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re: Just found out expecting twins - freaking out

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Posted by Deep Purple Haze
LA
Member since Jun 2007
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Posted on 4/19/16 at 12:08 pm to
grats
Posted by Kujo
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Member since Dec 2015
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Posted on 4/19/16 at 12:08 pm to
quote:

we are having twins
do twins run in either of your families, or were yall trying invitro?

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Identical twins don't tend to run in families.
non-identical twins run in your mum's family


just an aid
Posted by The Bruce
Member since Dec 2013
951 posts
Posted on 4/19/16 at 12:08 pm to
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ThePenisMightier


It sure is
Posted by Lester Earl
3rd Ward
Member since Nov 2003
285051 posts
Posted on 4/19/16 at 12:08 pm to
twins are a blessing. relax and embrace it
Posted by MSMHater
Houston
Member since Oct 2008
23033 posts
Posted on 4/19/16 at 12:08 pm to
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Any of you have surprise twins?


I did not have the pleasure, but a very good friends 3rd child turned out to be his 3rd and 4th. I feel for you my man.

But most of all...CONGRATULATIONS!!

You've been trying for two years and were rewarded for your patience. Think of it as getting out of diapers faster, you get to stop paying for daycare sooner, they get to graduate together, grow up together with a stronger bond than my kids will probably ever have. That's awesome, man!

You can always get hand me down baby stuff (toys & clothes). Don't worry about the cost of all that. Stock up on diapers and formula for later. Those are the essentials that no one else generally buy for you.
Posted by TJG210
New Orleans
Member since Aug 2006
28863 posts
Posted on 4/19/16 at 12:09 pm to
Congrats, I have twin girls. One definite piece of advice to heed is to make sure from
Day one they are on the same nap/feeding schedule, otherwise you will be a miserable sob. First few months were rough for us due to them having colic, other than that it's been a blessing.
Posted by dgnx6
Member since Feb 2006
79537 posts
Posted on 4/19/16 at 12:09 pm to
It could be worse, you could have gotten a vasectomy and still ended up with triplets. At least you were trying to get pregnant.
Posted by BROffshoreTigersWife
Member since May 2010
2346 posts
Posted on 4/19/16 at 12:09 pm to
Congrats!

Our twins will be 9 in December.

At first the thought was overwhelming. But it really isn't as bad as people think. The money part, well yeah it can get expensive. Start stocking up on diapers and wipes now.
Posted by TigerFanatic99
South Bend, Indiana
Member since Jan 2007
32796 posts
Posted on 4/19/16 at 12:09 pm to
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It takes a village.


That's what everyone else says. My family is... lacking... other than my father. Her family on the other hand is HUGE and all are extremely close. I am not the kind of person to ask for help though. That's going to be my biggest struggle.
Posted by SabiDojo
Open to any suggestions.
Member since Nov 2010
84295 posts
Posted on 4/19/16 at 12:09 pm to
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No. She was on eight rounds of Clomid. We just decided to take a month off and forget about it then look at IVF toward the summer. First month off of medication it happened when we tried to just forget about everything. We stopped tracking and everything.



So, you let nature do its thing. That has been known to work.

I'm happy for you.

All you need are a shite ton of diapers, desitin, and baby wipes.

You'll probably use the same 3 onesies for each baby so no need to buy an entire wardrobe.

Two cribs. Two bassinets. You'll be okay.

Posted by PrivatePublic
Member since Nov 2012
17848 posts
Posted on 4/19/16 at 12:10 pm to
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I think he already experienced the ultimate BOGO


Not really.

More like BOGOATTC

(Buy one get one at twice the cost)
Posted by Winkface
Member since Jul 2010
34377 posts
Posted on 4/19/16 at 12:10 pm to
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I am not the kind of person to ask for help though. That's going to be my biggest struggle.
Get over it. Now. Like right now.
Posted by BROffshoreTigersWife
Member since May 2010
2346 posts
Posted on 4/19/16 at 12:11 pm to
Places like Toys R Us and many other retailers will give discounts on larger items if you have multiples.
Posted by SabiDojo
Open to any suggestions.
Member since Nov 2010
84295 posts
Posted on 4/19/16 at 12:11 pm to
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Her family on the other hand is HUGE and all are extremely close


You will need help with the kids, for sure. If they are willing to help babysit or do whatever, take advantage of it. Besides, your children need extended family.
Posted by Winkface
Member since Jul 2010
34377 posts
Posted on 4/19/16 at 12:11 pm to
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You'll probably use the same 3 onesies for each baby so no need to buy an entire wardrobe.

Posted by btnetigers
South Louisiana
Member since Aug 2015
2305 posts
Posted on 4/19/16 at 12:13 pm to
I have 10 year old twins....when they're newbies make sure they're on the same schedule with sleep and eating. Also, don't be ashamed to ask for help from family. It's a bit difficult at first, but once you get into a routine it becomes a huge blessing. Congrats, and welcome to the club!

Posted by CelticDog
Member since Apr 2015
42867 posts
Posted on 4/19/16 at 12:14 pm to
she should get in great shape NOW.

take those minerals (a nice cal-mag combo), along with MK7. her bones are going to need to be strong.



Posted by bwallcubfan
Louisiana
Member since Sep 2007
38473 posts
Posted on 4/19/16 at 12:14 pm to
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Any of you have surprise twins?


Aren't they always surprising?

My brother just had twins girls....prayers sent

Go ahead and close the wife up
This post was edited on 4/19/16 at 12:15 pm
Posted by GRTiger
On a roof eating alligator pie
Member since Dec 2008
65947 posts
Posted on 4/19/16 at 12:14 pm to
Congrats. If you wanted more than one anyway, this will be better in the end. Get them out of the way. I'm sure it will be overwhelming at first, but it would have been anyway.

You'll find efficiencies in costs so it won't be a true double up. Cross your fingers for the same gender, that will help.
Posted by SabiDojo
Open to any suggestions.
Member since Nov 2010
84295 posts
Posted on 4/19/16 at 12:14 pm to
They grow so quickly. You buy an outfit for every day of the week and they end up wearing them maybe 5 times each? If you like wasting the money, okay.
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