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re: I'm almost willing to pay someone to date my ex

Posted on 12/10/14 at 12:32 pm to
Posted by Austin Cajun
Austin, Tejas
Member since Aug 2013
1884 posts
Posted on 12/10/14 at 12:32 pm to
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Also, very weak/immature of you to divorce her during the first signs of struggle. I guess so much for 'til death do us part.' Plus you have a kid. How are you going to explain that to him/her? "Sorry, Timmy, your mom was boring to me, I had to leave."


We were together for 14 years dumbass. How the hell did you come to the conclusion that I jumped ship at the first signs of struggle?

It amazes me how much crap some of you can come up with and twist words around.
Posted by mkibod1
South of the Donna Dixon Line
Member since Jan 2011
4744 posts
Posted on 12/10/14 at 12:36 pm to
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You can't compare what happened with my ex to my current girlfriend, nothing relates or translates between them


False. There is a common denominator here... Thus lies the problem.
This post was edited on 12/10/14 at 12:37 pm
Posted by Boomtown
Member since Jan 2014
1986 posts
Posted on 12/10/14 at 12:40 pm to
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so far this week I've managed to play 4 softball games

you keep running those fly balls out, hoss
Posted by TygerTyger
Houston
Member since Oct 2010
9553 posts
Posted on 12/10/14 at 12:40 pm to
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It amazes me how much crap some of you can come up with and twist words around.



Dude, are you new here? This is the OT way. This group will go for the jugular and pick apart every single word you post, drawing conclusion with almost zero logic in an attempt to slam you and make you look like shite. It's interet hate and e-courage in its worse form. The worst thing you can do is continue to try to argue rationally with us. All you're doing is chunking chum in the water.
Posted by LSU Piston
The 313
Member since Feb 2008
3844 posts
Posted on 12/10/14 at 12:50 pm to
Don't get mad.

Divorcing someone because you are not 'compatible' is so mind-numbing it is hard to even wrap my head around it. Because, you know, when you begin dating, that should be the one thing you should be examining - "Can I grow old with this person?"

Then you add a child in the equation.

When you bring another human being into this world, you are basically reaffirming your commitment to your spouse and your new family unit. But hey, she bores you now, bro. All bets are off, right?

Maybe something to think about the next time you ground out to the shortstop.
Posted by Austin Cajun
Austin, Tejas
Member since Aug 2013
1884 posts
Posted on 12/10/14 at 12:51 pm to
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Dude, are you new here? This is the OT way. This group will go for the jugular and pick apart every single word you post, drawing conclusion with almost zero logic in an attempt to slam you and make you look like shite. It's interet hate and e-courage in its worse form. The worst thing you can do is continue to try to argue rationally with us. All you're doing is chunking chum in the water.


I know, yet I fall for the shite every time. I'm just not one to bite my tongue when someone tries to go after me.
Posted by Weaver
Madisonville, LA
Member since Nov 2005
27803 posts
Posted on 12/10/14 at 12:52 pm to
Pics bro or I am not doing it.
Posted by Bunk Moreland
Member since Dec 2010
56532 posts
Posted on 12/10/14 at 12:52 pm to
You ditched your wife so you could play more softball. It's all good.
Posted by Austin Cajun
Austin, Tejas
Member since Aug 2013
1884 posts
Posted on 12/10/14 at 12:53 pm to
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you keep running those fly balls out, hoss


Didn't say I was doing anything special. Just using that as an example in the difference of lifestyle.
So I chased fly balls why you were doing what? Sitting on the couch farting and scratching your balls.
Posted by chryso
Baton Rouge
Member since Jul 2008
12266 posts
Posted on 12/10/14 at 12:53 pm to
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She's lazy and just wants to sit on the couch all day.


So she gained weight and got lazy.

