- My Forums
- Tiger Rant
- LSU Recruiting
- SEC Rant
- Saints Talk
- Pelicans Talk
- More Sports Board
- Coaching Changes
- Fantasy Sports
- Golf Board
- Soccer Board
- O-T Lounge
- Tech Board
- Home/Garden Board
- Outdoor Board
- Health/Fitness Board
- Movie/TV Board
- Book Board
- Music Board
- Political Talk
- Money Talk
- Fark Board
- Gaming Board
- Travel Board
- Food/Drink Board
- Ticket Exchange
- TD Help Board
Customize My Forums- View All Forums
- Show Left Links
- Topic Sort Options
- Trending Topics
- Recent Topics
- Active Topics
Started By
Message
re: is this a fair divorce deal?
Posted on 11/13/16 at 9:12 pm to gingerkittie
Posted on 11/13/16 at 9:12 pm to gingerkittie
You are loving this attention. This story is such bullshite. No one is this fricking stupid.
2
Posted on 11/13/16 at 9:15 pm to birdieman
Yeah. It's obvious the way she keeps bumping all throughout the day over the course of days
Plus story keeps changing
Plus story keeps changing
quote:
I am giving him the house, land, the gun collection, the cows, the tractor, the vehicles, etc, ALL of which is community property and legally half mine.
Posted on 11/13/16 at 9:33 pm to Paige
When you have an arse like the North Star, wise men will follow Paige.
Posted on 11/13/16 at 10:16 pm to birdieman
quote:
This makes zero sense. My take is this is a very lonely lady and very little of this story is true.
While it is true that I am an introvert by nature, my life is far from lonely. My story and life may seem odd and stranger than fiction but that's life. My family and friends know this is all 100% true. If you are skeptical then I respect your opinion and can live with that. My life goes on regardless, strange as it may be.
Posted on 11/13/16 at 10:18 pm to gingerkittie
This thread should not have existed though, you outlined in the original post you were handling everything appropriately, and like two pages ago you admitted its a fair deal.
Posted on 11/13/16 at 10:23 pm to Paige
quote:
Yeah. It's obvious the way she keeps bumping all throughout the day over the course of days
Plus story keeps changing
quote:
I am giving him the house, land, the gun collection, the cows, the tractor, the vehicles, etc, ALL of which is community property and legally half mine.
How is that changing the story? It is legally half mine and I have clearly indicated that i am not going after that. That's the facts.
Posted on 11/13/16 at 10:23 pm to gingerkittie
Sup girl?
Posted on 11/13/16 at 10:28 pm to birdieman
quote:
You are loving this attention. This story is such bullshite. No one is this fricking stupid.
I have no need for the attention. A lot of men posters here complain how women have screwed them over in a divorce and I simply stated that I am not doing that. So that makes me stupid?
So if I were "smart" I would totally screw him over like so many OT men have been screwed over. Now THAT is stupid. Sorry for not being a greedy, vindictive bitch but that's just not me and never will be.
So whether I screw him over or am fair and decent to him, I am still wrong?
Posted on 11/13/16 at 10:31 pm to oVo
quote:
Sup girl?
Not much, just laughing my butt off at the way I am being called crazy, weird, a liar and all the other crap I am getting accused of because i am not being a bitch in my divorce. Makes for a pretty amusing Sunday night, lol.
Gotta love the OT
Posted on 11/14/16 at 12:59 am to gingerkittie
Just take his arse to the cleaners and be done with it.
Posted on 11/14/16 at 2:00 am to Vlatket
Before I read this whole thing, are there pics of the OP anywhere in it?
Posted on 11/14/16 at 7:48 am to gingerkittie
Sounds reasonable to me, if what you say is completely true.
BTW, you have the legal right to take the stuff that belonged to you prior to the divorce. You may need to have a cop go with you to get it.
You may also want to remind him that you are also entitled to half of what was acquired after you were married. If he had a brain, he'd probably settle for what you have described.
BTW, you have the legal right to take the stuff that belonged to you prior to the divorce. You may need to have a cop go with you to get it.
You may also want to remind him that you are also entitled to half of what was acquired after you were married. If he had a brain, he'd probably settle for what you have described.
Posted on 11/14/16 at 8:50 am to gingerkittie
quote:
He was also angry about the other things of value (furniture, bedroom set, laptops,washer/dryer, freezer, generators, etc) that I owned and had given to friends and family. He felt those things were HIS because he said I did not "need" them. Therefore he felt they belonged to him because he said I did not need them.
