Started By
Message

re: Little League Dilemma: Was I in the Right or Wrong? UPDATE PG.15

Posted on 2/15/15 at 1:50 pm to
Posted by CptBengal
BR Baby
Member since Dec 2007
71661 posts
Posted on 2/15/15 at 1:50 pm to
So by playing the game within the written rules he's "taking advantage"? Of what?

Lol. Playing it the way it was meant to be played? Yeah, you play to win. Losers whine about shite that isn't real or about" unwritten rules"
Posted by ptra
Member since Nov 2006
1456 posts
Posted on 2/15/15 at 1:51 pm to
It was a scrimmage game, how much did your team learn? Considering they had only 1 win last year they should know more than how to take a walk with a take sign and steal on a bad catcher. You seem to think you know more than the regular coach yet you taught the kids nothing. They know how to read signs, how about letting them swing 3-0 to see how well they know the strike zone. Instead of stealing, keep the runner on base and teach them how to run the bases. Play the entire game, let your less skilled players play longer and learn more. A lot to teach a 9-12 year old.

As someone else said, at some point the opposing coach should have been teaching your kids how to duck and get out of the way on inside pitches.
This post was edited on 2/15/15 at 2:13 pm
Posted by WilsonPickett
St Amant, LA
Member since Oct 2009
1677 posts
Posted on 2/15/15 at 1:52 pm to
Never have the kids swing on 3-0, the ump should have opened the strike zone if the game was getting out of hand.

I probably would have slowed or stopped the stealing up by 10+ runs. But the other coach/dad should have kept his cool and helped his players keep their cool and just shoved it back up your arse next time yall played if he had the chance. The opposing coach should have used the arse kicking as simply a teaching moment for his young players, shrugged it off and brought them to eat pizza so next time they find themselves down they would be mentally strong enough to handle the situation and maybe even fight back for a victory! Opposing coach sounds like a little league pissy dad/coach!

League director sounds like a titty baby also they are what's wrong with kids these days!
Posted by Duckie
Tippy Toe, Louisiana
Member since Apr 2010
24314 posts
Posted on 2/15/15 at 1:52 pm to
quote:

I'm positive Ty Cobb and his generation would disagree.


This is what you don't understand. This is not Ty Cobb and his friends playing. This is a bunch of ten year olds who are not fully developed learning the game.

You did nothing to help these kids or improve their baseball skills. You used the rules in your favor because most the kids aren't developed enough.

Like I said, I wouldn't want my kids to win that way. I want them to take pride in their hard work and craft; not that they were able to manipulate rules. Sorry, but that's my opinion.

I'm also going to assume we don't know the whole story here. I don't know the league managers story or the other coaches. If you were kicked out, I am willing to bet you said/did something to provoke that.

I just can't understand why anyone would want to win like that. It's like beating a game with a game genie. There is no pride in it. There's no 'hey, I played awesome today and won!' After awhile, those wins would become boring and meaningless. And there will now be a rule in place because of your actions/exploitations. Because if everyone starts doing it, it ruins the game.
This post was edited on 2/15/15 at 2:11 pm
Posted by SteveLSU35
Shreveport
Member since Mar 2004
14527 posts
Posted on 2/15/15 at 1:56 pm to
Scrimmages are about putting the kids in different situations. It's a glorified practice. Winning is fun, but exploiting a weakness and blowing another team out in a scrimmage is bs.
Posted by Darth_Vader
A galaxy far, far away
Member since Dec 2011
68929 posts
Posted on 2/15/15 at 1:57 pm to
quote:

picking on a ten year old and exploiting his obvious weaknesses seems a bit excessive, and running up the score in little league is pretty shitty.


This. You made a kid quit by your own admission. That's very shitty. Little league is not about you stroking your ego as a coach. Sure, build up a comfortable lead but then lay off the kid. You want to teach your kids to play and teach them to win. But you also need to teach to good sportsmanship. You obviously know nothing about good sportsmanship so the league was right to ban you.
This post was edited on 2/15/15 at 2:19 pm
Posted by SG_Geaux
Beautiful St George, LA
Member since Aug 2004
79560 posts
Posted on 2/15/15 at 1:57 pm to
quote:

You did nothing to help these kids or improve their baseball skills. You used the rules in your favor because most the kids aren't developed enough.
Posted by Green Grass Miracle
Colorado
Member since Jan 2015
119 posts
Posted on 2/15/15 at 1:59 pm to
I probably wouldn't be stealing bases if I were up 9-10 runs. There's a way to win gracefully. You don't have to tell the kids to intentionally strike out, but you don't need to push them to score like they are down 5 runs. It's like running a trick play in football when you are already up 50-0. Just run the ball and be a good sport.

