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re: I found out I have a 10 year old son - Update Page 10
Posted on 4/27/16 at 8:27 am to BallCoachinFool
Posted on 4/27/16 at 8:27 am to BallCoachinFool
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any advice?
Need pics of step dad please.
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Posted on 4/27/16 at 8:27 am to PT24-7
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So you suspected you had a child but chose not to fight for him bc it might effect your career? Jeez
Or because I would be in prison.
Look man, I get you are perfect. I admitted I handled this all wrong.
Posted on 4/27/16 at 8:28 am to BallCoachinFool
Ignore the haters. You're doing the right thing 
Posted on 4/27/16 at 8:28 am to PT24-7
You'd be better off giving the money to the step dad and letting him start a college fund for his kid. You were simply a sperm donor. Don't make this kid's life any more confusing. if the kid wants to meet you, let him seek you out when he gets older. Until then, I'd keep your distance.
Posted on 4/27/16 at 8:28 am to The Pirate King
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If this is for real, you're an idiot for posting this ahead of the upcoming trial.
It's okay, geauxjudge doesn't post here anymore.
Posted on 4/27/16 at 8:31 am to PsychTiger
I wouldn't even ask for advice on toilet paper from this place....
Posted on 4/27/16 at 8:31 am to BallCoachinFool
I'm about to say something that will piss off libs but here goes. Why the frick get an abortion instead of putting the baby up for adoption.
And damn, wear condoms.
And damn, wear condoms.
Posted on 4/27/16 at 8:33 am to Tiger Ryno
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Tiger Ryno
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Need pics of step dad please.
Seems legit.
Posted on 4/27/16 at 8:34 am to guttata
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f the kid wants to meet you, let him seek you out when he gets older
The kid has started asking questions. He asked step dad what I look like, what my name is and how can he get in touch with me. It is not like I pursued this. They reached out to me and I am thankful for this opportunity.
Posted on 4/27/16 at 8:37 am to BallCoachinFool
Everybody on TD is an expert on every situation. Don't you know that by now?
Good luck to you though.
Good luck to you though.
Posted on 4/27/16 at 8:37 am to BallCoachinFool
1st, props to you for trying to make this right.
2nd, for the life of me, I can't figure out why people come to this board that is full of 20 somethings, single guys, divorcees, older single guys that obviously have issues, otherwise would have kids by now if there weren't red flags about them (give or take a few that decide not to have children) for real life advice. This board of FULL of lack of family/kids experience. Just take a look at the first page to figure that out.
2nd, for the life of me, I can't figure out why people come to this board that is full of 20 somethings, single guys, divorcees, older single guys that obviously have issues, otherwise would have kids by now if there weren't red flags about them (give or take a few that decide not to have children) for real life advice. This board of FULL of lack of family/kids experience. Just take a look at the first page to figure that out.
Posted on 4/27/16 at 8:37 am to BallCoachinFool
Posted on 4/27/16 at 8:40 am to Prominentwon
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full of 20 somethings
I'm closer to 40
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This board of FULL of lack of family/kids experience
raising two amazing kids (16 & 13)
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older single guys
married
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guys that obviously have issues
guilty as charged
Posted on 4/27/16 at 8:42 am to Tigeralum2008
I didn't say "every" poster.
Posted on 4/27/16 at 8:43 am to BallCoachinFool
Listen to your lawyer.
Frankly I see nothing good coming out of this for you or the child.
Frankly I see nothing good coming out of this for you or the child.
Posted on 4/27/16 at 8:43 am to BallCoachinFool
I've gotta add some more to this thread. I feel sorry for anyone that gets mixed up with this chick.
More than anything I feel sad for this young man. It breaks my heart for him to feel like he does.
You're a real stand up guy for doing this.
More than anything I feel sad for this young man. It breaks my heart for him to feel like he does.
You're a real stand up guy for doing this.
Posted on 4/27/16 at 8:50 am to Tempratt
If it was my child I would slowly build a relationship with him.
If you are truly a college graduate with a steady job and a decent head on your shoulders you might be the positive influence this kid will need in the future
If you are truly a college graduate with a steady job and a decent head on your shoulders you might be the positive influence this kid will need in the future
Posted on 4/27/16 at 8:50 am to BallCoachinFool
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I can not imagine how difficult I would have it today if there was a rape arrest on my record, even if I was proven innocent.
Yes; if you're proven innocent the public would still think of you as a rapist. And I seriously doubt anyone would've worked to prove you weren't guilty. It only works the other way around.
Posted on 4/27/16 at 8:50 am to 3en
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Good on you for at least reaching out and that was nice about the collage fund.
Posted on 4/27/16 at 8:53 am to BallCoachinFool
I'm certainly no expert on the situation and don't think I have ever stayed in a Holiday Inn Express, but if there is not a 100% chance beyond any doubt that he is your child you could be embarking on the biggest mistake you could ever make for you and the child.
This alone would make me question whether you are. I've been trying to think of anyone I know who's kids look like them or ever did and can't think of any. I didn't look like my father. My brother didn't look like me or our dad. Of all my four brothers and sisters none of us looked like our parents and everyone I grew up with that I can think of was the same.
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4 or 5 years down the road I see a picture of this child. There is no doubt he is my seed. Same everything, you could put my childhood pictures in with his and it would be difficult to tell who was who to a stranger.
This alone would make me question whether you are. I've been trying to think of anyone I know who's kids look like them or ever did and can't think of any. I didn't look like my father. My brother didn't look like me or our dad. Of all my four brothers and sisters none of us looked like our parents and everyone I grew up with that I can think of was the same.
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