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re: How racist am I being?

Posted on 9/22/16 at 9:20 pm to
Posted by Bad Medicine
Member since Aug 2014
3575 posts
Posted on 9/22/16 at 9:20 pm to
Not racist at all. Tell them she doesn't want to play and that they need to stop coming over immediately.
Posted by Croacka
Denham Springs
Member since Dec 2008
61451 posts
Posted on 9/22/16 at 9:20 pm to
Sounds just like the neighborhood in Denham I just moved out of

Posted by Asgard Device
The Daedalus
Member since Apr 2011
11562 posts
Posted on 9/22/16 at 9:22 pm to
quote:

How does your daughter feel about the situation? Does she actually like these kids?


She said they bother her and wouldnt leave her alone. I tell the kids to go home. They come back a knocking the next day when I'm not home.

Posted by UptownnMike
Uptown New Orleans
Member since Aug 2015
4129 posts
Posted on 9/22/16 at 9:23 pm to
You related that qb that used to play for Northwestern?
Posted by Geaux-2-L-O-Miss
Between Your Ears
Member since Aug 2005
3943 posts
Posted on 9/22/16 at 9:24 pm to
Protection is not racist.

A few years back there was a "white" boy (11 at the time) that lived across the street. Good family in a good neighborhood. He came over a couple of times to play with our 12 yr old son, our daughter was 10 at the time. After the second time he came over we had a weird feeling about this kid and the way he acted toward our daughter. Told our kids that the daughter could never go to his house to play. He came over a few more times before they moved but we never let him out of our sight.

We did not feel comfortable with this kid and were not taking any chances. Your instincts are usually right and better safe than sorry.

A group of boys that age need to be hanging with boys and leave little girls they don't know alone (regardless of the races involved).
Posted by Hangit
The Green Swamp
Member since Aug 2014
47674 posts
Posted on 9/22/16 at 9:24 pm to
You already told them you do not want them there. When they try to argue let them know it is not open to discussion.

If they show up again be firm, while not being a dick.

You do not owe anybody an explanation about decisions you make for your daughter's well being.
Posted by Rouge
Floston Paradise
Member since Oct 2004
138832 posts
Posted on 9/22/16 at 9:27 pm to
I wouldn't want my daughter to be in the snow bunny training academy

I respect your proactive moves
Posted by secondandshort
Member since Jan 2014
1109 posts
Posted on 9/22/16 at 9:28 pm to
What neighborhood? There are not many desegregated neighborhoods in Denham. Most AA live in the same part of the city.
Posted by efrad
Member since Nov 2007
18704 posts
Posted on 9/22/16 at 9:28 pm to
quote:

She said they bother her and wouldnt leave her alone. I tell the kids to go home. They come back a knocking the next day when I'm not home.



If she doesn't want to have anything to do with them and they bother you, then it doesn't matter the color of their skin: run them the frick off.
Posted by tgrbaitn08
Member since Dec 2007
148031 posts
Posted on 9/22/16 at 9:29 pm to
quote:


They come back a knocking the next day when I'm not home.



They don't respect you. You should have a man to man talk with their father
Posted by kwalt1989
Life is great in the 318
Member since Oct 2014
789 posts
Posted on 9/22/16 at 9:30 pm to
I'm having a daughter in February and this type of situation is keeping me up at night. Regardless of race, I knew what my intentions were at that age. Good luck homie
Posted by Geaux-2-L-O-Miss
Between Your Ears
Member since Aug 2005
3943 posts
Posted on 9/22/16 at 9:36 pm to
One last story about the little boy "gang mentality". Back in the mid 90's my wife was teaching at Greenville Elementary on N. Forster just north of Greenwell Springs. They had a back to school night and one of her 2nd graders lived a few blocks away and walked to the school for back to school night (no parent). On her way home 4 boys aged 13-17 gang raped this poor little 8 year old girl. This ruined this little girls life before it had really started and took a toll on my wife as her teacher.

I'm not saying this is their plan but it is probably closer to what they are thinking than playing Barbie or what ever it is 11 y.o. girls play these days.

Good luck. Family is always first.
Posted by Asgard Device
The Daedalus
Member since Apr 2011
11562 posts
Posted on 9/22/16 at 9:37 pm to
quote:

What neighborhood? There are not many desegregated neighborhoods in Denham. Most AA live in the same part of the city.


It's not in the city of Denham Springs but it's on the mailing address. Almost in Walker, actually.

It's a white neighborhood with only a few black families. Lots of trashy white people and plenty that don't seem trashy at all. It's desegregated in that it spans a wide range of professions. These homes were around $140k to $160k when they were built 6 to 10 years ago so they were affordable to a wide range of families and now people are asking $160k to $190k because they didn't flood. Most of these homes are 1500 to 1800 sqft if I had to guess.

Nice big bathrooms tho!
This post was edited on 9/22/16 at 9:40 pm
Posted by LewDawg
Member since May 2009
77724 posts
Posted on 9/22/16 at 9:38 pm to
Sounds like you need to fear for your life in the near future
Posted by tgrbaitn08
Member since Dec 2007
148031 posts
Posted on 9/22/16 at 9:40 pm to
quote:

On her way home 4 boys aged 13-17 gang raped this poor little 8 year old girl. This ruined this little girls life before it had really started and took a toll on my wife as her teacher.

I'm not saying this is their plan but it is probably closer to what they are thinking than playing Barbie or what ever it is 11 y.o. girls play these days.


I'm sure he'll sleep like a baby now

Damn that's fricking horrible
Posted by sleepytime
Member since Feb 2014
3931 posts
Posted on 9/22/16 at 9:42 pm to
quote:

What neighborhood? There are not many desegregated neighborhoods in Denham. Most AA live in the same part of the city.


Southpoint maybe?
Posted by Asgard Device
The Daedalus
Member since Apr 2011
11562 posts
Posted on 9/22/16 at 9:44 pm to
quote:

On her way home 4 boys aged 13-17 gang raped this poor little 8 year old girl. This ruined this little girls life before it had really started


My daughter will be supervised 100% of the time while here. She shares a bedroom currently with 3 younger kids. my wife and her mom who also flooded are also at home with the kids full time.
This post was edited on 9/22/16 at 9:50 pm
Posted by The Quiet One
Former United States
Member since Oct 2013
12169 posts
Posted on 9/22/16 at 9:48 pm to
quote:

How racist am I being?


The choice between ensuring safety/security of your child and someone's feelings is not a choice. WGAF what people think?

However, I would explain my action to my daughter in your case. Everyone else can eat shite.
Posted by SG_Geaux
Beautiful St George, LA
Member since Aug 2004
80814 posts
Posted on 9/22/16 at 9:54 pm to
quote:

How racist am I being?


Sounds like responsible parenting to me.
Posted by MorbidTheClown
Baton Rouge
Member since Jan 2015
76771 posts
Posted on 9/22/16 at 9:54 pm to
if you have to ask....
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