You getting banned seems kind of dumb though. That's like saying you will automatically be banned if you run up the score on a team, even though there is a 10 run rule in place to prevent that.
Posted by lsugal121212
Louisiana
Member since Jan 2014
886 posts
Posted on 2/15/15 at 2:00 pm to
quote:

you didn't teach the kids how to win you taught them how to be bad sports if I were the opposing coach I would have told my pitchers to throw at your players heads


I was waiting for this! Don't they normally have rules set up for that age group for baseball so this doesn't happen ? You are lucky you didn't get your arse kicked by the other coach or a parent
Posted by brgfather129
Los Angeles, CA
Member since Jul 2009
17328 posts
Posted on 2/15/15 at 2:00 pm to
quote:

assistant coach


quote:

9-12 year olds


Congrats on the babysitting gig, "coach".
Posted by Monticello
Member since Jul 2010
16197 posts
Posted on 2/15/15 at 2:03 pm to
Most of the little league teams I was on did not allow stealing if I remember right.
Posted by Marco Esquandolas
Member since Jul 2013
11590 posts
Posted on 2/15/15 at 2:04 pm to
Sprinkles are for winners...
Posted by northshorebamaman
Cochise County AZ
Member since Jul 2009
36345 posts
Posted on 2/15/15 at 2:06 pm to
quote:

I probably wouldn't be stealing bases if I were up 9-10 runs. There's a way to win gracefully. You don't have to tell the kids to intentionally strike out, but you don't need to push them to score like they are down 5 runs. It's like running a trick play in football when you are already up 50-0. Just run the ball and be a good sport.

You getting banned seems kind of dumb though. That's like saying you will automatically be banned if you run up the score on a team, even though there is a 10 run rule in place to prevent that.


Agree with all of this. To paraphrase the Dude, it's not that he's wrong, it's just that he's an a-hole.
Posted by northshorebamaman
Cochise County AZ
Member since Jul 2009
36345 posts
Posted on 2/15/15 at 2:06 pm to
quote:

Most of the little league teams I was on did not allow stealing if I remember right.

When was this?
Posted by ruzil
Baton Rouge
Member since Feb 2012
17908 posts
Posted on 2/15/15 at 2:10 pm to
Good Job.

Nice guys finish last and if you're not first you're last.
Posted by Goalman34
Ruston, LA
Member since Sep 2013
512 posts
Posted on 2/15/15 at 2:11 pm to
Unwritten rules of baseball

You keep running after being up like that and the next batter gets ear holed
Posted by reginaphilange
Member since Mar 2014
415 posts
Posted on 2/15/15 at 2:12 pm to
I am by no means on board with the "everyone gets a trophy" movement, but I can't get on board with being an a-hole either. Sure you need to instill motivation and a desire to win in kids, but the best thing you can teach them is how to be a decent person. It doesn't matter how far you get in life based on your need to win; if you're an a-hole it will inevitably catch up with you. No one likes an a-hole.
Posted by Darth_Vader
A galaxy far, far away
Member since Dec 2011
68929 posts
Posted on 2/15/15 at 2:18 pm to
quote:

Most of the little league teams I was on did not allow stealing if I remember right.


By this age they're playing pretty much the same rules as the Bigs.

One more thing the OP is failing to realize is that he wasted a great opportunity to actually TEACH his kids a lot. Instead of moving kids around and letting them get playing time and working on actual skills besides stealing, he chose to just run up the score for his own egotistical purposes. He talked about how this team only won one game last season and how the HC knows nothing about baseball. But there he was with a golden opportunity to teach these very kids he claims to be concerned are not learning anything and instead of teaching, he uses a cheap trick to run up the score, and shatter the confidence of a child on the other team.

He's a little league glory hound who's got into coaching for all the wrong reasons. Like I said, they were right to remove him.
Posted by Duckie
Tippy Toe, Louisiana
Member since Apr 2010
24314 posts
Posted on 2/15/15 at 2:21 pm to
quote:

But there he was with a golden opportunity to teach these very kids he claims to be concerned are not learning anything and instead of teaching, he uses a cheap trick to run up the score, and shatter the confidence of a child on the other team.


well said.
Posted by jpggpj
Chair
Member since Oct 2005
4000 posts
Posted on 2/15/15 at 2:22 pm to
You want to see a parent/coach's true character.....put pressure on them. If that team was use to winning then that catcher and his dad were probably use to always being the better performers. Team loses and all the coaches and parents who are use to winning get mad and their true character comes out. These are the same people who say it's just about having fun.....as long as they are winning.

I would not continue to steal while up by 10 though.

And finally...this is why travel is so much better than rec.....the league is designed around competitive play.
Jump to page
Page First 2 3 4 5 6 ... 18
Jump to page
first pageprev pagePage 4 of 18Next pagelast page

Back to top
logoFollow TigerDroppings for LSU Football News
Follow us on X, Facebook and Instagram to get the latest updates on LSU Football and Recruiting.

FacebookXInstagram