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re: How to deal with a naggy SO?
Posted on 4/9/22 at 12:19 pm to VolsOut4Harambe
Posted on 4/9/22 at 12:19 pm to VolsOut4Harambe
Either quit or submit
Posted on 4/9/22 at 12:29 pm to VolsOut4Harambe
First time I read this, I thought it said "saggy" ans almost suggested a gym membership.
Oddly, that could be a response to the OP.
Oddly, that could be a response to the OP.
Posted on 4/9/22 at 12:31 pm to Vamos Brandonos
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Maybe before you bail you take a long deep look at your own behavior in the relationship. If you're not willing to do that then it tells a lot about you and her behavior is probably more understandable.
Probably the only good advice in this entire thread
Posted on 4/9/22 at 12:33 pm to VolsOut4Harambe
Wait until she calls you manipulative. If you look carefully, you can see the strings attached to her fingers that she is puppeteering your arse with.
Posted on 4/9/22 at 12:38 pm to TheIndulger
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Maybe before you bail you take a long deep look at your own behavior in the relationship. If you're not willing to do that then it tells a lot about you and her behavior is probably more understandable.
Probably the only good advice in this entire thread
Possibly great advice or terrible advice depending on the man. If he hasn't been pulling his weight in terms of the total relationship and labor involved in supporting and caring for a family then it is great advice.
But if he's operating on a mistaken impression about what women (and his partner in particular) really want then the introspection won't help because he's operating on a foundation of incorrect beliefs.
Posted on 4/9/22 at 12:41 pm to VolsOut4Harambe
Ever consider you're the problem?
Your post history about relationships sure infer that.
LINK
Your post history about relationships sure infer that.
LINK
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She wasn't being herself that week due to stress from work and the upcoming trip, and I was a little frustrated that she wasn't really putting out. So I asked point-blank why she hadn't been putting out much lately. For some reason it really struck a nerve with her and she said she didn't feel the same after that.
This post was edited on 4/9/22 at 12:42 pm
Posted on 4/9/22 at 2:41 pm to Fat and Happy
quote:Same here. Dated for 2 yrs, got engaged, turned in to a five year engagement. Initially had to reschedule wedding due to a bunch of craziness from venue director, then Covid, etc. Anyway, just trying to frame why it was 5 yrs....it wasn't because I hadn't gone all in.
This is why, after over 4 years since my divorce, plus the year prior of separation, i still have zero desire to be in a serious relationship or marriage.
I don’t have nagging in my life
But the nagging and bitching....you buy a house together and really learn. Enough. Thats been two years ago and I don't miss a second of it.
Women always complain about there not being good men out there. No, there are plenty of us. We just don't feel compelled to put up with your constant bullshite just so we can have some sex now and again. Newsflash: your vagina isn't a golden ticket and you aren't that special that "if you can't handle me at my worst then you don't deserve me at my best." That horseshite attitude right there has ruined an entire generation of women.
Posted on 4/9/22 at 3:18 pm to UKWildcats
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Women always complain about there not being good men out there. No, there are plenty of us. We just don't feel compelled to put up with your constant bullshite just so we can have some sex now and again. Newsflash: your vagina isn't a golden ticket and you aren't that special that "if you can't handle me at my worst then you don't deserve me at my best." That horseshite attitude right there has ruined an entire generation of women.
That, and also whoever invented the phrase “happy wife happy life” deserves to be shot in the face.
Twice.
Posted on 4/9/22 at 3:26 pm to BestBanker
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Just happened at 830 this morning...
My lovely bride asked me which dinner reservations to take; 7 or 7:45? I said to take the 7. Without hesitation, she says that's too early (mind you that I'm reading this thread when this happened. )
Also this morning:
Her: “we can drive to MS (for a day trip) and also pick up some seafood”
Me: cool yeah there’s that seafood market place between Pass Christian and Gulfport.
H: I don’t know where you’re talking about.
M: we’ve been there 2-3 times before.
H: I don’t want Royal Reds.
M: who said anything about Royal reds?
H: sometimes you don’t know where you’re going.
M: what? We have both been there before. Nevermind.
Wtf.
Posted on 4/9/22 at 4:36 pm to VolsOut4Harambe
I'm sure she was this way before you married her. You saw the signs and chose to push forward.
Tell her to stop, if not tell her to kick rocks
Tell her to stop, if not tell her to kick rocks
Posted on 4/9/22 at 4:42 pm to VolsOut4Harambe
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How to deal with a naggy SO?

Posted on 4/9/22 at 4:46 pm to VolsOut4Harambe
Since this is the OT, you sleep with her sister. And mom.
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