re: LNST Ashley Madison confession time

I guess I'm on the other side of it. You don't know where these people are in their marriages. This could have been a site they signed up on 3 years ago when things were rocky and maybe just got some attention that they needed - I'm not even talking about meeting up and bow-chicka-wow-wowing. I'm just saying, like "hey, there hot stuff, check out my tits" kinda attention and then their marriage gets out of a rocky place and they set it down never to think of it again until their name comes out years later with this dump.

People assume that everyone signed up there and paid is a cheater, which I highly doubt is the case. Maybe some people did but I feel most put some money in and never acted out 'their fantasies' and just left them at that on the site. Especially these men with money to blow.

I agree FLBooGoTig1...\

Be a fricking MAN, don't bitch out...

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Ellis get off my lawn son.

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You working tonight?

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yep, another night at it. exactly how I planned on spending my Saturday night

you?

Private life made public by criminals. Pretty fricked up imo

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This could have been a site they signed up on 3 years ago when things were rocky and maybe just got some attention that they needed - I'm not even talking about meeting up and bow-chicka-wow-wowing. I'm just saying, like "hey, there hot stuff, check out my tits" kinda attention

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1. Personal experience much?

2. Are you saying that as long as you've hit a slump or rough patch in your relationship then do whatever you want until it's all good again? Come in Pox. If you can't make it through a rough patch without cheating or fantasizing about cheating in a very real way you should leave the poor soul your selfishly stinging along

I agree with you, Paige.

Boo, what if everything you did online that you thought you were doing privately was put out there for the world to see and ridicule? How would that make you feel? Mostly everyone has something to hide.

my biggest issue is that there's way better ways to do it than to spend thousands on some shady internet site that doesn't know how to protect your private data

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Private life made public by criminals. Pretty fricked up imo

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When will you idiots learn that nothing you do on the Internet is private? Nothing. If you're doing something in the Internet and you stop and think, man, if other people knew I was doing good this I'd be fricked, you should probably stop because one day they'll find out.

I agree partially what you are saying but a marriage is built on trust. Good or bad. Tough times and good times. I sound like the anti marriage guy alot on here but if you commit to something you go 100%. I was cheated on and it was like someone took my soul. I never thought about suicide I just knew I could never forget what she did. We went through counseling and everything sad part was she was the one that wanted to move on. Fast forward 6 years and she has been through 3 boyfriends and I have enjoyed watching that shite show all the while being a father to my 3 kids not married and happy as can be.

I've been cheated on too. I've also tried my damnedest to leave relationships and they wouldn't let me go which caused me to do them wrong in the end (not cheating, but going and seeking male attention elsewhere).

I'm sorry that happened to you, Boo. That was between you and her though, not for the world to see and pass judgement on. That's where i feel like the issue is here. I have so many friends texting me saying "OMG, did you see so and so was on the list" It's fricking drama, real life people with real lives, exposed and made into some high school drama and what is the point of it? These hackers didn't hurt AM as much as they hurt the lives of the people that went on the site.