It sounds like she may have a thyroid problem. With some meds she could be back to her old self.
Posted by KLSU
Baton Rouge
Member since Sep 2003
10461 posts
Posted on 12/10/14 at 12:58 pm to
Good luck with that
This post was edited on 12/10/14 at 1:01 pm
Posted by SoDakHawk
South Dakota
Member since Jun 2014
8900 posts
Posted on 12/10/14 at 12:59 pm to
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Don't get mad.

Divorcing someone because you are not 'compatible' is so mind-numbing it is hard to even wrap my head around it. Because, you know, when you begin dating, that should be the one thing you should be examining - "Can I grow old with this person?"

Then you add a child in the equation.

When you bring another human being into this world, you are basically reaffirming your commitment to your spouse and your new family unit. But hey, she bores you now, bro. All bets are off, right?

Maybe something to think about the next time you ground out to the shortstop.


This and I also think it is obvious that he was out screwing around on her while she was at home taking care of the kid. Guarantee he was out and about, hitting the bar with his buddies after the game, came across all sorts of strange that he had to keep turning down because he was married. Finally, decided she was boring and he was going to do what he wanted. Hooked up with a few girls, realized he still had game and could do this and then divorced her.

If you don't want us telling you the truth don't post personal information on a board like this.
Posted by boddagetta
Moulton
Member since Mar 2011
10004 posts
Posted on 12/10/14 at 12:59 pm to
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So I chased fly balls why you were doing what? Sitting on the couch farting and scratching your balls.


& also not running out on his wife and kid.
Posted by mkibod1
South of the Donna Dixon Line
Member since Jan 2011
4744 posts
Posted on 12/10/14 at 1:00 pm to
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I understand that just because someone is nice doesn't mean you are compatible with them.


You are about a day late and dollar short with such ground breaking intelligence. Sorry you did not realize this concept in elementary school like most folks.
Posted by mkibod1
South of the Donna Dixon Line
Member since Jan 2011
4744 posts
Posted on 12/10/14 at 1:01 pm to
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My freaking Ex does the same thing. I try and be nice since we have a kid together but frick you wanted to leave me but you still want my advice for everything and come over and fix crap. frick that shite..


For you good sir, I pray she does find someone else and soon. If a woman has the nerve to initiate the separation, yet still asks for husbandly duties, shame on her.
Posted by LSUZombie
A Cemetery Near You
Member since Apr 2008
29072 posts
Posted on 12/10/14 at 1:02 pm to
It's obvious that you still hit it occasionally when you go to "fix" stuff around her house.
Posted by Austin Cajun
Austin, Tejas
Member since Aug 2013
1884 posts
Posted on 12/10/14 at 1:08 pm to
Holy shite, you guys have gone full retard now. All I can do is laugh. Hope you get it out of your system before you see your families at Christmas. If not, they will try to make you wear a helmet.
Posted by mkibod1
South of the Donna Dixon Line
Member since Jan 2011
4744 posts
Posted on 12/10/14 at 1:17 pm to
In your illustrious sports career, did you sustain many concussions? That may explain your inability to understand why 4 or 5 random posters say the same thing about you based on what has been posted in this thread.
Posted by SabiDojo
Open to any suggestions.
Member since Nov 2010
84204 posts
Posted on 12/10/14 at 1:21 pm to
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I actually don't mind it, but she takes it beyond what it should be.

We are cordial, we don't fight or argue at all. We get along better now than we did when we were married. She just needs someone to occupy her thoughts so that she will forget about me.


I can understand that. Lots of people who are already divorced can't seem to "emotionally" divorce themselves from their spouse.

My wife's ex does it all the time. He is incredibly cruel towards her and tries to play games with her (they have a child together, my stepdaughter). He is very petty and passive aggressive. During their marriage, he viewed her as property, and it's hard for him to let that mindset go.

It sucks you're going through this. Maybe you should just have a sit down with her and talk it out. It may give her closure.
Posted by dukke v
PLUTO
Member since Jul 2006
206857 posts
Posted on 12/10/14 at 1:22 pm to
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She needs someone bone her hard and let it sit in there and marinate for a while.


At your service.............
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