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re: Is it me or is the swinger movement growing like crazy?
Posted on 5/15/24 at 12:59 pm to RobbBobb
Posted on 5/15/24 at 12:59 pm to RobbBobb
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The level of cuckoldry in the US is beyond staggering
I do wonder how much and often it occurs that men develop this fantasy after years and years of watching porn but discover that when the shaft hits the hole so to speak, they've now gotten themselves into way more than they bargained for. Basically a "fantasy" that becomes reality and the reality of the fantasy sucks........No pun intended.
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Posted on 5/15/24 at 1:00 pm to Oates Mustache
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The "shared interests" part only increases the risk.
100%. If a man has a wife and she's anything better than an ogre, you can be assured that there are men that come across her that have thought about banging her. That's not really even an issue to me, if you have a pretty wife, people will want to bang her........It's when she has an inkling to bang back that things get dicey.
This post was edited on 5/15/24 at 1:01 pm
Posted on 5/15/24 at 1:02 pm to Robin Masters
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A frat brother of mine wanted me to frick his wife about 20 years ago. I was going to do it but she got too drunk and passed out.
They are probably swingers now.
It is an odd mindset. Most guys with hot wives like it when other men visually check the wife out. It is an ego stroke.
The "frick my wife" guys go one step further: "If you think she looks hot, just imagine how you'll feel if you take her for a test drive."
They feed on the feedback.
Posted on 5/15/24 at 1:06 pm to chinhoyang
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It is an odd mindset. Most guys with hot wives like it when other men visually check the wife out. It is an ego stroke.
The "frick my wife" guys go one step further: "If you think she looks hot, just imagine how you'll feel if you take her for a test drive."
They feed on the feedback.
I read an article one time that mentioned for men who consume porn for long periods of time, they essentially have trained their brain to get off on watching rather than being in the midst of the act. They spend years and years getting arousal from watching someone else have sex with a woman. Once they get married, they still find that thrill except they find it in reality instead of digital land. Idk if it's necessarily accurate but the theory does make some sense to me.
This post was edited on 5/15/24 at 1:08 pm
Posted on 5/15/24 at 1:09 pm to chinhoyang
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Most guys with hot wives like it when other men visually check the wife out.
yep, and that's where the line is drawn
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The "frick my wife" guys go one step further:
nope, ain't happening, my wife is pretty quick witted and funny though, and can talk smack with the best of them, more than a couple have mistaken this as flirting or a come on
Posted on 5/15/24 at 1:13 pm to JiminyCricket
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I read an article one time that mentioned for men who consume porn for long periods of time, they essentially have trained their brain to get off on watching rather than being in the midst of the act. They spend years and years getting arousal from watching someone else have sex with a woman. Once they get married, they still find that thrill except they find it in reality instead of digital land. Idk if it's necessarily accurate but the theory does make some sense to me.
Wow that makes more sense than anything else i've heard.
Posted on 5/15/24 at 1:14 pm to JiminyCricket
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That's not really even an issue to me, if you have a pretty wife, people will want to bang her.....
Truth, there's nothing you can do about that. It starts getting dicey when guys want to be friends with her, start showing her attention, and breaking down the protective barriers your marriage has in place.
To put it plainly, they shouldn't be texting, calling each other, etc.
No Facebook bullshite like messenger.
No one on one lunches, dinners, etc.
I'm sorry, I guess to some it seems controlling (like ronricks) but given enough grooming and attention, guys have perfected the art of seduction and know exactly what emotional tools to use to get a woman (even married) to drop their panties. People are so damn naive.
This post was edited on 5/15/24 at 1:16 pm
Posted on 5/15/24 at 1:17 pm to Corriente Kid
Most men aren’t and the ones who are okay with it are the one who are fricking lots of other women. Such as Johnny Sins, but that normally doesn’t happen
Posted on 5/15/24 at 1:20 pm to Corriente Kid
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I can never understand how a man is ok with some other dude screwing his wife. I just can't fathom the thought
Ditto.
Must be porn brain.
If I even had a sneaking suspicion my wife wasn’t faithful, even in her thoughts, I’d want to burn it all down (figuratively) and raise the black flag.
Posted on 5/15/24 at 1:23 pm to ronricks
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All the little dicks on here down voting because their wife or girlfriend has eyes for Jody or Kadeem
FYI you make every thread worse and don’t add anything useful.
