re: How do you tell your gf or SO that you’d like her to shed a few pounds?

Tell her that you feel like you need to lose a few pounds but don’t want to do it alone

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You start looking for another because she will leave you if you do.

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but before she does, she will lose all that weight, get toned and fit, then go get a boob job using your money, all the things she will never do for you, but will do to be a slut whore bar fly.

if she loves you she wont leave you, if she really doesnt love you then she wont lose thew weight, if she really does love you then she will lose the weight. its really that simple, but as stated, you better do the same that you are asking of her.

Say that your black friend Commandeaux thinks youre fine as frick.

Wash all her clothes in hot water then put them in the dryer right afterwards. She’ll be disgusted, thinking she gained weight and will want to do something about it.

You start exercising by means of gym, walking, bike riding, etc.

Casually mention that you ran into neighbor, ex, someone's wife and how good they look.

Forgot to add

Say in your conversation with that person they mentioned, Pure Barre, Orange Theory, Yoga, or some other class they were taking.

Then hold on, because it's bout to get real.

Tell her that she’s starting to look more like her mom. Women love that.

I had an ex that got fat.

I started working out and losing weight, I tried to get her to do it with me.

She got offended and relationship went to shite (for multiple reasons including this)

If you’re not married, find someone who takes health as serious as you do. You will thank yourself later, TRUST me.

How much are we taking about?

There should be an understanding at the start of a relationship that excessive weight gain isn't going to be a thing for either party.