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re: How much time is appropriate to wait to start dating again after a spouse dies?

Posted on 3/26/26 at 7:16 pm to
Posted by Ryan3232
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Posted on 3/26/26 at 7:16 pm to
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I would wait a year to hit the punani if my wife died. It’s only 12 months.
is 11 months and 3 weeks good with you? Or is she still a tramp whore for not waiting another week?
Posted by offshoretrash
Farmerville, La
Member since Aug 2008
10770 posts
Posted on 3/26/26 at 7:16 pm to
They had a 30 year marriage it was something stable in her life. Maybe she's lonely and wants the companionship.

I don't remember how long my dad waited after my mother died but I do know he was about to go crazy living alone. He wanted someone there to live life with.
Posted by BluegrassBelle
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Member since Nov 2010
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Posted on 3/26/26 at 7:16 pm to
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Who said I’m getting mad?


Do you even read your own posts?

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Plus I have a better idea of whether or not she is getting dicked down by randows than somebody over the internet. I actually know this woman.


Who cares if she is? She’s not cheating on him. He’s dead.

Posted by CaptainsWafer
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Member since Feb 2006
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Posted on 3/26/26 at 7:17 pm to
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Who said I’m getting mad?


Every post you have in this thread. You really do sound mad.
Posted by Gusoline
Jacksonville, NC
Member since Dec 2013
10935 posts
Posted on 3/26/26 at 7:18 pm to
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It’s disrespectful to the deceased


Lets go ask them how they feel about it.

Til death do us part. Dont remember there being any +months at the end.

I waited a year after divorce. I wasnt out there judging and shaming people who didnt wait that long.
Posted by Uga Alum
Member since Jul 2022
6529 posts
Posted on 3/26/26 at 7:18 pm to
How can I sound anything over an Internet forum? That’s completely subjective.
Posted by LemmyLives
Texas
Member since Mar 2019
16086 posts
Posted on 3/26/26 at 7:18 pm to
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randows than somebody over the internet. I actually know this woman.

Oh, I get it. You wanted time to be her rebound.

Take your morality policing BS back to whatever hole you crawled out of, and support the widow and do nothing else. She doesn't deserve to be burdened with judgement from a jackass like you.
Posted by Uga Alum
Member since Jul 2022
6529 posts
Posted on 3/26/26 at 7:20 pm to
She’s a relative, guy. I don’t want to be her rebound. That’s sick. I live in Georgia. Not Mississippi.
Posted by nicholastiger
Member since Jan 2004
55960 posts
Posted on 3/26/26 at 7:20 pm to
How hot is the new date?
Posted by BluegrassBelle
RIP Hefty Lefty - 1981-2019
Member since Nov 2010
108006 posts
Posted on 3/26/26 at 7:20 pm to
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How can I sound anything over an Internet forum? That’s completely subjective.


You called a widow who was married for 30 years with three kids a whore because she’s dating 6 months later.

That’s a bit of a tell.
Posted by Uga Alum
Member since Jul 2022
6529 posts
Posted on 3/26/26 at 7:22 pm to
She is acting like a whore. And I’m not mad just because I say that.
Posted by OLDBEACHCOMBER
Member since Jan 2004
7611 posts
Posted on 3/26/26 at 7:23 pm to
My son in laws dad waited 1 month. His wife was dieing for about 6 months
.
Posted by danilo
Member since Nov 2008
25708 posts
Posted on 3/26/26 at 7:24 pm to
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my wife’s family really thought that was inappropriate.

Oh well. frick their opinions
Posted by BluegrassBelle
RIP Hefty Lefty - 1981-2019
Member since Nov 2010
108006 posts
Posted on 3/26/26 at 7:24 pm to
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She is acting like a whore.


Again, how so?

She’s a single woman dating. She’s not cheating on anyone. It sounds like she stayed with her husband for 30 years until he passed and raised multiple kids with him (so, did her wifely “duty”).
Posted by tide06
Member since Oct 2011
23304 posts
Posted on 3/26/26 at 7:25 pm to
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Wow some strong feelings here make it seem like you don’t really want actual opinions.

Or he’s a little jealous of something.
Posted by Jim Rockford
Member since May 2011
105295 posts
Posted on 3/26/26 at 7:26 pm to
Coming up on 15 months for me and no interest in getting back out there. Probably never will tbh.

I have a cousin who lost her husband and at the end of each day she says "one day closer." That's pretty much how I feel. She was my person and nobody else would compare.
Posted by Uga Alum
Member since Jul 2022
6529 posts
Posted on 3/26/26 at 7:26 pm to
I think it is whorish behavior to sleep with multiple dudes within a year of your husband’s death. That’s my opinion.

You seem to be mad that is my opinion. Is there a person experience behind your anger?
Posted by Banned
Member since Feb 2026
331 posts
Posted on 3/26/26 at 7:26 pm to
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She is acting like a whore. And I’m not mad just because I say that


Is she acting like a whore because she's dating after 6 months or is she doing something you're not telling us?
This post was edited on 3/26/26 at 7:30 pm
Posted by BluegrassBelle
RIP Hefty Lefty - 1981-2019
Member since Nov 2010
108006 posts
Posted on 3/26/26 at 7:26 pm to
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How hot is the new date?


For her sake, I hope he’s a lovely salt and pepper gentleman that opens her door for her.
Posted by CaptainsWafer
TD Platinum Member
Member since Feb 2006
59315 posts
Posted on 3/26/26 at 7:26 pm to
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She is acting like a whore. And I’m not mad just because I say that.


Tell us exactly what she’s doing then and let us decide.

Going on dates with guys as a single woman is not acting like a whore.
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