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re: Just dined and ditched the ex
Posted on 1/31/15 at 10:41 pm to Hammertime
Posted on 1/31/15 at 10:41 pm to Hammertime
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Hammertime
Sounds like another trip to the range is in order!
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Posted on 1/31/15 at 10:41 pm to Hammertime
Fair enough, I understand where you're coming from but you'll also grow out of it.
Posted on 1/31/15 at 10:42 pm to Hammertime
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My brain uses the "eye for an eye" method. frick me, and I'll frick you harder (pretty ironic, but you get the point). shite would just fester forever in my head if I didn't do anything. Got it all out of my system in one action tonight, and I'm at peace with everything. I sure as shite wouldn't have done anything had the situation been different or if I didn't feel she deserved it.
This sounds like youre trying real hard to convince yourself
Posted on 1/31/15 at 10:42 pm to dkreller
She only has one friend. Moved here from California about two months before we started dating. Everyone we hung out with was always one of my friends. I felt bad for her because she had an extremely hard childhood, but I guess she couldn't get away from her past
I'm not that bad of a guy either. I wouldn't ever do that to someone, no matter what they did to me
I'm not that bad of a guy either. I wouldn't ever do that to someone, no matter what they did to me
This post was edited on 1/31/15 at 10:45 pm
Posted on 1/31/15 at 10:43 pm to Hammertime
What you did was juvenile and I'm sure she has already gotten over it with Toby's dick in her butt.
Now be a gentlemen and run through her list of friends.
Better yet, start banging girls you know she doesn't like.
Now be a gentlemen and run through her list of friends.
Better yet, start banging girls you know she doesn't like.
Posted on 1/31/15 at 10:44 pm to Hammertime
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It's a difficult lesson to be a man. It's a painful, self-sacrificing labor and part of the human condition to be a man. You must accept that much of your life and your ties to women rely on your honor and your good nature. Sadly, most of us choose our mates based on nothing more than a tiny dab of sexual experience and a lot of ignorance about human nature. The women you meet, fall in love with, screw, and hurt, are all human beings with complex pasts, desires and dreams. Treat each woman, no matter who she is, as if she is your best friend's girl. Give her respect, even if you don't choose to engage her in a meaningful way. Understand that she is a daughter, a sister and someone's baby and if she's not good enough to be kind to, then leave her alone. Your dealings with the chicks will come back to haunt you, and each shitty act will be revisited on you, or your children, or your future women. Trust me here...it really happens. Be a good man, a smart man and an observant man, and women will not be a source of pain in your life. Take my word on it.
Posted on 1/31/15 at 10:47 pm to GeorgeTheGreek
In other words, take the high road and kill them with kindness while you lay pipe on her friends and enemies.
Posted on 1/31/15 at 10:51 pm to GeorgeTheGreek
Wasn't that a SS thread?
Few problems with that:
No mom
Barely any dad
Hasnt spoken to siblings in years
She grew up much worse than most people can even imagine. Not making excuses for what she did, but maybe make excuses for why I stuck with it after she broke up with me.
I believe I did what I was supposed to do tonight, and that will never change. Bad things have been coming my way via her, but if more is in my future, so be it. I'll take it because I did what I thought was right.
Few problems with that:
No mom
Barely any dad
Hasnt spoken to siblings in years
She grew up much worse than most people can even imagine. Not making excuses for what she did, but maybe make excuses for why I stuck with it after she broke up with me.
I believe I did what I was supposed to do tonight, and that will never change. Bad things have been coming my way via her, but if more is in my future, so be it. I'll take it because I did what I thought was right.
Posted on 1/31/15 at 10:52 pm to Hammertime
You are so whooped. Even if it's true, which I doubt, that was just a huge waste of time and makes you look like a psycho drama queen.
Posted on 1/31/15 at 10:53 pm to Hammertime
Its your life. Just don't do hurtful shite. Walk away next time.
Posted on 1/31/15 at 10:55 pm to GeorgeTheGreek
You're so awesome Gtg
Except for not inviting me to hang out and blocking me from messaging you, dick
Except for not inviting me to hang out and blocking me from messaging you, dick
Posted on 1/31/15 at 11:00 pm to Hammertime
Dude, my last ex was perfect. Everything I could want in a significant other.
She broke up with me and did a pretty shitty thing on top of it.
Told her I thought she was making a mistake, that shed eventually regret it and told her i might be there when she figures it out. Didn't talk to her after that or since then.
