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re: Just found out my favorite Uncle has pancreatic cancer

Posted on 2/15/14 at 12:51 am to
Posted by Dandy Lion
Member since Feb 2010
50255 posts
Posted on 2/15/14 at 12:51 am to
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The way he is talking right now is that he wants quality not "quantity" of life. I'm not sure that I blame him but it just sucks.
His quality of life was perfect, except for the last year and a half.
Posted by GRTiger
On a roof eating alligator pie
Member since Dec 2008
63106 posts
Posted on 2/15/14 at 1:01 am to
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How much of a death sentence is it?


Pancreatic is one of the toughest. So sorry for the op and his family. frick all cancer and frick Pancreatic cancer above all. Such a random, sprawling and unfair disease.
This post was edited on 2/15/14 at 1:02 am
Posted by John McClane
Member since Apr 2010
36696 posts
Posted on 2/15/14 at 1:04 am to
Sorry buddy, that's terrible. Just be there for him. Sounds like a great guy.
Posted by tap011
Louisiana
Member since Oct 2013
771 posts
Posted on 2/15/14 at 1:06 am to
Prayers sent for your uncle and your family. Keep your head up man.
Posted by Dead Mike
Cell Block 4
Member since Mar 2010
3386 posts
Posted on 2/15/14 at 1:07 am to
Pancreatic cancer is bad news. Family member had the Whipple procedure but was gone within six months.
Posted by lsuoilengr
Member since Aug 2008
4776 posts
Posted on 2/15/14 at 2:45 am to
really sorry to hear about that man. just do your best to stay strong and support him best you can
Posted by Coater
Madison, MS
Member since Jun 2005
33065 posts
Posted on 2/15/14 at 3:18 am to
Sorry to hear that
Posted by SpartyGator
Detroit Lions fan
Member since Oct 2011
75496 posts
Posted on 2/15/14 at 5:24 am to
Damn, hate to hear that. Stay strong and prayers out to you and family.
Posted by TexasTiger89
Houston, TX
Member since Feb 2005
24326 posts
Posted on 2/15/14 at 5:37 am to
Prayers for him and your family. Sorry to hear this.
Posted by Tiger in Gatorland
Moonshine Holler
Member since Sep 2006
9082 posts
Posted on 2/15/14 at 6:51 am to
Don't know what portion of the pancreas is affected but my father in law was dx last fall and had the Whipple procedure last November and is currently doing great. Cancer did not spread to other organs or lymph system for him so that was a blessing.
Posted by 4LSU2
Member since Dec 2009
37343 posts
Posted on 2/15/14 at 7:35 am to
Sorry to hear man. Cancer is the worst way to go, IMO. I hope the both of you are able to do a few things while he still can and leave you with some awesome memories.
Posted by Dubosed
Gulf Breeze
Member since Nov 2012
7058 posts
Posted on 2/15/14 at 5:43 pm to
Appreciate it yall. He's going Tuesday to see what can be done. He's going to fight it.
Posted by BeerCity
Asheville, North Carolina
Member since Nov 2013
622 posts
Posted on 2/15/14 at 5:51 pm to
My mother in law is currently in remission from it. So there is hope.
Posted by whodidthat
Member since Aug 2011
5896 posts
Posted on 2/15/14 at 5:59 pm to
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The way he is talking right now is that he wants quality not "quantity" of life. I'm not sure that I blame him but it just sucks.



That's a big part of it. Chemo and Radiation, plus many other pharmaceuticals, all have bad side effects. Some people are lucky. Others have to deal with cancer by itself, then the side effects from the treatment, which can be worse at times. They took a huge toll on my Dad's quality of life. Though everybody is different. I've also read of a older man that went in to remission from stage 4 pancreatic cancer after he started drinking a tea made from baking soda and blackstrap molasses. Others lucky ones have had success doing the same.
This post was edited on 2/15/14 at 6:00 pm
Posted by 4LSU2
Member since Dec 2009
37343 posts
Posted on 2/15/14 at 6:37 pm to
My best friend of over 20 years, El Josey Wales, was diagnosed with stage 4 terminal lung cancer last October. He lived 47 days and I was in contact with him in some capacity up until 8 hours before he passed away. The only thing I can offer is this....

Be sure to be there for him offering comfort in any capacity every step of the way. The cancer fight is brutal for everyone involved. Nothing about it is fair and there is no way you can explain it. EJW never used tobacco in his life and this type of cancer killed him. It still does not make sense two and a half months later, and I'm sure it never will.

My thoughts and prayers are with you and your entire family.
Posted by windshieldman
Member since Nov 2012
12818 posts
Posted on 2/15/14 at 6:46 pm to
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Be sure to be there for him offering comfort in any capacity every step of the way. The cancer fight is brutal for everyone involved. Nothing about it is fair and there is no way you can explain it. EJW never used tobacco in his life and this type of cancer killed him. It still does not make sense two and a half months later, and I'm sure it never will.


Yea a friend of mine in his mid 30s has stage 4 lung cancer and never used tobacco. I remember discussing that with El Josey when he first found out about cancer in his tongue from a thread a while back.
Posted by 4LSU2
Member since Dec 2009
37343 posts
Posted on 2/15/14 at 7:20 pm to
Sorry to hear that man. I know Josey took great comfort from many posters here that never knew him, but reached out to show their support. Thank you for taking the time to have those talks.
Posted by proger
Member since Nov 2007
718 posts
Posted on 2/15/14 at 7:31 pm to
He needs to go to a major center that treats pancreatic cancer all the time and does Whipple procedures every day. Don't let local hospitals jerk him around. His only hope is if it is early enough for the procedure to be done.
Posted by Bestbank Tiger
Premium Member
Member since Jan 2005
71233 posts
Posted on 2/15/14 at 7:34 pm to
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frick all cancer


This x 1000000000000000000000
Posted by IonaTiger
The Commonwealth Of Virginia
Member since Mar 2006
33053 posts
Posted on 2/15/14 at 7:34 pm to
It sounds as though your Uncle raised you well. The both of you will be in my prayers. God Bless.
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