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re: Looking for a shrink recommendation

Posted on 5/14/20 at 6:38 am to
Posted by Oilfieldbiology
Member since Nov 2016
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Posted on 5/14/20 at 6:38 am to
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We know just talking it out is not a cure but someone who is trained to deal with anxiety may be able to help her work through things and keeps it manageable without meds.


After my grandma died (mom’s mom) my mom would sleep for between 12-16 hours a day. It looked like she was heading right towards depression and into a bad state. My dad, my brother, and I were able to convince her to go see a therapist just to talk. She was able to talk through a whole bunch of issues she had been harboring and within weeks was back to normal.

I say all of that to say this, don’t underestimate the power of professional therapist.
Posted by Wiseguy
Member since Mar 2020
4006 posts
Posted on 5/14/20 at 6:42 am to
Try the Post-trauma Institute on ONeal. Multiple practitioners specializing in trauma related treatment. Anxiety often has its roots in some sort of trauma. Therapists and psychiatrists there.
Posted by reverendotis
the jawbone of an arse
Member since Nov 2007
4907 posts
Posted on 5/14/20 at 6:43 am to
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serious anxiet



I've been seeing Dr Jim Beam for the last 30 years +/- and I have the lowest anxiety of anyone you've ever met.
Posted by BluegrassBelle
RIP Hefty Lefty - 1981-2019
Member since Nov 2010
103891 posts
Posted on 5/14/20 at 6:52 am to
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Why do people get so anxious/what gets people so anxious that it requires them to seek professional help and medication?


It can be a host of things. We’ve found some genetic ties to anxiety, environmental influences, etc. There’s some evidence that sustained stress can lead to high, sustained levels of cortisol that can cause issues. It’s also often occurring with depression (comorbid).
Posted by BluegrassBelle
RIP Hefty Lefty - 1981-2019
Member since Nov 2010
103891 posts
Posted on 5/14/20 at 7:05 am to
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So, I'm looking for a recommendation for a psychologist or therapist in the BR area that may specialize in anxiety treatment.


For the OP, this is a good place to start. Even though a therapist/counselor can’t prescribe they will refer to a psychiatrist (many have ones they regularly work in tandem with). And the counselor will engage in other types of non-medication therapy that will give her coping skills to deal with anxiety. Studies show for anxiety that a combination of CBT (Cognitive Behavioral Therapy) and meds are most effective. I’d look for a counselor/therapist that specializes in that. Because it’s one of the most common “talk” therapies it shouldn’t be hard to find.

Also, if her GP hasn’t done it already, you want to ask for a full blood work up to check for some physical conditions that mimic anxiety symptoms. Thyroid problems are the most common. Heart disease, diabetes, some respiratory diseases, etc. can cause similar symptoms and it’s always best to rule out a physiological cause if you haven’t already. A good therapist will recommend this if it hasn’t been done already.
Posted by jmarto1
Houma, LA/ Las Vegas, NV
Member since Mar 2008
36194 posts
Posted on 5/14/20 at 7:13 am to
I suppose it can be a list of things. I've just started to deal with it in the last year. Never thought a panic attack was something i would experience at 3am in the morning. I am doing my best to try and avoid any meds.
Posted by Green Chili Tiger
Lurking the Tin Foil Hat Board
Member since Jul 2009
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Posted on 5/14/20 at 7:45 am to
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How exactly does a shrink get rid of anxiety, without meds?


Clitoral stimulation
Posted by The Next
Baton Rouge
Member since Oct 2013
426 posts
Posted on 5/14/20 at 8:09 am to
Thanks everyone for that provided serious recs. We will check them out.

And I don't mean any disrespect by calling them shrinks. It's merely a harmless colloquialism not meant to diminish their qualifications or dedication.
Posted by Mr Clean
Power I-Formation
Member since Aug 2006
52284 posts
Posted on 5/14/20 at 8:13 am to
Social anxiety disorder

Don’t you even DSM, Bro?
Posted by Jon A thon
Member since May 2019
2131 posts
Posted on 5/14/20 at 8:19 am to
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She's been dealing with her GP up to this point but if a psych wants to try a different med, I think she would be ok with that at first but would ultimately like to stay off them due to the side effects.


I take something prescribed by a GP. I don't feel my situation is a huge deal. I actually take it to calm my anxiety so that I don't annoy the crap out of other people. I can handle the anxiety myself, I just become a bit of an arse .

But, if I had anything legitimately making my life miserable, I'd never just take the advice of my GP. I filled out a survey and did some blood work. Really not a huge evaluation and if there was one, it's not like they are qualified anyway. Really need a psychiatrist if it's affecting your life that bad.

And I believe meds can help if you find the right one. Maybe not everyone. I am a bit obsessive compulsive/anal/perfectionist type, and when things don't go according to plan I can become a bit of a dick. I realize everyone deals with that, but it was affecting my relationships with people as I apparently can't handle it well. Been on anxiety meds for a while and I personally feel a lot better on that front. Sleep isn't as good and maybe a few other side affects. But nothing terrible.
Posted by ksayetiger
Centenary Gents
Member since Jul 2007
69665 posts
Posted on 5/14/20 at 8:42 am to
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The dirty secret no one talks about is that meds don't work for about 20% of patients. My wife has tried literally everything. She's considering ketamine, but she's wary, having been disappointed so many times. She gets by with prayer, meditation, and just toughing it out.




the dirty secret is most people that fail with meds dont take the meds as instructed.

and then you have to wait, many psychological meds dont really begin to take effect until 2-4 weeks after reaching therapeutic dose (sometimes 2-3 months after initial dose)

and even then, the bottle of wine every night will counter the effect of the meds.
Posted by go_tigres
Member since Sep 2013
5353 posts
Posted on 5/14/20 at 8:50 am to
I don’t know what does work, but constantly reminding her to chill out or singing the song “Relax” does NOT work per my ex wife.
Posted by LSUA 75
Colfax,La.
Member since Jan 2019
4253 posts
Posted on 5/14/20 at 10:47 am to
Why some people have anxiety for no apparent reason is a puzzle to me.I have a good friend that suffers from “free-floating” anxiety and she is mystified as to why ,herself.She has the perfect life,great husband,great kids,above average income,no health issues.
She has confided to me that she sometimes feels guilty that she has had it so “good” her whole life.Maybe she worries it can’t last,I don’t know.
Anyway she takes fairly small dose of Pristiq and says she feels much better.
She’s very easy going,friendly,well liked person.Seems to work for her.
Posted by jmarto1
Houma, LA/ Las Vegas, NV
Member since Mar 2008
36194 posts
Posted on 5/14/20 at 11:25 am to
I've adjusted my diet, massages, more water, and started yoga. I alps fond myself using maturation and sex as an immediate remedy. It all helps but it is an uphill battle. People and their moronic ways stress me out.
Posted by rpr4695
Member since May 2013
2105 posts
Posted on 5/14/20 at 8:03 pm to
Dr. Aptaker
She mostly works with older married men, so you will like her.
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