high on the OT scale. A model.
now, I notice with some degree of horror, how the skin of her neck has all these folds in it. She's not overweight. her whole neck is turning old before my very eyes the past three months.
she stopped dyeing her hair last year.
Now what was all blonde is mostly grey with some blonde.
She aged. Still has an OT 8 body, but the neck skin is now -5.
And she has age spots on her face that were not there a year ago.

If you become wealthy, you can dump your wife, afford the big divorce hit/alimony and keep on moving, and pick up a 25 yr old.
Most people plan on staying with the same one. She bore your kids.

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what a perfect description of the degradation of a marriage

that second paragraph is probably what would happen to me, but i'd already have a prenup in the bag. I dont care if I make 30k or 300k, she's signing a prenup. women are too crazy these days

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There's a girl in my morning class that is cute--not ugly or gorgeous by any stretch. She always sits next to me. I walk into class this morning and there's another girl sitting there. I give a nod and ask her how it's going. She speaks and I suddenly realize it's the same girl that always sits by me, but with no makeup She looked like a frickin corpse. Not unlike this mummy here:

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