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I think my wife is being selfish

Posted on 8/26/18 at 10:08 pm
Posted by Tyga Woods
South Central Jupiter Island, FL
Member since Sep 2016
42886 posts
Posted on 8/26/18 at 10:08 pm
She has been spending many extra hours working at home. Nobody else at her place of work brings as much home. Volunteers for everything (kids school, church, etc) while bitching about how tired and stressed she is because of it. Creates a huge mess with projects, shrapnel everywhere from her shopping adventures, all of her fricking clothes everywhere...and then has the audacity to bitch about the house being in shambles. She’s a good mom, but most days I end up taking the kids to school and picking them up in the afternoon. She used to be fun but now she doesn’t really want to go anywhere or do anything that doesn’t involve one of her volunteer projects or work or church. What the deal is?

Inb4 she’s cheating, sorry you have a small penis, maybe she’s a lesbian, etc.
Posted by BigPerm30
Member since Aug 2011
32429 posts
Posted on 8/26/18 at 10:08 pm to
She’s very giving with me.
Posted by Cosmo
glassman's guest house
Member since Oct 2003
132600 posts
Posted on 8/26/18 at 10:08 pm to
I see a meltdown on the horizon
Posted by tgrbaitn08
Member since Dec 2007
148031 posts
Posted on 8/26/18 at 10:09 pm to
Maybe you’re just boring and she’s not interested in you.
Posted by Tigersaint09
St Petersburg
Member since Dec 2013
1128 posts
Posted on 8/26/18 at 10:10 pm to
Sorry bro she has a lover now and it just so happens to be me
Posted by Bard
Definitely NOT an admin
Member since Oct 2008
60196 posts
Posted on 8/26/18 at 10:10 pm to
Maybe try talking to her about this to her instead of the OT?
Posted by SUB
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Member since Jan 2009
26279 posts
Posted on 8/26/18 at 10:10 pm to
I know you jest but it’s a serious question to ask why she doesn’t want to spend more time with you. That keeps a marriage alive. Y’all need to have a talk about priorities.
Posted by Muthsera
Member since Jun 2017
7319 posts
Posted on 8/26/18 at 10:11 pm to
RIP Tyga
Posted by JonTigerFan11
Member since May 2016
893 posts
Posted on 8/26/18 at 10:11 pm to
She’s gonna club you with a 4 iron bro
Posted by BRgetthenet
Member since Oct 2011
118270 posts
Posted on 8/26/18 at 10:11 pm to
How old is she?
Posted by sgallo3
Lake Charles
Member since Sep 2008
28300 posts
Posted on 8/26/18 at 10:11 pm to
i bet if you hired a hot nanny she would find ways to be around more often
Posted by Judge Smails
Native Son of NELA
Member since Mar 2008
5572 posts
Posted on 8/26/18 at 10:12 pm to
Posted by Tyga Woods
South Central Jupiter Island, FL
Member since Sep 2016
42886 posts
Posted on 8/26/18 at 10:12 pm to
quote:

Maybe you’re just boring and she’s not interested in you.


That’s possible. But I’m not bitching about not getting attention or affection or whatever...I just want her to do her job as a member of this household. She hasn’t always been this way. Started about 2 years ago and has progressively gotten worse.
Posted by Pecker
Rocky Top
Member since May 2015
16674 posts
Posted on 8/26/18 at 10:12 pm to
She doesn’t respect that you have options. Takes you for granted. Just assumes that she can get in her own bubble and that you’ll be there when she gets out.

We all go through phases like that but they’re usually short and we snap out of it. She doesn’t really give af about you right now.
Posted by Tyga Woods
South Central Jupiter Island, FL
Member since Sep 2016
42886 posts
Posted on 8/26/18 at 10:13 pm to
quote:

How old is she?


Mid 30’s
Posted by OweO
Plaquemine, La
Member since Sep 2009
122525 posts
Posted on 8/26/18 at 10:13 pm to
You have to have a sit down with her bro. Tell her your side of it. Ask her why does she volunteer for everything and all she wants to do is work, volunteer and go to church. Tell her you want to get out and be more social and have fun, let yall hair down..

Really, that's the first step. From there it depends on her response.

Also, i will tell her to leave my house earlier. She comes over on Tuesday & Thursdays. I'll make sure she picks the kids up this week.
Posted by Tyga Woods
South Central Jupiter Island, FL
Member since Sep 2016
42886 posts
Posted on 8/26/18 at 10:14 pm to
quote:

Maybe try talking to her about this to her instead of the OT?


Usually ends in an argument and I’m the a-hole
Posted by tiger114
Fairhope, AL
Member since Sep 2009
5235 posts
Posted on 8/26/18 at 10:14 pm to
Probably still mad about you banging all those Perkins waitresses and porn stars.
This post was edited on 8/26/18 at 10:15 pm
Posted by BigPerm30
Member since Aug 2011
32429 posts
Posted on 8/26/18 at 10:15 pm to
quote:

She doesn’t respect that you have options. Takes you for granted. Just assumes that she can get in her own bubble and that you’ll be there when she gets out. We all go through phases like that but they’re usually short and we snap out of it. She doesn’t really give af about you right now.


Ame, Pecker. He needs to assert his dominance. Seems like he’s her whipping boy right now. What do you suggest? Flirting with a couple OT 6s in front of her? Maybe getting in the gym and losing a few lbs?
Posted by Tyga Woods
South Central Jupiter Island, FL
Member since Sep 2016
42886 posts
Posted on 8/26/18 at 10:15 pm to
quote:

Also, i will tell her to leave my house earlier. She comes over on Tuesday & Thursdays. I'll make sure she picks the kids up this week.


Very thoughtful of you.
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