re: How Long Have You Been The Current You?

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You should start being just another dick bag who doesn't take something I did like 8 months ago so serious.

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You should start thinking about being true to your word. Standing behind what you say shows character; and you showed none.

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Was there any major events that made you look at life different, etc?

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Yar

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You’re getting downvoted just bc it’s you, but this is actually a legit question. I was thinking about it this morning. We’re always changing, but it really wasn’t until I was about 34 before I fully knew myself. I understood and became comfortable with my own nuances and idiosyncrasies. I really wish I had matured to this point before college. I’d have gone a totally different route.

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This is what I am looking for!

Sometimes I wonder how things would be today if I was who I am now, when in was in my early to mid 20s.

Is there the female equivalent to that book?

I won't hate on your thread, it could be a legit discussion.

Who I am and what my views are currently have drastically changed over the last decade.

I used to think life was perfect, I was very blessed at a young age to live a very good life. When I was 28 my life went to shite. My sister committed suicide, my dads alcoholism got out of control, and my mom sunk into a deeper depression than ever. Both my parents died of cancer this year. So it's been rough to say the least, probably a broken record at this point on the board though.

But in that same time I struggled to get pregnant and spent years and a lot of sanity trying until it finally worked.

So at this point I have so much loss that the current me is broken. But also current me has so much greatness. I'm in a weird spot. I'm giving myself a few more months to find a new normal me.

Is that a relatable situation?

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You take the actions on a MB really serious.

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Says the guy who spends all day here.

Weird motherfricker

<3

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I am as well, I like to think that most people evolve as they get older. Some people don't and some people completely change. There are people I know who are the same exact person they were when they were a teenager. Of course they have a job, a family, etc but who they were, what they were.. they are still that same exact person. For some reason there is something fascinating about it.

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no one cares.