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re: Man, I really miss my Grandpa..

Posted on 1/5/19 at 11:07 pm to
Posted by RogerTheShrubber
Juneau, AK
Member since Jan 2009
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Posted on 1/5/19 at 11:07 pm to
I'd love to sit and talk to my grandfather, or even my father again about their good ole days. So much I could learn, and I never did it.
Posted by Jim Rockford
Member since May 2011
102240 posts
Posted on 1/5/19 at 11:08 pm to
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My grandpa has been gone almost 6 years. 
I blame that on almost 99% of the problems I’m dealing with now. He was my rock for almost all my life.


Lost my first one unexpectedly when I was 12. I only realized a long time later how much it shook me up. Nothing has ever seemed completely safe or secure since then.
Posted by fallguy_1978
Best States #50
Member since Feb 2018
51490 posts
Posted on 1/5/19 at 11:09 pm to
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I'd love to sit and talk to my grandfather, or even my father again about their good ole days. So much I could learn, and I never did it.

My paw paw was born in 1919 and died 3 years ago. His mind was as sharp as a tack until about the last year and I saw him at least twice per week. He was a WWII vet and a walking, living, breathing history book.
Posted by Tigerhead
Member since Aug 2004
1176 posts
Posted on 1/5/19 at 11:12 pm to
Both of my grandmothers died before I was born. Both of my grandfathers died when I was very young, so I hardly knew them. I also lost my mother at a very young age. My dad lived to 86 and made up for losing all of the others. He was awesome. I feel so blessed that I had him in my life.

I really feel sorry for some of the people that post on this board and talk about how terrible their parents were. You can literally feel their pain through their words. And to think with the amount of addiction there is in our society today, what those numbers of emotionally abandoned children will be like in the coming years.
Posted by X123F45
Member since Apr 2015
28700 posts
Posted on 1/5/19 at 11:12 pm to
Mine's been gone for 5 years now. He was the kindest most genuine person I've ever known. My aspiration in life is to literally be half of what he was.
Posted by LSUJML
Central
Member since May 2008
49894 posts
Posted on 1/5/19 at 11:17 pm to
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He was a WWII vet and a walking, living, breathing history book.


I really need to get mine talking & record it
He was hit with shrapnel in WWII & needed surgery, not serious but they wouldn’t let him fight & since others needed surgery they patched him up & sent him home for 30 days.
My great grandma didn’t know he was coming home, Army got him to Texas & he hitched to Independence.

I think this is correct, it’s the parts I remember
Posted by RogerTheShrubber
Juneau, AK
Member since Jan 2009
281843 posts
Posted on 1/5/19 at 11:18 pm to
My moms dad died when she was 11. I only have one picture, mom, one of her sisters, my grandparents on the porch and some other relatives to the left They didnt have indoor plumbing or electricity




Moms the blonde curly headed girl. Oldest child of 5
This post was edited on 1/5/19 at 11:21 pm
Posted by Buck Magnum
Springdale
Member since Dec 2003
11723 posts
Posted on 1/5/19 at 11:20 pm to
What I wouldn’t give to hang out in my Grandpa’s den and watch afternoon Cubs baseball on WGN.
Posted by fallguy_1978
Best States #50
Member since Feb 2018
51490 posts
Posted on 1/5/19 at 11:21 pm to
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I really need to get mine talking & record it 
He was hit with shrapnel in WWII & needed surgery, not serious but they wouldn’t let him fight & since 

Mine fought in the Battle of the Bulge all the way to Berlin. He remembered it well until near his death. He was like a 2nd dad and practically raised me.
Posted by stealthy1
Member since Aug 2007
558 posts
Posted on 1/5/19 at 11:26 pm to
My Pop left us 31 years ago on January 1.

He was the best man I ever knew, and I still miss him.
Posted by fallguy_1978
Best States #50
Member since Feb 2018
51490 posts
Posted on 1/5/19 at 11:30 pm to
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My moms dad died when she was 11. I only have one picture, mom, one of her sisters, my grandparents on the porch and some other relatives to the left They didnt have indoor plumbing or electricity

Great picture Roger.

My paw paw used to tell me stories about his dad riding a horse to work and the first time he came home with a motorized vehicle. He had me plowing fields with a Gravely at 8-9 years old. Taught me how to grow food.

