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Posted on 1/19/15 at 8:52 pm to mahdragonz
quote:Uh, Einstein, they're getting a divorce.
If you don't respect the vows you made during your marriage to be faithful, sure, date the slute.
She doesn't respect marriage and you don't either.
If you respect yourself and the vows well the obvious answer is no.
Posted on 1/19/15 at 8:56 pm to sharkfhin
Why wouldn't he be able to date another woman?
Posted on 1/19/15 at 9:38 pm to bradwieser
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Why wouldn't he be able to date another woman?
Well, one could theoretically dismiss the current divorce proceedings and refile for requesting spousal support. Even though "fault divorces" are no longer a thing in Louisiana, fault can play a role in the amount of spousal support awarded.
Posted on 1/20/15 at 7:14 am to sharkfhin
Sure, since this cannot be seen as a cause of the breakup. even if it were the cause, it only means that he cannot receive alimony from her. the one seeking alimony only has to proof that she is without fault in the breakup, not who has the most. if you have fault, you don't get final support.
Posted on 1/20/15 at 7:17 am to Lithium
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As long as the separeation shite has been done
There is no separation in Louisiana.
This post was edited on 1/20/15 at 8:06 am
Posted on 1/20/15 at 7:34 am to UpToPar
With the amount of people who claim to be lawyers on this board, the lack of legal knowledge is alarming.
There's no fault divorces, if they are separated, etc. Where do y'all hear this stupid shite?
There's no fault divorces, if they are separated, etc. Where do y'all hear this stupid shite?
Posted on 1/20/15 at 7:43 am to sharkfhin
Once the petition has been filed, it isn't adultery anymore. Unless you reconcile, then it retroactively becomes adultery?!?!
Sure looks bad, but errybody does it.
Sure looks bad, but errybody does it.
Posted on 1/20/15 at 7:45 am to theronswanson
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I'm not a lawyer but I think it's a great idea to start dating a new girl before the divorce is final. The judge can reduce alimony payments under the doctrine of "hoesius be expensivious" and will take into consideration the fact that you are courting a new lady and how expensive it is.
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theronswanson
you good sir just made my morning. Have an upvote
Posted on 1/20/15 at 7:46 am to Mung
I don't know if this is a moral question or a legal question. Morally, you're already admitting the marriage is over and I think it's fine to get back in the game as long as you and the ex have an understanding that it is indeed over and no reconciliation is coming.
Legally, I really don't know the law. But again, if the ex agrees it's over and the two mutually agree they are done, there's really no reason to pursue legal action unless either person is a lunatic.
Legally, I really don't know the law. But again, if the ex agrees it's over and the two mutually agree they are done, there's really no reason to pursue legal action unless either person is a lunatic.
Posted on 1/20/15 at 7:48 am to The Sad Banana
Everybody is a lunatic during a divorce
Posted on 1/20/15 at 7:48 am to sharkfhin
Is your custody determination final? I presume not since your judgment of divorce has not been granted.
Posted on 1/20/15 at 7:49 am to sharkfhin
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just curious for a friend's sake
Posted on 1/20/15 at 7:52 am to RupertPupkin
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With the amount of people who claim to be lawyers on this board, the lack of legal knowledge is alarming.
It's before 8AM, lawyers aren't on the clock yet
Posted on 1/20/15 at 8:20 am to WeeWee
No divorce not final, but papers have been filed...as mentioned in op...
My argument to him was that I thought u couldn't see other women or date a woman(have sex) until divorce but hearing otherwise....I mean u can but if u were caught, it can cause a court to hammer down on u?
My argument to him was that I thought u couldn't see other women or date a woman(have sex) until divorce but hearing otherwise....I mean u can but if u were caught, it can cause a court to hammer down on u?
This post was edited on 1/20/15 at 8:25 am
Posted on 1/20/15 at 8:23 am to WeeWee
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quote:
With the amount of people who claim to be lawyers on this board, the lack of legal knowledge is alarming.
It's before 10 AM, lawyers aren't on the clock yet
FIFY
Posted on 1/20/15 at 8:32 am to Butch Baum
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It's before 10 AM, lawyers aren't on the clock yet
haterz gonna hate
If the guy has filed for divorce, subsequently banging a new chick is not useable as fault in that divorce. These days all fault gets you is a quicker divorce(immediately vs. waiting a yer with a minor child) and no alimony. Since dudes virtually never get spousal support, it doesn't matter. However, it will make wifey very angry, and they can be really evil when angered. So best to keep it on the DL.
Posted on 1/20/15 at 8:41 am to sharkfhin
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My argument to him was that I thought u couldn't see other women or date a woman(have sex) until divorce but hearing otherwise....I mean u can but if u were caught, it can cause a court to hammer down on u?
If there is a minor child involved, he needs to wait until the divorce is finalized. In these situations, the only thing the court gives two shits about is the child. So by starting a relationship with another woman, he risks pissing off the Judge, being assigned a Guardian ad Litem, sacrificing a portion of visitation, and drawing out the proceedings.
Unless there are extensive financial assets which by themselves will cause the divorce to last a coupe years, or if he doesn't care about custody, it's not smart.
Posted on 1/20/15 at 8:43 am to Mung
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However, it will make wifey very angry, and they can be really evil when angered. So best to keep it on the DL.
understatement of the year
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