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re: I Refused To Help a Sr Manager from Another Department

Posted on 6/20/25 at 2:24 pm to
Posted by FightinTigersDammit
Louisiana North
Member since Mar 2006
45677 posts
Posted on 6/20/25 at 2:24 pm to
If your posts are any indication, you don't add value to anything.
Posted by Syd
Member since Sep 2012
4509 posts
Posted on 6/20/25 at 2:28 pm to
Damn 14 pages.

Those fries aren't going to cook themselves.
Posted by jizzle6609
Houston
Member since Jul 2009
17098 posts
Posted on 6/20/25 at 2:28 pm to
Very unreasonable.

The help would’ve went a long way with the big bosses.
Posted by The Scofflaw
Metairie, LA
Member since Sep 2014
1890 posts
Posted on 6/20/25 at 2:28 pm to
Do you roll up to the CFO? If you do, then it doesn't matter what you think. Follow orders, or ship out.
Posted by JEC119
Alabama
Member since Apr 2024
2077 posts
Posted on 6/20/25 at 2:59 pm to
quote:

Am I being unreasonable?


You act like you’re the owner of this company…. You’re not so guess what?
Posted by mcpotiger
Missouri
Member since Mar 2005
8812 posts
Posted on 6/20/25 at 3:14 pm to
Sounds like you are being a dick and just wanting the guy to look bad.
Posted by SoFlaGuy
Fort Lauderdale
Member since Apr 2020
2343 posts
Posted on 6/20/25 at 3:32 pm to
Egos are killer. Check yours.
Posted by DakIsNoLB
Member since Sep 2015
1234 posts
Posted on 6/20/25 at 3:40 pm to
I'm all for people earning their salary. My play would be help this new Sr. Manager get through the process on this one, but that's it. At that level, they have take responsibility for picking up what you're putting down so you can focus on your job.

Also agree with others stating this is moment to bank some brownie points for helping out. A "you can be right or do the right thing" scenario.
Posted by BestBanker
Member since Nov 2011
18862 posts
Posted on 6/20/25 at 4:57 pm to
quote:

Am I being unreasonable?


No.
Posted by CR4090
Member since Apr 2023
7917 posts
Posted on 6/20/25 at 4:58 pm to
Nope.
Posted by rintintin
Life is Life
Member since Nov 2008
16940 posts
Posted on 6/20/25 at 5:24 pm to
The "that's not my job" people are the fricking worst and should have no avenue for promotion.

It screams pettines and immaturity.

Step up and be a valuable asset. If you're not rewarded for it down the line THEN go find another job where you're valued (which shouldnt be a problem if you're as valuable as you think you are).


Posted by ChickennBiscuits
San Francisco
Member since Nov 2019
360 posts
Posted on 6/21/25 at 10:12 am to
quote:

This newly promoted employee has 10 years in the company, and makes as much as the Sr Manager, despite lacking several qualifications/experienced.


The way so many people claim to know exactly how much others earn….
Posted by Shorts Guy
BR
Member since Dec 2023
475 posts
Posted on 6/21/25 at 10:18 am to
quote:

Am I being unreasonable?


If you’re not helping out of bitterness or resentment, yes.

If due to limited bandwidth, no.

If it’s the second one, your own manager should be stepping in to back you up in your decision now that the CFO has inserted themself. If they don’t, look for a new job at a company where leaders go up to bat for their team members.

Wanting to help and being able to help are different things. You can’t always sacrifice your performance goals so that someone else can achieve theirs.
This post was edited on 6/21/25 at 10:22 am
Posted by FightinTigersDammit
Louisiana North
Member since Mar 2006
45677 posts
Posted on 6/21/25 at 11:04 am to
The more you do, the more you will be asked/ordered to do. If I have to do someone else's work, I want their money.
Also, if the Sr Manager can't do the job they are bring paid to do, they should be fired as soon as it is discovered they are incapable of doing the job.
Posted by rocksteady
Member since Sep 2013
2323 posts
Posted on 6/21/25 at 11:08 am to
Name checks out
Posted by Lou Loomis
A pond. Ponds good for you.
Member since Mar 2025
879 posts
Posted on 6/21/25 at 11:09 am to
Do you care about your company at all? The “thats not my job” attitude is the attitude of a McDonald’s worker.

I’m sure the assistance they are asking you for is temporary, which makes your attitude even more childish. If one of my employees refused to do something I told them to do, I would can their sorry butt.
This post was edited on 6/21/25 at 12:41 pm
Posted by LSU0358
Member since Jan 2005
8082 posts
Posted on 6/21/25 at 11:32 am to
quote:

that's not my job


This phrase is a career killer.

Something along those lines can be used if you're being asked to do something beyond your area of expertise and can mess something up (ie I never touch electrical), but "that's not my job" is never spoken aloud. Throw some humor in. "Do you want it a little messed up or way messed up?

Posted by IamNotaRobot
OKC
Member since Nov 2021
1407 posts
Posted on 6/21/25 at 11:51 am to
I would’ve handled it differently. They asked you to help someone. Wasn’t anything retarded either like picking up trash or attending an outside work event.
Posted by renola7
Member since Aug 2019
112 posts
Posted on 6/21/25 at 12:07 pm to
Ask how much you are compensated, politely.
Posted by tilthatday
New Orleans
Member since Mar 2009
969 posts
Posted on 6/21/25 at 12:35 pm to
The word is stupid not unreasonable. You were given the chance to shine and you refused. Why? You say it’s because have certain expectations? That’s stupid. It’s equally stupid to lose the opportunity to work closely with senior management. Who knows, they may have liked you and your work and advanced your career. Not now. Wonder what they think of you now.
Stupid.
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