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Posted on 1/14/20 at 12:13 am to NoSaint
The few online single trans ppl I’m friends with are very forthcoming with their background. I honestly wouldn’t want to be in their shoes, I.e. being single and trying to date.
Posted on 1/14/20 at 12:19 am to NWarty
Aren’t you our resident TDer that’s transitioning? I’d be really interested on your take, when you date someone are you forthcoming from the start or is it obvious?
Posted on 1/14/20 at 12:23 am to DavidTheGnome
I am but I’m married. I’ve seen the texts from my friends between them and someone else about going on a date and they’ll say upfront that they’re trans, usually it’s “no thanks, not my bag, but good luck”. So usually the guys are at least nice about it.
Posted on 1/14/20 at 12:31 am to NWarty
When you got married have you already transitioned or was that brought up while already married?
Posted on 1/14/20 at 12:33 am to NWarty
I would feel extremely violated if it got sexual and I wasn't told.
Posted on 1/14/20 at 12:41 am to DavidTheGnome
No, I was married for 15 years before I came out and began my transition 1.5 years after that (started Oct 2018). Our relationship is solid and we love each other deeply. It’s difficult and complex though and we take it one week at a time. My wife’s a pretty incredible woman.
This post was edited on 1/14/20 at 12:43 am
Posted on 1/14/20 at 12:44 am to Jcorye1
I would agree
ETA: I’ll try to catch up in the morning.
ETA: I’ll try to catch up in the morning.
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Posted on 1/14/20 at 1:16 am to DavidTheGnome
I’m surprised at he number of people in that thread that say no there isn’t a moral obligation to disclose it and some replied that it’s no ones business. The one caveat they’d use is for their own safety, they fear being beaten if the other person were to find out. That’s a strange life to live imo.
Posted on 1/14/20 at 2:16 am to DavidTheGnome
I totally care about this on a night like tonight!!!
Clown!
Clown!
Posted on 1/14/20 at 3:35 am to JetsetNuggs
A natal woman who can’t bear children is never required to disclose that information, so there’s no reason why trans people should have to do it. You’re allowed to have sex and keep stuff like that to yourself. It isn’t an STD.
Posted on 1/14/20 at 4:00 am to DavidTheGnome
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Is an HIV infected person legally required to disclose it?
Yes
Posted on 1/14/20 at 6:20 am to Powerman
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Is an HIV infected person legally required to disclose it?
quote:
Yes
Not in California.
They acted like it was a big win. "YAY! We can spread a fatal disease and not tell our victims."
The warped mind of the liberal.
Posted on 1/14/20 at 6:23 am to DavidTheGnome
Mentally ill people should definitely disclose their mental illness
Posted on 1/14/20 at 8:08 am to Darth_Vader
To be fair thats all women and some men.
Posted on 1/14/20 at 8:31 am to DavidTheGnome
There nothing "interesting" about mental illness and deceptive behavior.
Posted on 1/14/20 at 8:41 am to DevilDogTiger
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There is really no such thing as trans. - science
If you’ve been misled by the person, your dick does not know nor care. That is what this discussion is to me. This is not a political topic in this context. This is a real world, my dick is hard application. You are in that moment and you’ve been completely fooled. Would you like to know right then or a day or two before?
My vote is a day or two before. I will still be pissed and embarrassed. But it is a whole other level when your pants are off.
I was actually shocked by the first quote/paragraph of the OP. Seemed very reasonable for a trans person.
Posted on 1/14/20 at 10:53 am to xiv
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A natal woman who can’t bear children is never required to disclose that information, so there’s no reason why trans people should have to do it.
A woman who can't bear children is still a woman. A trans woman is not actually a woman; he is a man.
It's not remotely the same thing.
Posted on 1/14/20 at 10:55 am to DavidTheGnome
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Is an HIV infected person legally required to disclose it? And is that by state or federally? Never thought about it
Are you aware of anything outside of your reddit copy/paste bubble?
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