If I understand correctly, these were all the items in your house that you shared with him when you lived together. If that's the case, then it doesn't matter who bought them or when you bought them, they need to be ruled on by the legal authority over your divorce before you or he can do anything with them, since he did not consent to you giving them away
I'm not saying your ex is an angel, he sounds like a terrible person. But Two wrongs don't make a right, and you are intentionally screwing him over. Do the right thing, let the attorneys/court/law enforcement (for the recorded violence) settle everything. That's a better way of keeping your conscience clean than doing the wrong thing and trying to feel better about it by justifying it to us with a one-sided story
Additionally, the actions you are taking may constitute legal ramifications against you. If you try and screw him and the court recognizes it, they may penalize you in the settlement
Posted on 11/14/16 at 8:55 am to gingerkittie
How much inheritance did you get? My guess is that its well into the 7 figures probably $3-5 million? I wouldn't doubt it is $10 mil or more.
I'm guessing Gingerkittie feels bad because she says she is "giving" him "everything" that is probably worth $500,000 but has an inheritance worth 10 times that? Am I far off OP?
I'm not saying what you are doing is wrong and you are probably right. But I'm guessing you are feeling guilty for not giving some of the inheritance, which you shouldn't be at all.
Like others have said, you really should just stop talking and let the lawyers handle it. Your ex doesn't deserve family money and this is coming from a guy who's wife's family is well off.
ETA: OP, you are also being ignorant in that standard bargaining starts high and then goes low. You absolutely don't offer everything you are willing to give up first like you are doing. Tell him you will take half and everything that is yours' whether you want it or not, then give in to let him have some of it to make him happy. That's what he should be doing to you also.
I'm guessing Gingerkittie feels bad because she says she is "giving" him "everything" that is probably worth $500,000 but has an inheritance worth 10 times that? Am I far off OP?
I'm not saying what you are doing is wrong and you are probably right. But I'm guessing you are feeling guilty for not giving some of the inheritance, which you shouldn't be at all.
Like others have said, you really should just stop talking and let the lawyers handle it. Your ex doesn't deserve family money and this is coming from a guy who's wife's family is well off.
ETA: OP, you are also being ignorant in that standard bargaining starts high and then goes low. You absolutely don't offer everything you are willing to give up first like you are doing. Tell him you will take half and everything that is yours' whether you want it or not, then give in to let him have some of it to make him happy. That's what he should be doing to you also.
This post was edited on 11/14/16 at 9:00 am
Posted on 11/14/16 at 8:57 am to baldona
I'm not sure it's a good idea for her to be airing this out on a public forum either.
Posted on 11/14/16 at 9:00 am to VABuckeye
quote:
I'm not sure it's a good idea for her to be airing this out on a public forum either.
I am gonna laugh my arse off if we find out her husband and/or his family posts/lurks on here and are screenshotting the hell out of this thread.
I mean..she lives in LA, she should know this site and know that ANYONE can be lurking on it. Never think you are truly anonymous on this site.
Posted on 11/14/16 at 9:04 am to gingerkittie
quote:
being called crazy, weird, a liar and all the other crap I am getting accused of because i am not being a bitch in my divorce.
You have this idea that you are right and he is wrong and too many people are just agreeing with you without any real consideration of what is happening. Some people (myself included) are saying you aren't giving us the full story, and that you are presenting a slanted view to come off as the good guy in this divorce. A man that posted this type of stuff would be heavily investigated and would receive far less positive responses. You have had it pretty easy here, judging by the responses in the thread. Women get it pretty easy on this board, especially when they post real world drama. A majority of the board is more than happy to give y'all attention and positivity just because you are women. A minority of us treat you the same way we treat anyone else. You should support fair treatment
Posted on 11/14/16 at 9:06 am to gingerkittie
You made one small mistake. You should have given him a "present" before you left in the form of an all expense paid vacation out of state. While he was out of town you could have grabbed this stuff so it would be out of his control & possession. This way this situation would have been alleviated. Sounds like you are the money maker in the relationship and he needs your income to steal.....I'm mean survive.
Posted on 11/14/16 at 9:16 am to gingerkittie
quote:
I caught him cheating (multiple times but didnt care because I knew how he was
so you're bad at the sex?
Posted on 11/14/16 at 9:32 am to gingerkittie
quote:
I am giving him the house, land, the gun collection, the cows, the tractor, the vehicles, etc, ALL of which is community property and legally half mine
I thought the land (family compound, whatever) was land which had been in the family for generations. So was it HIS family land before you married or yours? If it was yours, then why would you leave it to him? If it was his, that might be considered separate property, not community property so not really yours to "give up".
(I may not know WTF I'm talking about--I'm not a lawyer, I just play one on the OT.)
Page 10 of 11
Popular
Back to top
Follow TigerDroppings for LSU Football News