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re: man hitting on my wife at our community pool - how should I handle it?
Posted on 7/18/21 at 4:15 pm to dcbl
Posted on 7/18/21 at 4:15 pm to dcbl
quote:
Before she got home, he sends her a very long text, he let her know that he was really good at “deep tissue massages” & “joked” that it “may be inappropriate” for him to tell her that
Have your wife send a back a text
"Hello, yes my husband and I found your text odd and very inappropriate"
"Don't ever do that again"
and that's done
This post was edited on 7/18/21 at 4:16 pm
Posted on 7/18/21 at 4:21 pm to ApexTiger
Can someone repost the text convo?
Eta: NVM found it
Eta: NVM found it
This post was edited on 7/18/21 at 4:23 pm
Posted on 7/18/21 at 4:21 pm to tgrbaitn08
quote:
frick off you dumb crazy stalking slut. It’s been removed
Quit stalking me or I’ll report you to the Stalking Board fricking weirdo

Posted on 7/18/21 at 4:24 pm to gadknot
A few thoughts:
The guy hitting on OP’s wife comes off as really creepy, but OPs s wife likely flirted with him big time.
OP’s response to the guy was one of the most cringe-worthy, beta posts I’ve ever read on here. “You better not text my wife or ill report you to the pool board!” Gay and lame.
The guy hitting on OP’s wife comes off as really creepy, but OPs s wife likely flirted with him big time.
OP’s response to the guy was one of the most cringe-worthy, beta posts I’ve ever read on here. “You better not text my wife or ill report you to the pool board!” Gay and lame.
Posted on 7/18/21 at 4:35 pm to GeorgeTheGreek
I’m not an internet tough guy, nor do I go around acting like I’m Mr Bad arse
I understand why people are saying my response was lame/beta or whatever, fine
However, I’m pretty sure I hit him where he lives
I don’t know for sure, but my bet is that he is married & the threat of public humiliation for him and his family is a much bigger threat than me bowing up and threatening him
Maybe I’d whip him, maybe I’d get beat, don’t know & don’t care
I do know that when I want to I can get under almost anyone’s skin and find their hot buttons
My thought is that threatening the guy with a confrontation would have likely gotten his back up and enhanced the likelihood of a bad scene
What I actually did very likely has him very upset and worrying about who I am going to say something to
When I was young, I DID think I was tough - I got arrested a bunch for drinking and fighting
I did confront him (by text); which makes me feel better about things than ignoring it would have
I understand why people are saying my response was lame/beta or whatever, fine
However, I’m pretty sure I hit him where he lives
I don’t know for sure, but my bet is that he is married & the threat of public humiliation for him and his family is a much bigger threat than me bowing up and threatening him
Maybe I’d whip him, maybe I’d get beat, don’t know & don’t care
I do know that when I want to I can get under almost anyone’s skin and find their hot buttons
My thought is that threatening the guy with a confrontation would have likely gotten his back up and enhanced the likelihood of a bad scene
What I actually did very likely has him very upset and worrying about who I am going to say something to
When I was young, I DID think I was tough - I got arrested a bunch for drinking and fighting
I did confront him (by text); which makes me feel better about things than ignoring it would have
Posted on 7/18/21 at 4:41 pm to dcbl
I’m sure the regret is kicking in now. Probably hard to stare that reaction back in the face after your dander is down.
Posted on 7/18/21 at 4:42 pm to dcbl
quote:
Hey _____, DCBL here, ____'s dad from the pool - our kids will not be playing together and my wife gets all the massages she needs from me, leave her alone and PRAY that I do not take your text to the pool board - I hope we understand each other, thanks
This is quite literally the worst text of all time.

Congrats on a hell of a thread for a lazy Sunday

Posted on 7/18/21 at 4:45 pm to tgrbaitn08
quote:
Just curious, what does a pool board do and who and what kind of people make up a pool board?
The man who texted will have to sit on the side for 20 minutes before entering the pool the next time he goes for a swim

Posted on 7/18/21 at 4:51 pm to dcbl
quote:
I do know that when I want to I can get under almost anyone’s skin and find their hot buttons
My thought is that threatening the guy with a confrontation would have likely gotten his back up and enhanced the likelihood of a bad scene
Has he replied??
He’s probably sitting back sipping a cold one laughing at you reading this thread because it’s been texted to him by several posters.
He’s in your head and you’re still here taking about “the Pool Board”

Posted on 7/18/21 at 4:52 pm to LSUZombie
quote:
Congrats on a hell of a thread for a lazy Sunday

quote:
This is quite literally the worst text of all time.
Seriousl question, what would upset you more (assuming you were hitting on married ladies at a family pool)
The husband going off and threatening you, or the threat of public humiliation and having your wife confronted?
I write ads for a living for a very long time & I absolutely trust my instincts when it comes to pushing for the emotional reaction I’m looking for...
Posted on 7/18/21 at 4:56 pm to dcbl
quote:
dcbl
Can you take your daughter to a session of swim lessons?
Sorry if this has been addressed - I didn’t read the whole thing
Posted on 7/18/21 at 4:58 pm to GreenRockTiger
quote:they ended last week
Can you take your daughter to a session of swim lessons?
Posted on 7/18/21 at 5:02 pm to dcbl
quote:
they ended last week
Oooh ok
Posted on 7/18/21 at 5:05 pm to dcbl
quote:
I write ads for a living for a very long time & I absolutely trust my instincts when it comes to pushing for the emotional reaction I’m looking for...
quote:
and my wife gets all the massages she needs from me,
reddit?
Posted on 7/18/21 at 5:05 pm to dcbl
Since you have a background in reading other people, think about this.
If you go to the “pool board”, they won’t hear just one version of events. Jodi will have his own story to tell and it’s not going to flatter your little Mrs. Be prepared to lose your membership just as quickly as he could lose his.
If you go to the “pool board”, they won’t hear just one version of events. Jodi will have his own story to tell and it’s not going to flatter your little Mrs. Be prepared to lose your membership just as quickly as he could lose his.
Posted on 7/18/21 at 5:09 pm to dcbl
quote:
What I actually did very likely has him very upset and worrying about who I am going to say something to
So he responded? Let’s see it, Hoss.
Posted on 7/18/21 at 5:09 pm to tilthatday
Did you do that Professor Pete Zah pizza add? Brilliant! Stop digging this hole man. Dude gonna say he didn’t know your wife was married or she came on to him if you go the the “pool board”. There’s no Madmen solution to this - if he keeps on - check him up in as private a setting as is possible. End of story.
shite -meant that for OP. Sorry.
shite -meant that for OP. Sorry.
This post was edited on 7/18/21 at 5:13 pm
Posted on 7/18/21 at 5:10 pm to JudgeHolden
quote:he has not responded and it has been hours
So he responded? Let’s see it, Hoss.
I will be shocked if he does, and I will be shocked if he shows his face at the pool again this year
This post was edited on 7/18/21 at 5:11 pm
Posted on 7/18/21 at 5:13 pm to dcbl
quote:
dcbl
This thread is hilarious.
And you suck.
Posted on 7/18/21 at 5:17 pm to tilthatday
quote:good thing my wife is well known in the community (grew up here, is on the board for the consignment sale at our church, where 80% or more of the pool attends)
Jodi will have his own story to tell and it’s not going to flatter your little Mrs.
No one would believe him if he said she came on to him, in fact, trying to paint her in a bad light would wind up being much worse for him
I’m not making reports, I was just trying to think of the best way to upset the guy,
This post was edited on 7/20/21 at 7:25 pm
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