re: How many of you can relax?

Dude. I’m divorced, have approximately $960,000 and weed. Playing Skyrim. I’m pretty relaxed. My ex is living in a trailer with her third husband. Supposedly 3 is the charm.

I think you mean can you be still, and not do anything. Not thinking about what you are going to do, or day dreaming, or hunting or fishing, or sitting in a sauna, reading, tinkering ,or looking at your phone. Truly exercising control over their consciousness. And most not only don’t but are incapable of being over taken by the thoughts that pop up in their head. It’s a byproduct of consumerism, creating a feverish need to experience everything and harms attention spans . And creating feelings of inadequacy when not productive.

Not sure if true.

We are far enough from city noises that quiet can happen.

Just being able to sit, watch the trees in a light breeze, a pet to stroke, a spouse somewhere else (no interruptions), slightly sweetened iced tea with mint, Yes, I can relax, but sometimes I have to work to plan it.

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No I don't work 16 hours a day, man. I have children, man.

I said my job is stressful not unmanageable. I also get paid handsomely for what I do.

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I have children too, why does having children mean you have zero free time in the evening?

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I said my job is stressful not unmanageable

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You're not managing something correctly if your only time to yourself is 15 minutes a day right when you wake up.

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I have children too, why does having children mean you have zero free time in the evening?

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The question was how much time can you totally disconnect apart from kids work etc. Do you not spend time with your children? Help with chores around the house? Homework? Sports? Dinner?

I have practice to attend, homework to help with, dinner to cook amongst other thigs. Then I workout 8-930. Shower and bed. Any more questions?

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ou're not managing something correctly if your only time to yourself is 15 minutes a day right when you wake up.

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I have plenty of time to myself. I have little time where I'm not thinking about my job, family, business, and future businesses. All I need is 15 minutes alone in my own thoughts in the morning.

I'd imagine if you don't give a shite about your career, family, or future life you'd have plenty of time alone in your head.