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re: Lack of Empathy- What is causing it?

Posted on 7/25/25 at 11:19 am to
Posted by Our Friend Jim
Member since Jul 2025
16 posts
Posted on 7/25/25 at 11:19 am to
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You are the type that gets easily offended, aren't you


Yes but completely opposite
Posted by Odysseus32
Member since Dec 2009
9542 posts
Posted on 7/25/25 at 11:20 am to
Take a look at this board.

You can talk all you want about culture and specific demographics, which I do believe suffer from the same issue.

But this board is riddled with lack of empathy for others.
Posted by Dadren
Jawja
Member since Dec 2023
2978 posts
Posted on 7/25/25 at 11:24 am to
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I noticed lately that I’m not as empathetic as I once was

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Or there are people who have “been the victim of” the same circumstance for seemingly years on end. To which I just start to blame the “victim” because of the same thing keeps happening to you caused by different people the only constant is you

It seems like you’ve made your “response choice” binary…empathize or condemn.

Why not neither? Either choose not to engage with their “content”, or engage with it and make no assessment since they’re not willing to do anything differently. Just take what they’re sharing as random “facts” you can’t really do anything with. Because you can’t.

That’s my dime-store psychology so take it for what you paid for it.
Posted by SEClint
New Orleans, LA/Portland, OR
Member since Nov 2006
49475 posts
Posted on 7/25/25 at 11:26 am to
It comes with age and bitterness
Posted by Dixie2023
Member since Mar 2023
4528 posts
Posted on 7/25/25 at 11:26 am to
I found I do better staying off of FB. The constant sensationalism of media vs real news, stupid people popping up on my page vs just my friends, so much discord in the world and in our country, it can take a toll. When I touch grass and focus on my life vs online, I feel better vs hating people and no empathy. I actually like people and do care. It doesn’t help that I used to volunteer a lot in dog rescue when I had the time and really saw how despicable humans as a species are in general. But the same harm children so why would that care about animals? So, I try to focus on the good of people helping animals and kids vs the evil and asking “God, why”? I keep Instagram solely to look at photos and view things of interest, no rescue or politics, etc. No other social media.
Posted by Gravitiger
Member since Jun 2011
12136 posts
Posted on 7/25/25 at 11:27 am to
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Are you on anti-depressants? Pretty common to lose empathy and emotion. “Empty inside” numbness sets in.
Which is unfortunately hard to distinguish from the actual depression.
Posted by Gravitiger
Member since Jun 2011
12136 posts
Posted on 7/25/25 at 11:28 am to
Our Friend Jim = Gemini Jim

This is some kind of social experiment.
Posted by Wtodd
Tampa, FL
Member since Oct 2013
68438 posts
Posted on 7/25/25 at 11:31 am to
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Lack of Empathy- What is causing it?

As a straight white dude, maybe calling me every name in the book for the past 20 yrs is one reason.
Posted by Our Friend Jim
Member since Jul 2025
16 posts
Posted on 7/25/25 at 11:33 am to
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As a straight white dude, maybe calling me every name in the book for the past 20 yrs is one reason


Huh?
Posted by Our Friend Jim
Member since Jul 2025
16 posts
Posted on 7/25/25 at 11:35 am to
No one group in the history of America has suffered more than the straight white male
Posted by dcrews
Houston, TX
Member since Feb 2011
32130 posts
Posted on 7/25/25 at 11:39 am to
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was wondering if watching so many short reel type videos is a factor?


100% is.

It's the reason people will habitually open FB, then Instagram, then Snapchat, then Tigerdroppings etc... every 10 minutes without even thinking about it.

Quick dopamine hits for a fix.

Gotta see that red number on FB to see who's interacting with you. Have to see that number next to your thread/post to see who is paying attention to what you're saying.

It's why TikTok is so successful. Short and to the point content.
This post was edited on 7/25/25 at 11:40 am
Posted by tiggerthetooth
Big Momma's House
Member since Oct 2010
63791 posts
Posted on 7/25/25 at 11:56 am to
Ive come to the realization that all the time I thought I was "paying it forward" I wasnt really doing anything at all.

I think we wrongly assume lots of people actually care or understand when they receive something without merit....its a horrible habit of a Judeo-Christian society.

Ive decided ill reserve my acts of kindness for people that I believe are capable of understanding those acts.
Posted by bamacoullion
Fayette, Alabama
Member since Oct 2008
2533 posts
Posted on 7/25/25 at 11:58 am to
Not just social media. The jab has literally fricked up people's brains. It's all about the Pineal Gland.
Posted by Hobie101
Member since May 2012
862 posts
Posted on 7/25/25 at 11:59 am to
If the leader of the free world is not empathetic, why should I be?
Posted by Potchafa
Avoyelles
Member since Jul 2016
4139 posts
Posted on 7/25/25 at 12:12 pm to
Whipping your kids asses when needed, being there to show empathy and church! This creates empathy and emotion and character.
Oh and social media causes also. Take SM away and most of the worlds problems self correct in a month.
Posted by CharlesLSU
Member since Jan 2007
33165 posts
Posted on 7/25/25 at 12:15 pm to
I don’t care.
Posted by caro81
Member since Jul 2017
5959 posts
Posted on 7/25/25 at 12:17 pm to
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As entitlement goes up empathy goes down.


end thread. why should you be empathetic to people who dont reciprocate?
This post was edited on 7/25/25 at 12:19 pm
Posted by TigerBaitOohHaHa
Member since Jan 2023
1741 posts
Posted on 7/25/25 at 12:17 pm to
whatever part of my brain is in charge of empathy got burnt through in the past 10 years and what little empathy might be left in me, is reserved for my friends and family.

I do blame socials, I'm just tired of being told I'm to pay for healthcare in Africa, arts in South America, the homeless just need free houses, our children are illiterate in Chicago because the teachers only make $85k, if I don't wear a mask I'm literally killing grandma, druggies need free needles, and lastly... that Beyonce is the queen of country music or you are a racist.

frick all y'all
Posted by High C
viewing the fall....
Member since Nov 2012
59227 posts
Posted on 7/25/25 at 12:24 pm to
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Which is unfortunately hard to distinguish from the actual depression.


True, it’s almost like exchanging a red delicious apple for a golden delicious apple.
Posted by High C
viewing the fall....
Member since Nov 2012
59227 posts
Posted on 7/25/25 at 12:26 pm to
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If the leader of the free world is not empathetic, why should I be?


If you depend on a politician as a model for your emotions, I have no empathy for you.
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