re: If given the option, all men would prefer to date a 25 year old woman over a 35 year old.

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Deep Purple Haze

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Hey, you turned me down.

No need to keep embarrassing me...

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I could not imagine actually dating a young woman

Dealing with our young staff at females is painful from a conversation standpoint

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I'm lucky that the few times I've dated women who were significantly younger than me, that we had a lot in common and it really wasn't an issue. However, I have met a lot of women in their mid to lower twenties whom while physically attractive made me think that if I had to interact with them longer than chatting occasionally with a mixed mutual friend group at a bar one night that I would be tempted to shoot myself, but I've also met many women over 30 who have triggered a similar reaction.

I don't care about kids so that's out. 25 year olds are immature as frick and most of them don't even have a stable job yet. I'll take the 35 year old all day

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25 year old women look much better on average than 35 year old women. 25 year old women are much more fertile than 35 year old women. So if you get to the point where you want to start a family, the 25 year old is the safer bet. If a 35 year old woman gets pregnant it is a geriatric pregnancy. 25 year old women have less emotional baggage and are more fun to be around also. The only reason a man might pretend that he would prefer to date a 35 year old is because he knows he is less desirable and cannot attract a 25 year old. This man will say that he has nothing in common with a 25 year old or that 35 year olds are more mature. He is only saying this to save face.

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All of this is true. Every man in his 30’s and 40’s should never date any woman over the age of 30.

Solid advice.

Why would I care if my date has a stable job (beyond the obvious red flag career choices like MLM, stewardess, stripper, and onlyfans model)? She's not going to be paying for anything when I invite her out, that's my job. Unless her career is especially interesting, works a schedule that makes it hard for us to interact, or she's super passionate about it, I could not give less of a f&%k if she works some faceless corporate desk job vs hawks cheap crap at a mall kiosk. I care that she's interesting to talk to, nice to me (and others), that our long term goals/values are aligned (or if uncertain, are definitely not in conflict), and that we have fun together. If I'm doing things right, the financial burden is going to fall on me, and I'm good with that. If she works a job providing great income and a solid work/life balance, that's a bonus, but it's just not nearly as important as her personality or how she treats me.

Do women really think that I'm going to pick a mean, contrarian, and entitled woman over someone who is kind, compassionate, and grateful just because she's a middle manager at a small accounting firm? These women need a reality check.

He was dumped by a 35 year old dude maybe

Yeah, but there is a significantly increased chance that those kids will be

Oh good!

You’re back.

Did you ever go back and reread my statement? Do you grasp what I was saying now?

Or do you just want to call any woman an unwed whore

You are extremely obsessed with kids in this thread. Are women just incubators for you? Or are you jealous you can’t birth them yourself?

I mean, there’s a significant chance that YOUR kids will be.