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re: LIttle white lies to comort the grieving.

Posted on 5/19/18 at 6:26 pm to
Posted by gingerkittie
Member since Aug 2013
2675 posts
Posted on 5/19/18 at 6:26 pm to
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This is apparently after you vandalized the truck?


That was MY truck, my ex husband and nothing to do with this situation,

This situation is my late fiance and i just messaged his daughter to come get the ring and put it towards buying a thick chain for her pendant

Case closed.
Posted by gingerkittie
Member since Aug 2013
2675 posts
Posted on 5/19/18 at 6:31 pm to
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So I take it I'm not the only one that downvotes a gingerkittie thread before even reading the post?



Aww, so sweet of you to show your true colors like that.

I apologize to you for making you feel that way. In my ignorance, i would actually read your posts and then decide whether to up vote or downvote.

Sometimes I would even take your side when you were being slammed for how you are or someone was meing mean towards you.

So i apologize there Nurse, I'll try to be more like you in the future and downvote people regardless of what they say.

OOps, let me be the first to downvote myself to save nursie the trouble.
This post was edited on 5/19/18 at 6:35 pm
Posted by foshizzle
Washington DC metro
Member since Mar 2008
40599 posts
Posted on 5/19/18 at 7:45 pm to
It's fine to give her stuff but tell the truth about it. If it's something that had nothing to do with him then say "this is something special to me and here's the story behind it" yadda yadda.

No sense inventing things, after all now you have to keep track of what you said.
Posted by OweO
Plaquemine, La
Member since Sep 2009
122527 posts
Posted on 5/19/18 at 7:52 pm to
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God damn y'all are some real fricking assholes on this board. I thought I was a dick but if I'm a dick y'all are BBCs


How long have you been on this board? This board will make a man out of you unless you can't take the assholes.
Posted by gingerkittie
Member since Aug 2013
2675 posts
Posted on 5/21/18 at 5:18 pm to
Update:

I had the ring appraised so I could sell it and send the daughter money to buy a thick chain and more solid lock and such.

I had thought it to be a london blue topaz. It turns out to be an Alexandrite which is a rarer, prettier stone and worth more.

That means I can put more $$ towards my "Christmas Club" where i buy gifts at Christmas for people I know who need it.

My Christmas Club" started out on a white lie. My lil sis died right before Christmas and I could not stand the thought that her only nephew/godchild that she adored would be at xmas without her.

My late sis could not have kids so this baby was the world to her. So i contacted our lil sis and asked her if i could give her son a whole bunch of LEGO sets to put under the tree from our late sis.

She agreed and my nephew had an all out huge Christmas to remember with all of the awesome things from my late sis. he cherishes those LEGOs.

These are the things that make me happy.
This post was edited on 5/21/18 at 5:27 pm
Posted by CelticDog
Member since Apr 2015
42867 posts
Posted on 5/21/18 at 5:26 pm to
Post less about it. Do more.

All this shite lasts.

Here's your answer

God approves your lies.
The commandments are being rechisled.

Posted by IAmNERD
Member since May 2017
24504 posts
Posted on 5/21/18 at 5:27 pm to
You found out it was worth more than you thought so the girl is now out of the picture and you're going to keep the money yourself? Wow..
Posted by CelticDog
Member since Apr 2015
42867 posts
Posted on 5/21/18 at 5:27 pm to
People that age are not actively grieving 10 years after.

Your gesture opens the wound.
Posted by brian_wilson
Member since Oct 2016
3581 posts
Posted on 5/21/18 at 5:31 pm to
There is lie in my wife's family that a relative was a saint, when in fact he ran around on his wife with multiple women. The majority of the family doesn't know, I don't know why someone felt compelled to tell me.

I keep my mouth shut on the topic.
Posted by gingerkittie
Member since Aug 2013
2675 posts
Posted on 5/21/18 at 6:03 pm to
quote:

Post less about it. Do more.

Thanks, it's encouragement from kind folks like you that keep me posting.

quote:

Here's your answer
God approves your lies.
The commandments are being rechisled.


God approves of me and shows it daily. He knows my heart and my intentions. He blesses me with things because he knows i will always help others.

PS I'm Quaker so your idea of God may be very different than mine.
Posted by cajunangelle
Member since Oct 2012
171141 posts
Posted on 5/21/18 at 6:22 pm to
you should have written about this at the old folks home.
Posted by cajunangelle
Member since Oct 2012
171141 posts
Posted on 5/21/18 at 6:25 pm to
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So I take it I'm not the only one that downvotes a gingerkittie thread before even reading the post?
That was not very nice at all. I thought you were kind and not a catty bitch.

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