If she comes back great, if not ill have a headstart on moving on. Either way, I didn't hurt her because she hurt me. I said my peace, walked away and am fine with it all. Does it suck? Sure. But did I keep my pride? Yep.
Men don't over react, they don't freak out. They handle themselves and move on.
Took the ending of an 8 year relationship before her to figure that out. And I STILL make mistakes with that one.
Live and learn everyday.
She broke up with me and did a pretty shitty thing on top of it.
Told her I thought she was making a mistake, that shed eventually regret it and told her i might be there when she figures it out. Didn't talk to her after that or since then.
If she comes back great, if not ill have a headstart on moving on. Either way, I didn't hurt her because she hurt me. I said my peace, walked away and am fine with it all. Does it suck? Sure. But did I keep my pride? Yep.
Men don't over react, they don't freak out. They handle themselves and move on.
Took the ending of an 8 year relationship before her to figure that out. And I STILL make mistakes with that one.
Live and learn everyday.
Posted on 1/31/15 at 11:01 pm to Paige
I didn't block you. I deleted hangouts on my phone.
Posted on 1/31/15 at 11:54 pm to Hammertime
Dude.. that is low class. Not gonna lie. You were on the right-side of things until you pulled this. Like Paige said.. You joined the liar club doing this. Be a man and pay your share and cut ways with the cheating whore. You will feel even better.
Posted on 2/1/15 at 12:33 am to lsufanintexas
Sometimes you can be pushed too far.
I dated a girl once who lied about everything, even when there was no need or it was something small
I dated a girl once who lied about everything, even when there was no need or it was something small
Posted on 2/1/15 at 12:40 am to Hammertime
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So I come up with this master plan last night to get her back. Faked the hell out of wanting to get back together with her, and she was believing it 100%. Even cried at dinner. So I order a bunch of the most expensive shite on the menu, and continue with the date night we had planned.
I was debating if I should go through with it.....until I asked her if she had lied to me in the past couple of weeks. I guess her motto is deny it until the end because she kept with her story tonight.
After the meal, I said I had to go charge my phone before the Doopsie concert, and got in the truck and rolled out. Felt pretty fricking liberating driving away and sticking her with a $130 bill, but she still had to come to my house to get her shite. She got a taxi here, and when she got here, all I could do was laugh
So pathetic.
If you want to dump someone, just dump them and don't be a dick about it and carry on a charade like this.
Posted on 2/1/15 at 12:44 am to ruzil
although she deserved it.....if she wanted to she could have had you arrested ...
a friend of mine was working out of town and him and two other co workers ditched on this one guy as a joke ...
well it turned out the guy they left didnt have enough $$$ to cover the bill ....
cops were called , followed him to hotel ,,,,
the cops brought them back to the restaurant in cuffs , had them pay the bill and left it up to restaurant manager to press charges .....
they were lucky that they did not press charges ....
a friend of mine was working out of town and him and two other co workers ditched on this one guy as a joke ...
well it turned out the guy they left didnt have enough $$$ to cover the bill ....
cops were called , followed him to hotel ,,,,
the cops brought them back to the restaurant in cuffs , had them pay the bill and left it up to restaurant manager to press charges .....
they were lucky that they did not press charges ....
Posted on 2/1/15 at 12:47 am to Sentrius
It's dump her, not dump them
Posted on 2/1/15 at 2:06 am to section414
OP is a lame story. But here's what I'm curious about:
Why would the chick be on the hook for the stuff OP ordered? She didn't order it. Does the mere fact that she was sitting at the table with him make her liable for it?
For those of you who work/have worked in restaurants, what is done in situations like this? When it's finally conceded that the guy isn't coming back, what happens? Does the restaurant get the guy's address from the person left and go about collecting from him that way? Dude said it was a neighborhood place so they may not have far to go.
Or did the friend that won't call him back maybe come by and pay the bill and is now collecting a little reward?
Why would the chick be on the hook for the stuff OP ordered? She didn't order it. Does the mere fact that she was sitting at the table with him make her liable for it?
For those of you who work/have worked in restaurants, what is done in situations like this? When it's finally conceded that the guy isn't coming back, what happens? Does the restaurant get the guy's address from the person left and go about collecting from him that way? Dude said it was a neighborhood place so they may not have far to go.
Or did the friend that won't call him back maybe come by and pay the bill and is now collecting a little reward?
Posted on 2/1/15 at 5:12 am to Methuselah
Girl in OP "took care" of the waiter in cold storage, and restaurant wrote meal off as a loss.
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