They lived on 50+ acres, much of it wooded. He'd sometimes get me to go hunt for dinner as a kid even though we were far from poor. It wasn't until later in life that I realized that he was teaching me life lessons.
This post was edited on 1/5/19 at 11:32 pm
Posted by Bustedsack
Member since Dec 2017
4387 posts
Posted on 1/5/19 at 11:36 pm to
That’s why I make it a point to call my gramps once a week. I know I’m lucky to have had him this long and I’m taking full advantage of it. Every time I go down to Houston wether it be for work or visiting, I stay at his house.
About 10 years ago I went to a cousins graduation party with him. After the party we went a bar to shoot some pool with his younger brother and my dad. My dad left after a few and my great uncle left shortly after my dad. My gramps and I just sat at the bar talking about women. Mind you, my grandmother had MS and was confined to a wheelchair for over 40 years of their marriage. And did nothing but work and take care of her without any assistance. A testament to how much of a man this guy is.
We finally leave the bar and I pass out in his truck. The next thing I know, he is shoving me telling me to wake up. I wake up and notice we are in a Denny’s parking lot. I look at him and say, “alright”. We go in, sit down and have a few laughs over breakfast. We end up getting home around 4:30am. I get out and tell the old man, “gramps, your grandson is a pussy cause I just can’t hang with you.” He just looks at me with a little smirk and says, “well, you take after your dad.”
It was just one of those nights I’ll remember forever.
Posted by rexorotten
Missouri
Member since Oct 2013
4584 posts
Posted on 1/5/19 at 11:38 pm to
Wait til your mom or dad die, then you're really in for a treat.
Posted by LSUlefty
Youngsville, LA
Member since Dec 2007
27419 posts
Posted on 1/5/19 at 11:39 pm to
Who are the douches down voting everything?
Posted by fallguy_1978
Best States #50
Member since Feb 2018
51490 posts
Posted on 1/5/19 at 11:43 pm to
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We end up getting home around 4:30am. I get out and tell the old man, “gramps, your grandson is a pussy cause I just can’t hang with you.” He just looks at me with a little smirk and says, “well, you take after your dad.” 

that wasn't my paw paw. Rarely drank, got up at 4:30 religiously. If you said you'd be at his house at 7am, you better not be there at 7:01
Posted by fallguy_1978
Best States #50
Member since Feb 2018
51490 posts
Posted on 1/5/19 at 11:44 pm to
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Who are the douches down voting everything?

Some loser who never knew their dad.
Posted by cwil177
Baton Rouge
Member since Jun 2011
29129 posts
Posted on 1/5/19 at 11:49 pm to
Mine died last week. I’m a physician and my family asked me to pronounce him dead as we did home hospice. Funeral was yesterday and I did the eulogy. It’s been rough. Best man I’ve ever met and will miss him forever.
Posted by Bustedsack
Member since Dec 2017
4387 posts
Posted on 1/5/19 at 11:53 pm to
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that wasn't my paw paw.


My old man just knows when to have a good time. He never had any alcohol in the house, or at least I’ve never seen any. My gramps is religious, and I think that’s largely due in part to my grandma.

And yeah, dude isn’t one for being late either.
Posted by RogerTheShrubber
Juneau, AK
Member since Jan 2009
281843 posts
Posted on 1/5/19 at 11:56 pm to
I've gone back to the old homestead in Arkansas, my mom still lives there in one of the newer homes my grandma built. Couple of other old homes built late 1800s and 1920s. And they moved some mid 1800s cabins to the site.

I'd like to find the ranch my grandma lived on with her third husband who was a very good man, her other two husbands died in work related accidents.

But I get emotional overload, just bits of memory that floods back and it can be a bit overwhelming. All of that is a part of who we are, who our kids will be. I just didn't appreciate talking to the old folks as much when I was young as I would like to now. I guess that's how life is, we realize what's important when it's too late and spend our younger years moving too fast for such trivial matters.
Posted by Bullfrog
Running Through the Wet Grass
Member since Jul 2010
58955 posts
Posted on 1/5/19 at 11:56 pm to
My grandfathers were gone by the time I was 5 or so. Only a few memories.

Both seemed to burn the candle at both ends and died way too soon before we could do anything that mattered.

RIP
This post was edited on 1/6/19 at 9:04 am
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