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re: How much to spend on engagement ring?

Posted on 5/6/17 at 9:41 am to
Posted by Major Dutch Schaefer
Location: Classified
Member since Nov 2011
38225 posts
Posted on 5/6/17 at 9:41 am to
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That'd be a $30,000 ring.



Posted by GeauxLSUGRL
Member since Nov 2014
764 posts
Posted on 5/6/17 at 9:41 am to
Honestly have a discussion with her about you hoping that one day y'all will reach that milestone and that you would like her input on what she likes. Such as which color band (gold, rose gold, silver) and what cut and setting. Go look with her at a jewelry store just to try things on so that YOU have an idea of what SHE likes. Some women like the surprise but some women also wish they got to help choosing it. A really good place is by the mall next to Red Lobster. Not too pricey either. If she likes smaller rings like I did then u won't be paying over 10g for sure. Mine was about 5g and I was able to help and still be just as surprised :) hope that helps.
Posted by Barney Rubble
Hattiesburg MS
Member since Oct 2010
825 posts
Posted on 5/6/17 at 9:42 am to
I just got engaged and used a website called Rare Carat. You will save about 25-40% as opposed to going to a brick and mortar jewelry store. But that's just for the stone. You'll need to buy the band/setting separately. But I had a great experience with them.
Posted by yellowfin
Coastal Bar
Member since May 2006
98756 posts
Posted on 5/6/17 at 9:42 am to
If you make 120k you better spend more than 8 grand on a ring
Posted by Grandioso
Driftwood, TX
Member since Dec 2015
1597 posts
Posted on 5/6/17 at 9:42 am to
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Here is my problem, I don't like to spend money on a rock that cost $1.75 to dig out the ground.


Posted by DupontsCircle
Dupont Circle
Member since Jun 2016
5823 posts
Posted on 5/6/17 at 9:42 am to
I suppose you're correct. It's not her I'm talking about.

I just don't want her to be talked about and be ran through the gutter by friends and family. I don't want that for her.
Posted by Paul Allen
Montauk, NY
Member since Nov 2007
77798 posts
Posted on 5/6/17 at 9:43 am to
More than $5,000 but less than $17,000
Posted by Rouge
Floston Paradise
Member since Oct 2004
138173 posts
Posted on 5/6/17 at 9:43 am to
Luckily mom Rouge has her wholesale license and can get diamonds for her Jewish friends in new York

The appraisal value on rings is nuts. Can pay 12k for a ring and get it appraised at close to 30k
Posted by DupontsCircle
Dupont Circle
Member since Jun 2016
5823 posts
Posted on 5/6/17 at 9:43 am to
I live in DC. That's practically minimum wage up here.
Posted by DupontsCircle
Dupont Circle
Member since Jun 2016
5823 posts
Posted on 5/6/17 at 9:44 am to
Thanks. I appreciate the recommendation
Posted by TigerintheNO
New Orleans
Member since Jan 2004
44148 posts
Posted on 5/6/17 at 9:44 am to
while it is not an investment it also isn't a car, its a diamond, the value won't depreciate.

If you are making 10 grand a month like you claim, buy her a nice diamond you can afford it.
Posted by shotcaller1
Member since Oct 2014
7501 posts
Posted on 5/6/17 at 9:45 am to
What you can afford. A woman of value will not care about the price.

Not sure if she should even know the cost
Posted by moneyg
Member since Jun 2006
62048 posts
Posted on 5/6/17 at 9:47 am to
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That'd be a $30,000 ring. Not happening.



15K would be about the right amount IMO.
Posted by the LSUSaint
Member since Nov 2009
15444 posts
Posted on 5/6/17 at 9:48 am to
Get her a top quality CZ and call it a day.

Not one human being you see while wearing it has a chance in he'll knowing it's not a diamond.

fricking diamond rings are THE most ignorant purchase made by men today.
Posted by SCndaBR
BR
Member since Dec 2015
517 posts
Posted on 5/6/17 at 9:48 am to
It doesn't have to be a diamond. You could go a gem stone route. If y'all are open about the situation just talk to her about it.
Posted by Tbonepatron
Member since Aug 2013
8462 posts
Posted on 5/6/17 at 9:48 am to
6k now, let her upgrade for your 10 yr anny.
Posted by yellowfin
Coastal Bar
Member since May 2006
98756 posts
Posted on 5/6/17 at 9:49 am to
More reasoning to buy her a nice ring
Posted by UltimaParadox
North Carolina
Member since Nov 2008
51354 posts
Posted on 5/6/17 at 9:51 am to
quote:

while it is not an investment it also isn't a car, its a diamond, the value won't depreciate.


Somewhat true... Most jewelry is worth less than half of what it appraises for. So especially if you buy it from any jewelry store, the reality is that you would be lucky to sell that diamond ring for 25 to 50% of what you paid.
This post was edited on 5/6/17 at 9:55 am
Posted by Dont_Call_Me_RAY
Member since Feb 2017
1439 posts
Posted on 5/6/17 at 9:55 am to
Half of everything you got..eventually.
Posted by pwejr88
Red Stick
Member since Apr 2007
37597 posts
Posted on 5/6/17 at 9:56 am to
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You can find an incredible ring for $5k

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