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re: Is there a polite way to tell someone the way they are eating is rude

Posted on 9/14/16 at 12:46 pm to
Posted by Bama and Beer
Baldwin Co, AL
Member since Oct 2010
85804 posts
Posted on 9/14/16 at 12:46 pm to
Bring earphones and turn the music up on your phone or computer so loud you can't even hear him talking. Works well

And he'll get the hint quickly
This post was edited on 9/14/16 at 12:48 pm
Posted by Sneaky__Sally
Member since Jul 2015
12364 posts
Posted on 9/14/16 at 12:47 pm to
i'd take the almond sucking over knowing when my coworkers are on their period tbh
Posted by tgrbaitn08
Member since Dec 2007
148031 posts
Posted on 9/14/16 at 12:47 pm to
Jesus what kind of places do you people work?

It's bad enough I have to listen to my children eat like animals at night, I cant imagine having to put up with grown adults in the workplace.
Posted by Rabbs and QStick
Texas
Member since Apr 2012
3039 posts
Posted on 9/14/16 at 12:47 pm to
Your name is chewy. Not sure what would make you think you can say something with a name like chewy.
Posted by SUB
Silver Tier TD Premium
Member since Jan 2009
26278 posts
Posted on 9/14/16 at 12:48 pm to
Is your coworker Asian or Indian?
Posted by ChewyDante
Member since Jan 2007
17230 posts
Posted on 9/14/16 at 12:52 pm to
quote:

Your name is chewy. Not sure what would make you think you can say something with a name like chewy


I guarantee you Wookies have better eating manners than this guy.
Posted by ChewyDante
Member since Jan 2007
17230 posts
Posted on 9/14/16 at 12:53 pm to
quote:

Is your coworker Asian or Indian?


No. He's an old black man who damn well should know better than to eat like this.
Posted by OweO
Plaquemine, La
Member since Sep 2009
122525 posts
Posted on 9/14/16 at 12:53 pm to
quote:

ven when not, he also puts entire bones in his mouth and slurps


This would do it for me. I am not sure how I would go about it, it would all depend on the relationship I have with that person. I am a direct person, but it depend on the type of relationship I have with them. I hate when I am "cool" with someone. In other words, someone you never had problems with, who seems like a good person... but when they do something that gets on your nervous you can't just yell at them, "dude, stop the fricking smacking".

If that is the case with this guy, I can see how it would be uncomfortable to tell him..I think, for me, if it got to the point where I couldn't take it I would finally have to tell him "dude, I am sorry, but when you eat at your desk I can hear you smacking and sucking bones like your life depended on it. Can you tone it down a little?".
Posted by tgrbaitn08
Member since Dec 2007
148031 posts
Posted on 9/14/16 at 12:54 pm to
Do you happen to work for the Sewage and Water Board?
Posted by ChewyDante
Member since Jan 2007
17230 posts
Posted on 9/14/16 at 12:56 pm to
quote:

Bring earphones and turn the music up on your phone or computer so loud you can't even hear him talking. Works well 



I think this is probably my only option. I think bringing it up is going to turn into a scene straight out of Curb Your Enthusiasm and I'm Larry David.

quote:


And he'll get the hint quickly


I can guarantee you he won't.

But frick it, if it blocks out the sounds is a good option.
Posted by CoachDon
Louisville
Member since Sep 2014
12409 posts
Posted on 9/14/16 at 1:02 pm to
Work area is for work. Tell him to go outside, break room or cafeteria.
Posted by Gaspergou202
Metairie, LA
Member since Jun 2016
14456 posts
Posted on 9/14/16 at 1:06 pm to
2 choices.

Politely explain what he is doing, and tell him why you found it offensive. Ask him to work with you on it.

Or, do the same thing to your boss about him.
Posted by Walt OReilly
Poplarville, MS
Member since Oct 2005
124694 posts
Posted on 9/14/16 at 1:07 pm to
Just say something to him
Posted by TexasTiger89
Houston, TX
Member since Feb 2005
26971 posts
Posted on 9/14/16 at 1:15 pm to
If he stores his lunch in the office fridge you can discreetly throw it away sometime in the morning. I guess it won't always work since he will store it somewhere else but might give you a break.
Posted by Pitch To Johnny
Houston
Member since Jun 2015
4243 posts
Posted on 9/14/16 at 1:17 pm to
I eat at my desk. So does the older man across the hall. I literally get up and close my door 30 seconds after he starts eating because I can hear the smacking over my music. Drives me insane. I don't know how people make it this far through life with no one telling them how fricking annoying it is.

Thank you for making this thread, as you can see this has been affecting me for a while now.
Posted by FuzzyBearE
Baton Rouge
Member since Jul 2016
505 posts
Posted on 9/14/16 at 2:01 pm to
Used to work with a guy who would chew up the bones of chicken legs and suck out the marrow - then spit the broken pieces of bone back onto his plate.

Weird as frick...and super disgusting.

Posted by RockAndRollDetective
Baton Rouge
Member since Mar 2014
4506 posts
Posted on 9/14/16 at 2:12 pm to
I'm not easily grossed out by other people's eating techniques nor am I particularly concerned with being polite. Because... you know... I'm not a bitch. This sounds like bitch problems to me. No offense...
Posted by Carson123987
Middle Court at the Rec
Member since Jul 2011
68233 posts
Posted on 9/14/16 at 2:17 pm to
quote:

"sucks the flavor out" (his words), and spits them out "to avoid calories"


Posted by ChewyDante
Member since Jan 2007
17230 posts
Posted on 9/14/16 at 2:24 pm to
quote:

I'm not easily grossed out by other people's eating techniques nor am I particularly concerned with being polite. Because... you know... I'm not a bitch. This sounds like bitch problems to me. No offense...


None taken.

Hey cool truck nuts too bro. They go well with your peeing Calvin sticker.
Posted by Bmath
LA
Member since Aug 2010
18919 posts
Posted on 9/14/16 at 2:28 pm to
My old boss ate some form of pickled fish every day. The break room smell was bad enough, but his afternoon shits would clear the back hallway. Funny thing is that he always liked to use the woman's designated restrooms. They are single holers, but it was quite upsetting to several of the ladies.
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