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re: Is jealousy healthy in a relationship?
Posted on 10/8/18 at 11:29 pm to NOLATiger163
Posted on 10/8/18 at 11:29 pm to NOLATiger163
I think some men like other men ogling their girlfriend or wife
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Posted on 10/8/18 at 11:47 pm to Tunasntigers92
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It seems like some would be, but too much means clinger
A clinger may be jealous, but some clingers are just needy.
Posted on 10/8/18 at 11:48 pm to Jim Rockford
Or both
Posted on 10/8/18 at 11:49 pm to Tunasntigers92
A little jealousy now and then isn't bad. It shows the fire is still there.
Posted on 10/8/18 at 11:49 pm to Tunasntigers92
No. It will kill a relationship. Trust is mandatory.
This post was edited on 10/9/18 at 12:01 am
Posted on 10/8/18 at 11:50 pm to Gris Gris
But isn’t a little ok?
Posted on 10/8/18 at 11:52 pm to Tunasntigers92
My folks have been married for 40 someaught years. I can tell you for certain they don’t get jealous. Probably haven’t since the 70’s.
Posted on 10/8/18 at 11:53 pm to tigersownall
Well I’m sure at some point jealousy fades
Posted on 10/8/18 at 11:57 pm to Tunasntigers92
No. A little is not okay. Jealously is lethal.
Is a little distrust okay?
Is a little distrust okay?
This post was edited on 10/8/18 at 11:58 pm
Posted on 10/9/18 at 12:01 am to Tunasntigers92
I suspect you’re really really young and naive.
Posted on 10/9/18 at 12:02 am to Tunasntigers92
I don’t know. In their case I really don’t think there ever was anyone. In all honesty each probably thought no one else would put up with the other so why even worry.
Posted on 10/9/18 at 12:03 am to Gris Gris
I don’t see a need for personal insults, I’m not young, but one could certainly argue I am naive.
Posted on 10/9/18 at 12:06 am to Tunasntigers92
Not insults. Facts based on your statement.
Posted on 10/9/18 at 2:42 am to Tunasntigers92
When I was younger, I used to think it was good. I thought being over protective was a positive, and if the girl was jealous, it meant she cared more.
Now that I'm older, it's just silly. Life is MUCH better when you're comfortable, relaxed, and she trusts you 100%.
Now that I'm older, it's just silly. Life is MUCH better when you're comfortable, relaxed, and she trusts you 100%.
Posted on 10/9/18 at 3:26 am to Tunasntigers92
Jealousy lets me know they care
Posted on 10/9/18 at 4:14 am to Tunasntigers92
If I think I have a legitimate reason to be jealous then that is a sign I shouldn't be in that relationship. If you are dating a hot girl she probably gets hit on 15 times a day.
Posted on 10/9/18 at 6:18 am to celltech1981
Maybe at first there will be some jealousy, but long term it's a relationship killer. Poster that talked about trust hit the nail on the head, you have to have trust and jealousy means you don't have it.
Posted on 10/9/18 at 8:15 am to NOLATiger163
jealousy will kill your relationship and drive you crazy.
Posted on 10/9/18 at 8:29 am to Tunasntigers92
I find women cute when they are jealous, if they try to do something sexy to take your attention off of whatever they are being jealous of.
Not if they get irrationally crazy if you even talk to another girl. Or look at one. Those are awful.
Not if they get irrationally crazy if you even talk to another girl. Or look at one. Those are awful.
Posted on 10/9/18 at 8:34 am to Tunasntigers92
I was once in a relationship with a woman who turned out to be extremely jealous as our relationship progressed. I saw this as a serious red flag and eventually ended it.
She did the old "I'm going to test him" thing one night when I was out waiting for friends to show up for some games of pool and a few beers. I got to the bar early and grabbed a table and a beer and was just knocking balls around when this very nice looking young lady came up and started talking to me. She wanted to play a few games and I said OK and then one thing led to another and before long she was hinting we needed to go someplace more private. I explained to her I was already in a relationship and didn't think it would be appropriate.
It wasn't until a couple weeks later my then girlfriend informed me she had set the whole thing up to see if I'd go for it. Well, that was that and I ended it. I don't have the time or patience for stupid games.
She did the old "I'm going to test him" thing one night when I was out waiting for friends to show up for some games of pool and a few beers. I got to the bar early and grabbed a table and a beer and was just knocking balls around when this very nice looking young lady came up and started talking to me. She wanted to play a few games and I said OK and then one thing led to another and before long she was hinting we needed to go someplace more private. I explained to her I was already in a relationship and didn't think it would be appropriate.
It wasn't until a couple weeks later my then girlfriend informed me she had set the whole thing up to see if I'd go for it. Well, that was that and I ended it. I don't have the time or patience for stupid games.
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