Posted on 5/15/24 at 1:24 pm to Oates Mustache
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Truth, there's nothing you can do about that. It starts getting dicey when guys want to be friends with her, start showing her attention, and breaking down the protective barriers your marriage has in place. To put it plainly, they shouldn't be texting, calling each other, etc. No Facebook bullshite like messenger. No one on one lunches, dinners, etc. I'm sorry, I guess to some it seems controlling (like ronricks) but given enough grooming and attention, guys have perfected the art of seduction and know exactly what emotional tools to use to get a woman (even married) to drop their panties. People are so damn naive.
Yup.
You hang out at the barbershop long enough eventually you’re gonna get in the chair for a haircut.
I started chatting on Instagram with an old girlfriend several years ago who was happily married to a rich husband. She had two kids and a seemingly perfect life. Talked all the time about how great her husband was and how much she loved him. Took about two months and she was masterbating during our texts and sending me pics and videos of her self. It happened very quickly and I was stunned. I kept it up longer than I should and I’m not proud of that but it will absolutely happen if you start down the road.
Posted on 5/15/24 at 1:24 pm to chinhoyang
quote:well, those guys are frickin nuts
The "frick my wife" guys go one step further: "If you think she looks hot, just imagine how you'll feel if you take her for a test drive."
Posted on 5/15/24 at 1:25 pm to AirbusDawg
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Jerking off to People magazine does not count as having sex with women.
Literally laughed out loud.
Posted on 5/15/24 at 1:34 pm to Robin Masters
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You hang out at the barbershop long enough eventually you’re gonna get in the chair for a haircut.
I started chatting on Instagram with an old girlfriend several years ago who was happily married to a rich husband. She had two kids and a seemingly perfect life. Talked all the time about how great her husband was and how much she loved him. Took about two months and she was masterbating during our texts and sending me pics and videos of her self. It happened very quickly and I was stunned. I kept it up longer than I should and I’m not proud of that but it will absolutely happen if you start down the road.
Thanks for sharing this, this is exactly what I'm talking about. Most women, even the strongest of willed, can be manipulated given enough access, time, and charisma. Your story is the tale as old as time.
You have to have barriers in place. Social media has destroyed quite a few of them, inherently, by just existing as a medium of communication.
This post was edited on 5/15/24 at 1:35 pm
Posted on 5/15/24 at 1:43 pm to Oates Mustache
If your wife is going to cheat or leave you locking her in the house from the outside world and allowing her no access to other humans isn't going to stop it. If they want to leave they will regardless of any 'controls' you try to put on them. That's what makes this so funny. They are more likely to seek out other people when trying to be suppressed.
Posted on 5/15/24 at 1:44 pm to Cromulent
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You really are a full of shite 16 year old. What a loser you are.
Why are you so mad?
Posted on 5/15/24 at 1:44 pm to beebefootballfan
Can’t say I know or care what other people do with their sex lives
This post was edited on 5/15/24 at 1:45 pm
Posted on 5/15/24 at 1:46 pm to ronricks
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If your wife is going to cheat or leave you locking her in the house from the outside world and allowing her no access to other humans isn't going to stop it. If they want to leave they will regardless of any 'controls' you try to put on them. That's what makes this so funny. They are more likely to seek out other people when trying to be suppressed.
I've never said I lock her up in the house. Your exaggerated responses like this are a bad take. Maybe it's because you're engaging in meaningless sex with 500 women, and nothing deeper, you don't understand how or why we put barriers in place. You should though, because if 500 is your sex count, you've likely charmed the pants off a few married chicks, maybe unknowingly.
Let me put in a simple question. Do you think, given enough access to a happily married woman, you could over time convince her to cheat. Pretty straight forward.
This post was edited on 5/15/24 at 1:50 pm
Posted on 5/15/24 at 1:53 pm to Oates Mustache
Its as simple as respect.
If your wife respects you, she will not fall out of line.
If your wife respects you, she will not fall out of line.
This post was edited on 5/15/24 at 1:53 pm
Posted on 5/15/24 at 1:55 pm to ronricks
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That's what makes this so funny. They are more likely to seek out other people when trying to be suppressed.
I disagree 100%. If you act like it’s ok they will convince themselves that you don’t care and are neglecting them. Which will lead to them assuming you are cheating. With that justification they will be open to all sorts of manipulation that ultimately leads to them getting raw dogged by Jody.
Obviously there is a line between overprotective paranoid jealousy but having firm boundaries will not lead to her having affair. It won’t necessarily keep her from having an affair if she’s so inclined but no way it causes an affair.
This post was edited on 5/15/24 at 1:56 pm
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